I just wanna say -- the random comments thread

[davi_el_mejor]

I'm off to see Kathy Griffin tonight.

 

[that_someone_special]

I'm off to see Kathy Griffin tonight.

OHMYGAWD. I love her. She is hilarious. Have fun!!

 

[that_someone_special]

Strawderman: What other bands do you enjoy?

Muse, Kings of Leon, MGMT, Them Crooked Vultures, Dave, Coldplay, Blitzen Trapper, Interpol, Guster, John Butler Trio, Spoon, Beach House, The Black Keys. To name a few...LOL. I really LOVE Muse, first heard about them last year when they opened for U2- I was completely blown away. Their lead singer could be the mix of Thom Yorke and Freddie Mercury.

What about you?

My taste in music is not nearly as streamlined as yours! They're not grouped by genre, just typed as I thought of them!

Massive Attack, Sigur Ros, CeU, Metric, Our Lady Peace, Nine Inch Nails, Flaming Lips, Snow Patrol, Nirvana, Modest Mouse, Wilco, Smashing Pumpkins, Prodigy, Eagles, Wolf Parade, Linkin Park, The Beatles, Pink Floyd, The Dandy Warhols, Simon & Garfunkel, Sophie Milman, Nikki Yanofsky and lots of smaller funky-jazz bands.

Wolf Parade! I don't know anyone else that has heard of them...

Actually most of that list are in my top faves.

I was a complete NIN lover in HS.. I was so in love with trent reznor

 

[Strawdermangrl]

Strawderman: What other bands do you enjoy?

Muse, Kings of Leon, MGMT, Them Crooked Vultures, Dave, Coldplay, Blitzen Trapper, Interpol, Guster, John Butler Trio, Spoon, Beach House, The Black Keys. To name a few...LOL. I really LOVE Muse, first heard about them last year when they opened for U2- I was completely blown away. Their lead singer could be the mix of Thom Yorke and Freddie Mercury.

What about you?

My taste in music is not nearly as streamlined as yours! They're not grouped by genre, just typed as I thought of them!

Massive Attack, Sigur Ros, CeU, Metric, Our Lady Peace, Nine Inch Nails, Flaming Lips, Snow Patrol, Nirvana, Modest Mouse, Wilco, Smashing Pumpkins, Prodigy, Eagles, Wolf Parade, Linkin Park, The Beatles, Pink Floyd, The Dandy Warhols, Simon & Garfunkel, Sophie Milman, Nikki Yanofsky and lots of smaller funky-jazz bands.

See, now about 98% of these I agree with. LOL, I am bad at off the top of my head and just looked through my most recently played. You and I need to make a mix and switch.

 

[star sparkle]

I'm so bored...been sitting at the airport for over 90 minutes, and still have about 90 min to go before my flight leaves.

 

[meresal]

We booked our flights to Colorado today! One step closer to our Christmas Ski Trip Vacation!

Now shopping...

 

[trillionaire]

I think I've just added Jamaican Rum Bread Pudding to my Thanksgiving list...



On a side note, my local KFC has started selling Extra Crispy Chicken again. I cannot express how jubilant that makes me.

Seriously.

Geez, I sound like a pregnant woman.

 

[yssie]

Well, all in all, a crappy ending to a crappy week.



1. I'm six days late (TMI, I know). DH and I are NOT ready for -that- so I have all appendages crossed that I'm just bloody late.
2. Client meeting was a total snarkfest. Note to self: always just smile and nod. Smile and nod. Fortunately my boss spoke up for me...
3. The tip of the heel of one of my wedding shoes broke off
4. My good friend is not taking her breakup well. I wish she wasn't hundreds of miles away, and I wish her ex wasn't also my friend, and I wish the breakup hadn't been so messy - or, at least, I wish that one of them had done something unforgivable so it would be easy to say who is wrong... but they're just two good people who have totally different plans for the future. Neither are making me 'choose' but I rather feel like I have to anyway
5. Kitty is sick. He's ESP just fine so we're not too worried, but it would be nice if he'd - y'know, actually use the litterbox once in a while!

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[junebug17]

Aw, I'm sorry you had such a bad week Yssie, and I hope the upcoming week is better for you! I know the feeling of being a bit overwhelmed because nothing is going quite right.

Sorry about your friends' break-up...I can understand how you feel in the middle, even though they aren't putting pressure on you in regard to which "side" you're on...you're still in an awkward position.

Hang in there, and hugs to you!

 

[yssie]

thanks junebug, I could use the hug.


