dreams=intuition or....?

[jcarlylew]

Last night i had a dream that boyf proposed to me. we were sitting down and he showered me with these letter cut outs that spelled "will you marry me". Very Ben Franklin/Michaels scrapebook style. and no ring (we already have a ring). Then he just went about his day like nothing happened.

While i''m not expecting a huge proposal in reallife... with having the ring already and taking away the "surprise" of knowing what i will be getting...am i ruining my (hopefully soon?) proposal??

 

[Bia]

Not at all. Just try to stop overthinking it. You know its coming sooner rather than later so let yourself be in the moment when it happens. He will probably surprise you more than you think. Just to reiterate: Let it happen when it happens. Stop thinking. Soon you''re going to be engaged to the one you love!

Congrats!

 

[jcarlylew]

Right... Stop thinking..

Can you reiterate that with a bat to my head.. .PLEASE???

at least the ring wasnt ugly in my dream!

 

[Lauren8211]

Date: 7/10/2008 2:18:49 PM
Author: jcarlylew
Right... Stop thinking..

Can you reiterate that with a bat to my head.. .PLEASE???

at least the ring wasnt ugly in my dream!

Girl, if you can figure out how to "stop thinking"... PLEASE let me know!

 

[Bia]

I had to! I was driving myself crazy thinking about the ring, the proposal, the place, the time, the everything! I was driving BF batty. I checked myself. Stopped overthinking everything...how? Not sure. Just did. I got busy too though. Working out, going out with friends and checking PS a whole lot.

Now I am semi-cured

Still waiting, but not obsessing.

 

[Dreamgirl]

Date: 7/10/2008 12:43:00 PM
Author: Bia
Just try to stop overthinking it.

ha! Good luck with that!!!!!!!

I agree but darn, its just so hard not to think about it. Especially if he has the ring already!!!! If I knew ff had a ring, I would go NUTS I tell ya!!!!! NUTS!!!!!!!!! lol

 

[Bia]

Date: 7/10/2008 2:53:06 PM
Author: Dreamgirl

Date: 7/10/2008 12:43:00 PM
Author: Bia
Just try to stop overthinking it.

ha! Good luck with that!!!!!!!

I agree but darn, its just so hard not to think about it. Especially if he has the ring already!!!! If I knew ff had a ring, I would go NUTS I tell ya!!!!! NUTS!!!!!!!!! lol

Dream, you''ve toned it down quite a bit, right? Tell her what YOU did to stop going crazy.

 

[Keepingthefaith21]

A long time ago I had a dream my SO was proposing on the beach and a seagull flew down and took the ring right out of his hand and flew away with it as he was proposing. I woke up laughing and still laugh at this dream to this day.

Try not to think too much about it...I know it''s easier said than done but if you can find a few different projects to keep your mind busy, time will pass quickly and who knows you may be so distracted that you will be completely surprised by the proposal.

Off topic a bit but Ben Franklin''s still exist?? I haven''t seen one of those places in YEARS and I miss them!

 

[choro72]

Date: 7/10/2008 2:18:49 PM
Author: jcarlylew
Right... Stop thinking..

Can you reiterate that with a bat to my head.. .PLEASE???

at least the ring wasnt ugly in my dream!

Here is a bat for you...

hee hee. nah, I say don''t feel guilty. Just post away, and keep yourself from throwing your anxiety at your BF!

 

[jcarlylew]

Thank you! I didnt touch the ring last night - maybe its a start. but MAN is it hard!!!!!!!

Oh well! at least i can still look at the pictures that i saved on my computer and cell phone!