Devastated....

[EricaR]

I''ve been thinking a lot about you this week, too.

 

[bee*]

I''ll be thinking of you today Freke

 

[scarleta]

Hang in there FC.Thinking about you and sending tons of good wishes your way.Time will help out.Do what you must right now.We are thinking of you often.

 

[CrownJewel]

Freke - best wishes this holiday season. I hope you''re doing ok.

 

[steph72276]

Just saw this post and wanted to wish you my deepest condolences. So sorry for your loss honey...

 

[FrekeChild]

Thanks everyone.

Tomorrow is the enichement (or whatever it is) when the urn is placed into the niche/crypt thingie.

It''s been a long hard road, and it''s not over yet, but I don''t cry every day like I used to.

In a week or so my dad, FI and I are going to go to dinner or something and talk about wedding planning/budget/etc. I hope that will keep everyone occupied and having something happy to think about.

I hope all of you are doing well and enjoying your holiday season!

 

[Fly Girl]

Happy New Year to you and yours, Freke!

 

[anchor31]

I know I''m very late, but I wanted to add my sympathies. I''m very sorry for your loss, Freke. *hugs*

 

[~*Alexis*~]

well I am glad things are going better for you....its nice to have a distraction for it....

keeping busy is my thing too...I hate to sit and dwell on it.

Your mother would be proud of you Freke!!

 

[geckodani]

I was thinking about you Freke, and just wanted to drop in and add some ((HUGS)).

 

[FrekeChild]

Thanks guys. My cousins are splitting up after 23 years of marriage and my cousin (the guy) is going to move in with my dad for a while because the house is just too big for one person and a little dog. So I spent last night up there going through my closet (he''ll be staying in my room) and moving it to the other guest room closet so there is room for his stuff. It was really hard. My mom had moved some stuff into my closet that I didn''t know about, and I found this embroidery thing that she had made for me when I first moved out of their house into my college dorm that read "Call your mother, she worries!!!" and it just made me cry.

Then I went and hunted down my mom''s wedding band and ering to take pictures (I''ll post them somewhere later) and I found a Valentine''s day card that my dad had bought for my mom. It said "I''m the luckiest man in the world because I''m married to you." among other things that I couldn''t read through the tears.

It''s hard...but again, no one ever said this would be easy.

 

[geckodani]

Oh Freke.

((HUGS)) There''s nothing I can say to make you feel better, and I know that. But please know that we''re thinking of you.

Time doesn''t heal big hurts, at least not in my experience. But time will make the pain ... bittersweet, and less stabby, so you can remember and appreciate your mom.

Cherish the memories you have of her.

You and yours are in my thoughts and prayers.

 

[Bia]

(((((((((((((((HUGS)))))))))))))))))

 

[BeachRunner]

I''m very sorry for your loss. I''d be lying if I said I knew how you felt. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.

Oh, and finding that card will help you remember what an amazing mother she was! (although it may be too painful now, It WILL get easier)

(((HUGS)))

 

[DiamanteBlu]

{{{{{HUGS}}}}}

 

[strmrdr]

*hugs* and prayers

 

[Kelli]

The more you tell us about your mom, the more wonderful she seems. I can''t imagine the pain you''re feeling. I hope your wedding planning goes well and you can find things to smile about, as I''m sure she would have wanted.

 

[platinumrock]

Freke, I am so sorry about your loss. I can''t imagine what you are going through, but know that I am thinking of you and hoping that it gets better each day.

HUGS

 

[bee*]

Sending hugs Freke.

 

[FrekeChild]

I just keep getting beat up.

My dog died this morning. The only good thing about it was that my mom didn''t have to go through that with us. It''s 2 months and one day after she died.

Link to the thread I made for him when I got home from the vet...

Here''s my favorite picture of him...

 

[AmberWaves]

Freke, I''m so so sorry for all you have gone through. *HUGS*

Your dog looked like an absolute love.

 

[zhuzhu]

Oh Freke,
I am so very sorry for the passing of your family and pet. I wish I could do something to comfort you. Please be strong and allow time to heal the sadness.
Thinking of you and yours.....

 

[SarahLovesJS]

Wanted to post this on this thread, too..*hugs* and prayers are outgoing for you. Stay strong.

 

[K9]

Freke - my thoughts and prayers to you through these difficult months you''ve had. ***HUGS***

 

[fatafelice]

Oh, Freke, my heart is breaking for you all over again. (((BIG HUGS)))

 

[sunnyd]

Oh my gosh Freke, I''m so sorry about your puppy.

**HUGS**

 

[Harleigh]

Oh, Freke, honey, I am so sorry. Your baby looked like a little love...my mother-in-law and her twin sister both have Corgi''s and they are the sweetest dogs. I''m so sorry you''re hurting so much right now.

Hugs and love, sweetie...hang in there.

 

[FrekeChild]

Awww....thanks ladies. I''m going to miss him like crazy.

We actually went to the pound the other day and adopted a dog--she''s two years old--and she''ll never be a replacement for Judge, and I wouldn''t want her to be, but I love dogs and we had talked about getting one of our own before my mom passed. When my mom passed, we scrapped that idea because we thought there was a chance that we''d have to take Judge in and he didn''t get along that great with other dogs. But now that he''s gone, there wasn''t a reason to hold off from getting a new one...

I miss him a lot.

 

[FireGoddess]

I''m so sorry to hear about Judge, FC. I''m glad that you have a new little one to look after, though of course she won''t replace him. Big hugs.

 

[scarleta]

just wanted to say how sorry I am for your loss.I am sure he is in the clouds high above and it must feel like snow for him.Take comfort in the fact that he had wonderful time with you.He was such a lovely and happy looking dog.
sorry FC and hang in there.One day you two will be reunited.