My boyfriend and I are very far along in the process of purchasing an emerald engagement ring from a reputable jeweler in New York. We looked at a lot of very high quality diamonds but ultimately went with a 4 carat emerald which cost $19,000 for just the stone. To the eye the stone looks very lightly included and has a beautiful blue-green color and glow. At the time, the jeweler did not know the origin off the top of his head and did not have any certification documents to show us. He usually works with diamonds but has trusted vendors that he works with for gems. Given how thorough he had been with the diamonds, and how reputable he is, we just assumed that this information would be forthcoming.
Fast forward to today -- the ring is already being set, the deposit has already been paid and we are expecting the ring to be delivered to us by the end of the week. I e-mailed the jeweler to see if he could forward the certification documents and any other information as I was just curious and getting excited for the ring's arrival.
Turns out he says there is no lab report and that this is very common for emeralds. However, this is not what I have been reading online and given the cost of the stone this makes me very uncomfortable.
I am certain that the jeweler will send it to a lab if we request it now, but we are both extremely excited to be getting engaged in time for Valentine's day. Perhaps we could agree to have the jeweler deduct the amount for a lab report from the payment and send it in ourselves in a few weeks after we have enjoyed our 'engagement moment'? I was not planning on wearing the ring every day anyway because of the delicateness of emeralds so I don't think it would bother me too much to part with it for a couple of weeks. Is there any reason that would be a bad idea?
Thanks!!
Fast forward to today -- the ring is already being set, the deposit has already been paid and we are expecting the ring to be delivered to us by the end of the week. I e-mailed the jeweler to see if he could forward the certification documents and any other information as I was just curious and getting excited for the ring's arrival.
Turns out he says there is no lab report and that this is very common for emeralds. However, this is not what I have been reading online and given the cost of the stone this makes me very uncomfortable.
I am certain that the jeweler will send it to a lab if we request it now, but we are both extremely excited to be getting engaged in time for Valentine's day. Perhaps we could agree to have the jeweler deduct the amount for a lab report from the payment and send it in ourselves in a few weeks after we have enjoyed our 'engagement moment'? I was not planning on wearing the ring every day anyway because of the delicateness of emeralds so I don't think it would bother me too much to part with it for a couple of weeks. Is there any reason that would be a bad idea?
Thanks!!