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whenharrymetsally

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Do/Did any of you married or BIW''s out there find your FI stressed out about the whole wedding ordeal?? We''ve been together for so long and we rarely argue..if ever..but i''m finding that he seems very moody and seems to be quite worried about this whole wedding thing. Is this normal? Does this go away after a while? Did any of you other ladies experience this? He propopsed and getting married was his idea..i''m begining to wonder if this is a good idea at all. If he''s going to be this way.i''d rather go back to the way we were and just be together without the piece of paper.. ugh..
 
Life''s stresses will come, whether it will be a wedding, work related, or parenting. IMHO a piece of paper has nothing to do with it, and I doubt you will be able to go back to the "way you were." This is the way you ARE and I encourage you to work through it and learn from it.

BTW, this is not a *new* side of your FI...it''s always been there and now is rearing its head. If it''s not the wedding, it WILL be something else.

However, it would probably be worthwhile to sit and have a heart to heart with him and find out what is going on...it may be the wedding, or it may be something totally unrelated. Or maybe he''s not sure...in which case you REALLY want to get on that chat.

If it were as easy as not having that piece of paper, believe me...I''d go burn mine and do some kind of ritualistic jig with incense-a-burnin''!
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