Their breakup is just - fantastically awkward. I feel guilty for introducing them - which I know is pointless and narcissistic, but there it is. And - well, honestly, I'm more worried about #1 at this point


How are things going with your mum?

 

[junebug17]

I understand Yssie, I can imagine how stressed you are. I'll be keeping you in my thoughts.

Thanks for asking about my mother...I could write a book, and bore you to tears, so I'll just say she's doing ok. She still can't walk on her own though, and her balance is very bad. She has enough muscle strength to stand, but starts to fall over after a few seconds. It's very strange. She's coming home from the hospital this Wednesday, and she's very excited (I don't blame her) but I feel we are totally unprepared for it. We haven't even figured out how she's going to be bathed. (bathroom is on second floor and no way can she do stairs right now.) And she'll have to use a commode. My brother lives with her, and will be her primary caregiver, which is going to be so hard because she needs a lot of assistance and really can't be left alone. I'll be going to her house 3 times a week to give him a break. We're also going to explore having someone come in for a few hours a day, but that gets expensive and medicare doesn't cover it after 4 weeks. I could go on, there's so much about this situation that sucks, and I'd love to see her move out of that house and into something more appropriate for her needs, but for now we have no choice and we'll just have to muddle through as best we can. Ugh.

Looks like I ended up writing a book anyway, or at least a short story. You're probably sorry you asked Yssie, but I appreciate that you did!

 

[dragonfly411]

If I could, I'd like to ask for a little dust without taking up an entire thread. My grandfather had to go to the hospital today. He is diabetic. He doesn't follow his diet like he should. He's on several medications. He doesn't go to have his feet looked at as much as he should. He is not adamant about keeping his skin care up. Last night his leg swole up very badly, and became red and painful. Today they found a very dangerous infection in the leg, which is being medicated, but if it gets worse it could lead to hospital time and in a severe situation amputation. He has to keep it elevated, which will be hard because he works driving a vehicle. Could you guys send some healing dust please?



ETA - P.s. my dog just tooted in bed, and It might just stink me out of the room.

 

[yssie]

I understand Yssie, I can imagine how stressed you are. I'll be keeping you in my thoughts.

Thanks for asking about my mother...I could write a book, and bore you to tears, so I'll just say she's doing ok. She still can't walk on her own though, and her balance is very bad. She has enough muscle strength to stand, but starts to fall over after a few seconds. It's very strange. She's coming home from the hospital this Wednesday, and she's very excited (I don't blame her) but I feel we are totally unprepared for it. We haven't even figured out how she's going to be bathed. (bathroom is on second floor and no way can she do stairs right now.) And she'll have to use a commode. My brother lives with her, and will be her primary caregiver, which is going to be so hard because she needs a lot of assistance and really can't be left alone. I'll be going to her house 3 times a week to give him a break. We're also going to explore having someone come in for a few hours a day, but that gets expensive and medicare doesn't cover it after 4 weeks. I could go on, there's so much about this situation that sucks, and I'd love to see her move out of that house and into something more appropriate for her needs, but for now we have no choice and we'll just have to muddle through as best we can. Ugh.

Looks like I ended up writing a book anyway, or at least a short story. You're probably sorry you asked Yssie, but I appreciate that you did!

I'm glad to hear she's doing okay, though I'm sorry it's not more though not at all sorry I asked. A big ::HUG:: to you, too!

It sounds like it will be - a huge adjustment for all of you, especially as you're not sure what to expect! I do hope things settle into routine quickly - and that that routine is tolerable for everyone. Is selling the house absolutely out of the question? It does sound like the layout will be frustrating... Just - remember to take some time for yourself and relax, as hectic as things are will be!

Is her motor control expected to continue to improve? I know it's a difficult question so you (obviously) don't have to answer. I'll be thinking of you!

 

[yssie]

If I could, I'd like to ask for a little dust without taking up an entire thread. My grandfather had to go to the hospital today. He is diabetic. He doesn't follow his diet like he should. He's on several medications. He doesn't go to have his feet looked at as much as he should. He is not adamant about keeping his skin care up. Last night his leg swole up very badly, and became red and painful. Today they found a very dangerous infection in the leg, which is being medicated, but if it gets worse it could lead to hospital time and in a severe situation amputation. He has to keep it elevated, which will be hard because he works driving a vehicle. Could you guys send some healing dust please?



ETA - P.s. my dog just tooted in bed, and It might just stink me out of the room.

