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Shiny_Rock
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- Aug 8, 2006
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My bf and I hadn't really talked about marriage before. I kind of knew that we were both thinking about it, but I didn't want to talk about it this soon, as we have only been together 5 months. He always hinted and made jokes about us getting a place together, he said it would be fun, but nothing about marriage. So a couple days ago, we started casually talking about how we needed a house. We are both musicians, and would like to have a place to play and write, etc. I found some AWESOME deals on houses in a Real Estate book Monday, and asked if he was serious about what we had talked about. He said he was, and we sort of agreed that we would hold off until next summer to start seriously looking, but worked out our budget.
So yesterday we were talking about meeting family, etc. I was upset because he changed his mind about me meeting some of them next week. And at some point, he looked at me and said he was thinking that we would get married. I was in shock, I didn't know how to react, or what to say. We didn't make a goal of when. He asked if we would elope, and a few other questions, but I was too in shock to really talk about it. lol It was just so wierd to say it out loud, even though we both thought about it.
So it's a real possibility that we will be engaged by Christmas 06!!!!! I was sooo excited I just had to share!!!!
So yesterday we were talking about meeting family, etc. I was upset because he changed his mind about me meeting some of them next week. And at some point, he looked at me and said he was thinking that we would get married. I was in shock, I didn't know how to react, or what to say. We didn't make a goal of when. He asked if we would elope, and a few other questions, but I was too in shock to really talk about it. lol It was just so wierd to say it out loud, even though we both thought about it.
So it's a real possibility that we will be engaged by Christmas 06!!!!! I was sooo excited I just had to share!!!!