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Jas12, I hope you have a great time in France. Where are you going? There are so many cool things to see, but I would also be happy going just to eat. Boy do I miss the pastries.
Robbie, congrats and welcome!
Snlee, I got lots of great feedback to my question about hospital bags on the mommy thread. We are doing our hospital tour tonight, so between the tour and the mommy advice, I should be able to whittle the list.
Mela, thanks – I love Euro clothes too. It’s nice to have variety.
Sbde, thanks. Isn’t it great when someone offers you their seat? I’ve been amazed at how polite and helpful people have been since I started really showing.
LIA, glad to hear your cervix is holding at 1 cm and the Dr. thinks you’ll make it to 36 weeks. I really like Avi, Avram, Jacob and Jonah. Sounds like it is time to make up a shopping list and send DH off to BRU or Target.
Indy, it’s great you can stick with the specialists you like. Yay for zero discordance in the cubs!
Jen, Marina Lily sounds great. I think Sophie Kiana has a lovely ring to it. (Sophie was in my top 5 list, BTW – just love it, although DH preferred the Italian Sophia.)
I suspect that with a current mood disorder you will be more susceptible to the effects of hormones and to PPD etc etc, so being especially vigilent is a really good thing now and in the future! So maybe your feelings now are "normal" preggo hormone things that are heightened by your biological diathesis, and so maybe it isn''t a harbinger of a major depression? It is just so hard to know, even your docs wouldn''t be able to tell you for sure since psychiatry is not an exact science, nor is medicine for that matter! I also wonder whether decreasing your meds to 50mg is all that different from just taking the full dose that has worked for you in the past? Will that small decrease really make a huge difference in reducing potential risk to your baby? I doubt there have been controlled experiments on this, and such reductions are probably just a safety precaution that aren''t necessarily based on hard science. My point is that if you need 100mg to feel stable, and there is no proof that reducing to 50mg is significantly safer than taking 100mg, then you might as well take the 100mg and be a healthy mama for your upcoming child! I would be be very interested to know the actual risk factor associated with this medication, since that will help you make a decision as well. Around 3% is the normal prevelence of abnormalities, so it would need to be statistically significantly more than that to warrant taking a chance with your own personal health and well-being, IMHO.
Keep us posted Pandora, we are here for you!
Kay I was just reading up on this type of thing and they said that error rates in such measurements past 28 weeks are very high, meaning that those measurements could indeed be off by 1-2 weeks! Which is why you were told they are in the "normal range"... you can only think in ranges when the error rate is high so don't put too much stock in the actual numbers! Also, for it to be classed microcephaly, I believe the baby must be more than 6 weeks behind at 20 week, and you are NOT anywhere near that AND with your measurement being taken later the error means your baby is perfectly healthy I am sure!Date: 9/18/2008 10:37:23 AM
Author: Kay
I had my u/s yesterday. She is still head down, and the placenta is to the right, not blocking the cervix, so that is good. I'm at 36 weeks, but she is measuring a little small. The funny thing is that different body parts are measuring at different 'ages.' Her head and abdomen measurements suggest 32-33 weeks, but her femur length was measuring at 35.5 weeks. The doctor said she is small, but within normal parameters, plus the estimates are not completely accurate. My first thought was, at least a small head will be easy to delivery. Of course, once we left the Dr., I started to worry about it. DH mentioned microcephaly, so now I can't sleep. I am hoping she is just a skinny, long-legged thing like I was.
Thanks, Indy! My doc says the heartbeat can be heard at 7 to 8 weeks, so I''m hoping that''s true!Date: 9/18/2008 12:23:47 PM
Author: Independent Gal
Courtney, I can''t say about the vicodin. I would ask your doctor at the appointment, and in a pinch, call your pharmacist! It is a pharmacist''s job to know all about a drug and its risks, and I''ve often found them invaluable. What''s done is done, anyway, but I would definitely try to avoid taking anything you don''t have to until after 12 wks when all the part are there.