Oh no! I'm praying they stop that infection quickly!

 

[junebug17]

Dragonfly, the situation my mother is in has made me extremely empathetic to people with sick older relatives, so I completely understand how worried and upset you are...sending tons of healing dust to your grandfather, hopefully the medication will take care of the infection. And I'm also hoping he starts taking better care of himself!

Any possibility your grandfather could go on disability?

 

[junebug17]

I understand Yssie, I can imagine how stressed you are. I'll be keeping you in my thoughts.

Thanks for asking about my mother...I could write a book, and bore you to tears, so I'll just say she's doing ok. She still can't walk on her own though, and her balance is very bad. She has enough muscle strength to stand, but starts to fall over after a few seconds. It's very strange. She's coming home from the hospital this Wednesday, and she's very excited (I don't blame her) but I feel we are totally unprepared for it. We haven't even figured out how she's going to be bathed. (bathroom is on second floor and no way can she do stairs right now.) And she'll have to use a commode. My brother lives with her, and will be her primary caregiver, which is going to be so hard because she needs a lot of assistance and really can't be left alone. I'll be going to her house 3 times a week to give him a break. We're also going to explore having someone come in for a few hours a day, but that gets expensive and medicare doesn't cover it after 4 weeks. I could go on, there's so much about this situation that sucks, and I'd love to see her move out of that house and into something more appropriate for her needs, but for now we have no choice and we'll just have to muddle through as best we can. Ugh.

Looks like I ended up writing a book anyway, or at least a short story. You're probably sorry you asked Yssie, but I appreciate that you did!

I'm glad to hear she's doing okay, though I'm sorry it's not more though not at all sorry I asked. A big ::HUG:: to you, too!

It sounds like it will be - a huge adjustment for all of you, especially as you're not sure what to expect! I do hope things settle into routine quickly - and that that routine is tolerable for everyone. Is selling the house absolutely out of the question? It does sound like the layout will be frustrating... Just - remember to take some time for yourself and relax, as hectic as things are will be!

Is her motor control expected to continue to improve? I know it's a difficult question so you (obviously) don't have to answer. I'll be thinking of you!

Aw, thanks Yssie, you are just so sweet. And you're so perceptive, you have a very good grasp of how things are for me right now. I really think her living in this house is a temporary situation...I just can't see her living out her life under these inconvenient conditions...but it will take some planning and a lot of work. My mother isn't exactly a hoarder, but she's close. This house is filled top to bottom with stuff from the past 50 years. The woman never threw anything out! And there are some financial issues as well. But luckily my siblings agree with me, it's just a matter of getting organized and planning it all out.

And none of the professionals can tell us how much she'll improve. Nobody can really say for sure. I hate to be negative, but my gut feeling is she won't really improve that much more. But I guess we just have to wait and see.

I really appreciate your comforting words Yssie. I've been pretty upset about this all day and you've made me feel better!

 

[yssie]

I'm glad I could make you feel better - more hugs all 'round! Hugs help everything


It's wonderful that you and your siblings all agree - I can only imagine how much harder it would be if you didn't have each others' support. Good luck with getting everything organised... My dad hates to throw anything away and my mum can't stand clutter, fortunately she usually wins that battle!

I will say that from a practical pov I do think planning for the worst is the best thing you can do - far worse to be both hurting and unprepared. Though of course I hope your gut is just being ornery

 

[April20]

I think I might have a touch of food poisoning. I feel similar to how I did when I got it last time, but with not nearly the severity.

 

[dragonfly411]

Dragonfly, the situation my mother is in has made me extremely empathetic to people with sick older relatives, so I completely understand how worried and upset you are...sending tons of healing dust to your grandfather, hopefully the medication will take care of the infection. And I'm also hoping he starts taking better care of himself!

Any possibility your grandfather could go on disability?

June - he was on disability, but disability barely covers living expenses, especially living in the country where it's a drive to get anywhere, so gas just sucks all of your finances dry.

 

[kama_s]

Well, all in all, a crappy ending to a crappy week.



1. I'm six days late (TMI, I know). DH and I are NOT ready for -that- so I have all appendages crossed that I'm just bloody late.
2. Client meeting was a total snarkfest. Note to self: always just smile and nod. Smile and nod. Fortunately my boss spoke up for me...
3. The tip of the heel of one of my wedding shoes broke off
4. My good friend is not taking her breakup well. I wish she wasn't hundreds of miles away, and I wish her ex wasn't also my friend, and I wish the breakup hadn't been so messy - or, at least, I wish that one of them had done something unforgivable so it would be easy to say who is wrong... but they're just two good people who have totally different plans for the future. Neither are making me 'choose' but I rather feel like I have to anyway
5. Kitty is sick. He's ESP just fine so we're not too worried, but it would be nice if he'd - y'know, actually use the litterbox once in a while!

