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VRBeauty|1379054477|3519904 said:I don't normally do this...
and in the spirit of this thread, please don't feel compelled to respond here...
but...
I'd really appreciate your thoughts, prayers, and PS dust for my "little" brother.
Actually Fred is only 17 months younger that me, which puts him - uhmmm - in his mid-late 50's - but that's still very young in my book!
More importantly, Fred is my closest brother if only because he and I went through the big hop across the pond (emigration from Europe) together back when we were kids, and of course we went through assimilation in this big new world together. We have two wonderful younger brothers too, but they were both born here, after our parents had also assimilated and mellowed a bit, so their growing-up experiences were very different than ours.
But I digress.
Fred let me know tonight that he's been diagnosed with cancer of the somewhere in the throat. His prognosis is very good - the doctors think they caught it early and that it hasn't spread elsewhere. He'll undergo six weeks of radiation, plus chemo to enhance the effectiveness of the radiation, and he should be good to go. He's also in very good hands, medically speaking.
The thing is, this isn't Fred's first bout with cancer. That happened over 40 years ago and started with a large lump behind one ear that turned out to be a sign of lymphoma. The lump was very big, and it was in what's usually the terminus for that type of cancer, so the first doctors they consulted declared it untreatable. Fortunately my mother is not one to take "no" for an answer, and she's a nurse by training, which means that she didn't stand in awe of the doctors and she knew which doctor would stand for her son with her. Also fortunately, we lived near the Stanford Medical Center at the time. Long story short, my brother went through surgery and radiation and chemotherapy hell that year, but he lived to tell the tale. Unfortunately all that treatment (none of which was as refined then as it is now - his treatment was really intensive) will affect the options the doctors have for treating his cancer today.
Anyhow, I feel compelled to post this and to ask for your thoughts and prayer for my brother and his wife and his medical team.
Thank you!
Enerchi|1379151573|3520624 said:another bad sleepless night.
DS#2 had his car broken into downtown, 36 hours ago, and had an assortment of electronics stolen. They were only being temporarily placed in his vehicle for an hour while he went to eat!! He has insurance, he filed a police report, he's called his agent... so here's hoping that he can be reimbursed at least a portion of what the 2 computers, DJ equipment, etc., were worth. Even with deductible, there will still be an out of pocket expense.
$#!T. Why does this happen??? crime of opportunity?? who knows... but it makes me so angry. This is the son that always seems to be trying hard but never getting ahead. Why can't something really GREAT happen to this boy??? ARGH.
hence, why I'm up AGAIN since 4am!
Something great has already happened to him. He has a terrific mom.Enerchi said:Why can't something really GREAT happen to this boy??? ARGH.
hence, why I'm up AGAIN since 4am!
Matata|1379178139|3520780 said:Something great has already happened to him. He has a terrific mom.Enerchi said:Why can't something really GREAT happen to this boy??? ARGH.
hence, why I'm up AGAIN since 4am!
Hugs Enerchi, I'm so sorry! I can relate...I lie awake at night worrying about my older kids too. Older kids mean dealing with grown-up problems. So hard to see our kids struggling and trying to make their way in the adult world. Life was certainly simpler when they were young!
junebug17 said:Enerchi|1379151573|3520624 said:another bad sleepless night.
DS#2 had his car broken into downtown, 36 hours ago, and had an assortment of electronics stolen. They were only being temporarily placed in his vehicle for an hour while he went to eat!! He has insurance, he filed a police report, he's called his agent... so here's hoping that he can be reimbursed at least a portion of what the 2 computers, DJ equipment, etc., were worth. Even with deductible, there will still be an out of pocket expense.
$#!T. Why does this happen??? crime of opportunity?? who knows... but it makes me so angry. This is the son that always seems to be trying hard but never getting ahead. Why can't something really GREAT happen to this boy??? ARGH.
hence, why I'm up AGAIN since 4am!
Hugs Enerchi, I'm so sorry! I can relate...I lie awake at night worrying about my older kids too. Older kids mean dealing with grown-up problems. So hard to see our kids struggling and trying to make their way in the adult world. Life was certainly simpler when they were young!
I was wondering when you were going to post something like this considering that you've been burning the candle at both ends for such a long time. Take a spa day get a massage and body scrub, eat chocolate till your eyes roll back in your head and drink champagne -- just treat yourself well and maybe your motivation will return.Dee*Jay said:Has anyone seen my motivation? It seems to have slipped quietly out the back door somewhere between the end of exam number three and the intensive studying I'm supposed to be doing RIGHT NOW for number four. Oh well... if anyone happens to see it, please send it back. SOON.
Matata|1379194512|3520880 said:I was wondering when you were going to post something like this considering that you've been burning the candle at both ends for such a long time. Take a spa day get a massage and body scrub, eat chocolate till your eyes roll back in your head and drink champagne -- just treat yourself well and maybe your motivation will return.Dee*Jay said:Has anyone seen my motivation? It seems to have slipped quietly out the back door somewhere between the end of exam number three and the intensive studying I'm supposed to be doing RIGHT NOW for number four. Oh well... if anyone happens to see it, please send it back. SOON.
justginger|1379251039|3521114 said:Sometimes I get so overwhelmed by how jaw-droppingly beautiful a new treasure posted in SMTB is that I can't even respond to the thread. Words fail me.
SB621|1379279258|3521328 said:justginger|1379251039|3521114 said:Sometimes I get so overwhelmed by how jaw-droppingly beautiful a new treasure posted in SMTB is that I can't even respond to the thread. Words fail me.
Which beauty are we talking about????
CS- I know right!!!!! I have been spending a lot of time on ebay recently and it blows my mind some of the pricing!
justginger|1379288983|3521380 said:SB621|1379279258|3521328 said:justginger|1379251039|3521114 said:Sometimes I get so overwhelmed by how jaw-droppingly beautiful a new treasure posted in SMTB is that I can't even respond to the thread. Words fail me.
Which beauty are we talking about????
CS- I know right!!!!! I have been spending a lot of time on ebay recently and it blows my mind some of the pricing!
This time it was the 5+ ct low colored OEC/low colored French cut VC masterpiece. I literally couldn't think of one thing to say in response to that piece of heaven! I had to close the thread and walk away before I started formulating a way to have one of my own, lol.
justginger said:Sometimes I get so overwhelmed by how jaw-droppingly beautiful a new treasure posted in SMTB is that I can't even respond to the thread. Words fail me.