In terms of your appt, it''s extremely unlikely that you will hear the heartbeat, since it''s usually not audible until after 10 or 11 weeks. What MIGHT happen is that you get to SEE the heartbeat on an ultrasound. You can actually see that big ol'' heart (and it is huge at that stage compared to the rest of the body) thumping away. If your doc does an u/s, s/he will probably do it up the hooha, since you get a much clearer view that way than a belly u/s that early on. Other things to expect: they''ll probably take a family history. Best to ask your folks and get DH to ask his about any history of birth defects, genetic diseases, sugar issues in pregnancy, any other obgyn issues you''ve had etc. so that you''re ready with the info.
Have fun! Hope you get to see your little one!
Courtney, I take Tramadol for my back - I have spinal stenosis and herniated discs, plus scar tissue from the last ops that is compressing one of the nerves - and the Lamictal also helps with the nerve pain.Date: 9/18/2008 12:14:08 PM
Author: Courtneylub
Hi everyone...it sure is hard keeping up with this board! I wanted to say congrats to everyone here and I''ll try to keep up!
I am 8 weeks today and tomorrow morning is my first appointment. I don''t know all the terms yet, but I''m learning. I get to hear the heart beat and get the blood tests taken. Is there anything else I should expect?
My doctor originally told me that certain medications were ok to take while pregnant. I have back issues and herniated discs and she said it was ok to take a stronger pain pill (vicodin) if needed. I have taken 4 since finding out I''m pregnant and it still worries me. I really want to try not to take anything but tylenol, but it''s such an easy solution when I''m hurting. I don''t have anymore at home, so I''m simply going to refrain from getting any prescriptions and just have DH massage me when needed. Just tell me that the 4 pills I took won''t hurt anything. I feel so guilty for taking anything when there are potential risks...even though not proven.
Maybe they use a special instrument to "hear"it, since you can''t hear it by doppler until the time when Indy mentioned. Seeing it is just a good though, its the same thing. Good luck and have fun!Date: 9/18/2008 12:29:57 PM
Author: Courtneylub
Thanks, Indy! My doc says the heartbeat can be heard at 7 to 8 weeks, so I''m hoping that''s true!
Actually the first trimester isn''t the one that they are concerned about - it''s the final week that they don''t like you taking more than you have to as it can depress the baby''s breathing and make it a bit drowsy.Date: 9/18/2008 12:37:25 PM
Author: Courtneylub
Thanks Pandora!! Whew! That''s what I needed to hear. Even in the 1st trimester too?
I''m still going to stray away from taking them anyways. Your issues seem much more painful than mine.
Thanks dreamer - I feel much happier knowing that.Date: 9/18/2008 1:16:34 PM
Author: dreamer_dachsie
Pandora, I also felt that type of anxiety at times in my first trimester, if that helps at all. I wonder if it is common for ''career woman'' types who may on one level fear negative repurcussions for being pregnoid? I felt much better after I went public with my pregnancy when I was 15 weeks, but prior ot that I had a feeling of impending doom for a while. Turned out the be unfounded, but there is something very odd and exposing about being pregnant for some women, and maybe that is contributing for you? Anyways, I hope your meeting goes well and you feel some relief, even if it is just hearing that going a little mental in the first tri is normal
Quick check in because I can''t seem to drag my a$$ to the mommy thread...Date: 9/17/2008 11:57:49 AM
Author: robbie3982
It''s still really early, but I wanted to pop in and say hi since DH and I found out yesterday that we''re expecting! EDD is May 28th, making me 3 weeks and 6 days. We''re so happy, but everything feels really surreal at the moment. Only symptoms so far are that my boobs have grown a cup size since last week and I''m starting to be able to see some veins on them as well (definitely not road mappy, but visible where there were none before). I thought it was way too early for that, but apparently not. I kind of feel like a faker since I''m not even pregnant enough to get a BFP on a digital yet.
jas, I''ve been thinking about you and the twins! I hope all of you are doing well. We miss you here!Date: 9/18/2008 5:23:09 PM
Author: jas
And also to say that I''m still rooting for y''all (SNLEE, you are so close!!!!) just finding it hard to find more than a nanosecond to post.
Date: 9/18/2008 5:19:48 PM
Author: jas
Quick check in because I can''t seem to drag my a$$ to the mommy thread...