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That is, if you had a crystal ball and could find out the truth about something in your past, present or future life what would you want to know?
Or would you want to remain blissfully unaware?
I often wish I had that proverbial crystal ball because it could make some decisions easier. I am and always have been a curious kitty. My DH always asks me, "what, am I google" LOL. Because I have tons of questions I am always pondering (and asking Greg too haha).. During my many years in school I have had numerous professors tell me I ask a lot of questions that they couldn't answer. Some enjoyed the thought provoking questions but some probably were more annoyed though I only had one professor tell me (in graduate school) I was giving him a complex because he couldn't answer any of my questions. We both laughed about it. But anyway, I share this because yes I personally would like to know some things I could never know without that crystal ball. There are things I do NOT want to know but many things I wish I did know that I do not.
ONE thing I sometimes think I want to know but right now, I can tell you I do NOT want to know when/how Greg and I will die. That is just not something I care to know at this juncture. I reserve the right to change my mind however in the future and go back and forth on this one
I have nothing of serious consequence I want to know about my past
I am at peace with most everything I can think of and have no burning unanswered questions
I am at (relative) peace with the present
I am sad about a recent death in my family (our sweet Tommy boy) but have no mind bending questions about it
Initially I wanted to know very much why he stopped eating
But now I realize it was just his time
He was old and tired and it was time for peace for him
My heart aches missing him
But I am in the process of coming to terms with his death
Not there quite yet but today marks only 28 days since his death. And from experience I know this process goes on forever. Coming to terms with death and all that we cannot control. It's a sobering fact of life. Things we cannot control.
OK just by writing this all out I guess I have no burning questions at the moment about past, present or future.
If I wasn't a scaredy cat I would want to know how many more (good, healthy) years my dh and I have to share together
But I am not that brave so do not want to know
At this point though I might change my mind at some juncture in the future
How about you? Any burning truths you would love to find out that you don't know now?
Any mysteries you want solved from your past? Your present? Your future?
Or would you want to remain blissfully unaware?
I often wish I had that proverbial crystal ball because it could make some decisions easier. I am and always have been a curious kitty. My DH always asks me, "what, am I google" LOL. Because I have tons of questions I am always pondering (and asking Greg too haha).. During my many years in school I have had numerous professors tell me I ask a lot of questions that they couldn't answer. Some enjoyed the thought provoking questions but some probably were more annoyed though I only had one professor tell me (in graduate school) I was giving him a complex because he couldn't answer any of my questions. We both laughed about it. But anyway, I share this because yes I personally would like to know some things I could never know without that crystal ball. There are things I do NOT want to know but many things I wish I did know that I do not.
ONE thing I sometimes think I want to know but right now, I can tell you I do NOT want to know when/how Greg and I will die. That is just not something I care to know at this juncture. I reserve the right to change my mind however in the future and go back and forth on this one
I have nothing of serious consequence I want to know about my past
I am at peace with most everything I can think of and have no burning unanswered questions
I am at (relative) peace with the present
I am sad about a recent death in my family (our sweet Tommy boy) but have no mind bending questions about it
Initially I wanted to know very much why he stopped eating
But now I realize it was just his time
He was old and tired and it was time for peace for him
My heart aches missing him
But I am in the process of coming to terms with his death
Not there quite yet but today marks only 28 days since his death. And from experience I know this process goes on forever. Coming to terms with death and all that we cannot control. It's a sobering fact of life. Things we cannot control.
OK just by writing this all out I guess I have no burning questions at the moment about past, present or future.
If I wasn't a scaredy cat I would want to know how many more (good, healthy) years my dh and I have to share together
But I am not that brave so do not want to know
At this point though I might change my mind at some juncture in the future
How about you? Any burning truths you would love to find out that you don't know now?
Any mysteries you want solved from your past? Your present? Your future?