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Aww shucks, honey. Big bear hugs to you.

Did you do a pregnancy test? Keeping my fingers crossed.

 

[yssie]

Thanks kama.

All negative, but was told that they could be 'false negatives' if it's too early and that I should come in for a test in 7 days if nothing changes. So - at most, 7 more days..

 

[dragonfly411]

Thanks kama.

All negative, but was told that they could be 'false negatives' if it's too early and that I should come in for a test in 7 days if nothing changes. So - at most, 7 more days..

((hugs))

 

[MichelleCarmen]

Thanks kama.

All negative, but was told that they could be 'false negatives' if it's too early and that I should come in for a test in 7 days if nothing changes. So - at most, 7 more days..

Yssie - hope all is okay. I was 16 days late my last cycle and hadn't been TTC but suddendly REALLY wanted to have a baby and was a bit sad. Alas, it wasn't meant to be, though... FWIW, the dollar stores have New Choice tests for $1 that are suppose to be reliable. Avoid any tests that have blue dye as the dye can smear...I ended up getting a positive with that one and then my period started the next day.

 

[MichelleCarmen]

My cat is trying to catch and attack the snowflakes as the fall outside our french doors.

 

[kama_s]

Thanks kama.

All negative, but was told that they could be 'false negatives' if it's too early and that I should come in for a test in 7 days if nothing changes. So - at most, 7 more days..

From my (limited) clinical experience, 6 days post expected start of cycle is a long enough time-period to have a very miniscule chance of the negative being false.

Did you do an at-home? Clinic tests here are free, so if you were Canadian, I would've asked you to go to a walk-in.

 

[yssie]

Thanks for the hug df, and the info MC.


MC - I'm sorry you were disappointed I bough one from the dollar store, not sure of the brand but I'd guess they only offer one so that must've been it. I wasn't sure if the brand names were 'better' so I tried a bunch of First Responses too... I feel like a dog marking territory or something. No snow in these parts, wouldn't mind some though!


Kama - goodness, I am so very glad to hear that!! Why on earth didn't the woman I talked to just say that!? No clinics nearby I'm afraid, and my range of motion is limited for the next few days until DH brings the automatic home - there's no way I'm driving the stick further than 'round the block!

 

[MichelleCarmen]

Thanks for the hug df, and the info MC.


MC - I'm sorry you were disappointed I bough one from the dollar store, not sure of the brand but I'd guess they only offer one so that must've been it. I wasn't sure if the brand names were 'better' so I tried a bunch of First Responses too... I feel like a dog marking territory or something. No snow in these parts, wouldn't mind some though!
!

From what I read, dollar store ones are just as accurate and some test hormones at lower levels. FR and ept, etc are so dang expensive that it's better to save your $. I wish I had and used that instead to buy a new sweater. lol!

 

[yssie]

yeah.. I could've bought a sweater. Or two. Phooey.

 

[star sparkle]

Yssie- Hugs! It sucks when a bunch of things just don't seem to be going your way, and I'm sorry to hear about your stress. Sometimes stress causes you to be late, but then when you're late you just get even more stressed, so it's like a circle you just chase 'round and 'round. I hope everything works out for the best.

dragonfly- Dust for your grandfather. It's hard when a family member has health problems, but know we're here for you if you need/want to talk!

April- Feel better soon! I had food poisoning really badly once, and it was like the worst thing ever. I was so sick and felt extremely miserable.

 

[star sparkle]

BF and I had a great weekend. There were absolutely zero issues and we had such a fun time together relaxing together, going out, and just enjoying each other's company.

We didn't talk about the issue we had last Monday, you all remember what that was, and I'm wondering if I should just let it go now and be done. He apologized for it then and seemed genuinely sorry for hurting me during the conversation we had on the phone at the time, and then we didn't talk about it again for the rest of the week. Then I didn't want to bring it up this weekend because we were having such a nice time just being together that I didn't want to ruin it.

So right now I'm confused as to whether or not I should bring it up so we can talk about it in person since we didn't get to do that last week, or if I just need to move on and accept that he was sorry and meant no harm to me. At this point I don't know that there's anything to be gained by talking about it again, but maybe there is?