Dreamgirl
Ideal_Rock
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Bia- I am keeping my fingers crossed for you!
A little update on me:
Yesterday I was here at PS posting. My boyfriend came over and I was in the other room. He sat down here at my computer and I had the PS window open. And not only that, but it was on the subject for a Tiffany proposal. (I had given ideas on proposing with the blue box....) And in the last post I made, I was excited for the future proposer because he took my suggestions. I said something in the post like "oh I so badly wish I could tell my boyfriend this, don't know if I should though" I came running in my room after he sat down in the chair and I was like "WAIT WAIT!" I could tell he read it because he had this look on his face. Oh God I was freaking out inside.
I felt so horrible. So I decided to come clean. I told him that this was the place I had told him about a while back ago that I joined. (Because I did tell him I joined a place, just didn't tell him what it was about.) He told me "Your obsessed."
So I had to explain. I told him I joined because I came across this place and thought it would be good for me. I told him that it has helped me not talk about engagements/rings/weddings to him and that there are many others just like me. I also said I have learned so much at this place but I knew he wouldn't want to hear about it at this time. I told him I didn't want to be driving him nuts and how I had felt so bad about doing that to him, this was a place where I could talk about all this stuff. I said I didn't tell him because I didn't want him to get mad at me. I told him about the different thread areas, and seeing photos of rings (but I didn't give him details.) He seemed to understand better at that point because he told me "If it helps you, then do what you've got to do, Im not mad." I also said that since joining, Im realizing I trust him, that everything will be ok one day (meaning my future e-ring) and that I am really enjoying our lives together right now. He was very happy to hear that!! He said "Good, Im glad you see that now!" lol
I just feel bad that I think he read how I think a Tiffany box should be involved in a Tiffany proposal. I didn't want him to know my thoughts on that. I asked him if he read it and he said No but I know he did. Arrr Im mad at myself for that. Well, on the bright side, at least he's ok with this and knows that it is helping me out, which in turn is helping him out.
I just hope he truly isn't upset.
A little update on me:
Yesterday I was here at PS posting. My boyfriend came over and I was in the other room. He sat down here at my computer and I had the PS window open. And not only that, but it was on the subject for a Tiffany proposal. (I had given ideas on proposing with the blue box....) And in the last post I made, I was excited for the future proposer because he took my suggestions. I said something in the post like "oh I so badly wish I could tell my boyfriend this, don't know if I should though" I came running in my room after he sat down in the chair and I was like "WAIT WAIT!" I could tell he read it because he had this look on his face. Oh God I was freaking out inside.
I felt so horrible. So I decided to come clean. I told him that this was the place I had told him about a while back ago that I joined. (Because I did tell him I joined a place, just didn't tell him what it was about.) He told me "Your obsessed."
I just feel bad that I think he read how I think a Tiffany box should be involved in a Tiffany proposal. I didn't want him to know my thoughts on that. I asked him if he read it and he said No but I know he did. Arrr Im mad at myself for that. Well, on the bright side, at least he's ok with this and knows that it is helping me out, which in turn is helping him out.
I just hope he truly isn't upset.
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