decodelighted
Super_Ideal_Rock
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decodelighted|1290452678|2775654 said:Didjya ever feel like like as you know it is hinging on the outcome of something over which you have NO CONTROL? Gah.
Yssie|1290454085|2775688 said:star - you're right, it's all going in circles!
Glad to hear that you and your BF had a good weekend
Now the other bit - here's my question: does it still bother you because you are hurt, scared, or worried, or does it bother you because you feel he wasn't sufficiently apologetic?
If it is the former - well, I think as young women the pressure is on to be cool by looking independent, not needy, letting it go. The problem, though, is that I don't think we as *humans* can just let go of our pain, fear, and concerns, and usually not voicing how we feel just means we stew silently and eventually resentfully.
We can't change how another person acted in the past, but we *can* let that person know what we need from him/her to make peace with it. In your position I would just tell him point blank that I'm hurt, scared, and worried, quite possibly irrationally and I know it, but I need more reassurance. Everyone has fears and insecurities and admitting them isn't unattractive, it's honest. Dare I say more honest than keeping quiet and suppressing one's own feelings for fear of 'ruining the peace'..
Edit for spelling.
MC|1290453821|2775684 said:My cat jumped up into the closet, knocked down all the blankets and books from the top shelf and everything has been piled up for a week now.
One of the plugs to the heater in my fish's tank accidently was unplugged last night and the tank is next to the window. It's around 29 degrees out and the water was ice cold!
We have 1 cm of snow on the ground and my car doesn't have snow tires. What to do? Grocery shop or not? Venture out into the wild?
bean|1290462543|2775812 said:MC|1290453821|2775684 said:We have 1 cm of snow on the ground and my car doesn't have snow tires. What to do? Grocery shop or not? Venture out into the wild?
1cm of snow? I don't think you need snow tires for that I don't think you need snow tires for even 5 inches!
princesss|1290484177|2776145 said:I really want to make brownie pecan pie.
junebug17|1290484967|2776161 said:Did you ever get the urge to jump in the car and start driving...and never stop? I really feel like doing that right now, just driving for the rest of my life. But I know I'd feel guilty and turn around, and then I'd have to explain to everyone what I had done, and everyone would think I was crazy. And I guess they would be right. But I really don't want to be here right now.
April20|1290516808|2776574 said:The police called at 10:15 last night to say they found my stolen car (gone three weeks). And the damage is "considerable". I guess I'll find out today if I'm happy or sad they found my car.
Yssie|1290500724|2776484 said:princesss|1290484177|2776145 said:I really want to make brownie pecan pie.
I will happily eat your brownie pecan pie. Were you offering?
Strawdermangrl|1290530607|2776745 said:a monster and a venti coffee this morning have me hoovering somewhere around a 10 when a 3 would be more office appropriate.
Good thing I have my own space in the back of the building. LOL. I