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Need quick thoughts on 3.1 carat Old Mine

My partner and i weren't in the market immediately but were planning to get an engagement ring in the next few months to a year. Obviously with antiques, we don't always get to choose timing. Someone recently posted a beautiful 3.1 GIA J/VS1 OMB to Preloved and we're going to go see it in person today. It is way out of the budget we had originally discussed but not out of the realm of possibility of what we could buy if it's truly perfect. The original ideal goal was ~2.5 carats, cushion-y old mine, in the I/J/K color range, to be set in an Erika Winters Willa or Grace Cathedral. If I source a stone myself, I would need to find a vendor who would arrange to do this with an outside stone or work with Erika Winters directly. She didn't respond to a prior email about resizing but I'm waiting to hear about this.

The original loose budget was ~$20k-$25k including the setting.

Here's the old mine we're seeing tonight, priced at $34k without the setting:
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What a spectacular diamond! Certainly not something that is easily found! I love it.
 
Anything sparkly under the tree today? :love:

Nope, and I'm actually hoping you'll have your Georgiana before I have mine! But again, the wait is my fault.

My surprise gift was a bivy suit because apparently I've complained too much about being cold when we go winter camping. Not quite as glamorous! :lol:

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What a spectacular diamond! Certainly not something that is easily found! I love it.

Thank you so much! I feel very lucky :)
 
I love you gift! I want one!!!! lol!

And I might, depends on when you get your braces off! Until she’s on my finger I’m staying not a word… but as of today, step one is complete :love:
 
I love you gift! I want one!!!! lol!

And I might, depends on when you get your braces off! Until she’s on my finger I’m staying not a word… but as of today, step one is complete :love:

Braces off in May I think, so we can all start the countdown for me then! And I can't wait to see yours, my fingers are so crossed for you that it all goes smoothly!
 
My father unfortunately is very sick with newly-diagnosed but quite advanced cancer, so I've been away from home to be with him and also help with navigating the medical process. I just got back and Georgiana is not yet off to get her final dress so I've been wearing her a bit around the house again as some comfort. I thought you all might enjoy seeing her!

Video:

And with my very helpful cat :)
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I’m so sorry about your dad. And I’m glad you still have your beautiful diamond to bring you some moments of pleasure at this time.
 
I’m so sorry about your dad. And I’m glad you still have your beautiful diamond to bring you some moments of pleasure at this time.

Thank you so much, Dreamer :)
 
I'm so sorry about your dad N2J. I was hoping there was updates when I saw this thread was bumped. We're here for all the photos so keep em coming! I'm glad that Georgiana is able to cheer you up. I love that our bling can bring us joy and comfort.
 
I'm so sorry about your dad N2J. I was hoping there was updates when I saw this thread was bumped. We're here for all the photos so keep em coming! I'm glad that Georgiana is able to cheer you up. I love that our bling can bring us joy and comfort.

Thank you, Maryjane :) I'll make a SMTB thread when she's in her final dress and on my finger for real, so this will just be mini updates in the meantime!
 
Thank you, Maryjane :) I'll make a SMTB thread when she's in her final dress and on my finger for real, so this will just be mini updates in the meantime!

We love mini updates. I wish more of us would post our journeys to finding the stone/ring cause it's so interesting and I'm so invested. I miss seeing everyone's bling!
 
We love mini updates. I wish more of us would post our journeys to finding the stone/ring cause it's so interesting and I'm so invested. I miss seeing everyone's bling!

We have a couple of big acquisitions that I want more details on! Not naming names but I know you're with me on wanting the stories and a million photos!
 
We have a couple of big acquisitions that I want more details on! Not naming names but I know you're with me on wanting the stories and a million photos!

I know! I am waiting for these details haha I have to live vicariously so I will keep refreshing all these pages in hopes that someone posts something lol.
 
I’m so sorry about your dad’s new diagnosis. PS and looking/sharing my diamond(s) brought me a lot of comfort after my mom’s diagnosis. Please keep posting photos! And what a lovely kitty. Did you decide on what metal or is that part of the surprise?
 
I’m so sorry about your dad’s new diagnosis. PS and looking/sharing my diamond(s) brought me a lot of comfort after my mom’s diagnosis. Please keep posting photos! And what a lovely kitty. Did you decide on what metal or is that part of the surprise?

Part of the surprise! If I told him I really made up my mind, of course he would go with that, but I haven't and I figure he should get some say in the situation. Not much, lol! But he's choosing between the Grace Cathedral and the Willa (and I told him I wouldn't say no to a French cut Minna :evil2: but obviously that costs a fortune and we already blew the budget and beyond with the diamond!). He favors the Grace so I'm assuming it will be that. Metal will be two tone rose + platinum versus all rose versus platinum. And then things like how much pave on the band (shoulders versus 3/4 pave), the band shape below the pave (Erika Winters lets you choose square with milgrain versus knife edge versus rounded and again I don't really have a preference). So basically the whole dress is a guided surprise, which I think will be fun, especially give how long I've been playing around with the diamond.

Grace:
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Willa:
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Minna:
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I also need to decide what I'm going to get him for a wedding watch.....He'll be (jokingly) mad but I think actually appreciative of me giving him something nice. He loves watches but only buys things that are very inexpensive for himself, which makes a dream watch the right kind of gift, I think.
 
Part of the surprise! If I told him I really made up my mind, of course he would go with that, but I haven't and I figure he should get some say in the situation. Not much, lol! But he's choosing between the Grace Cathedral and the Willa (and I told him I wouldn't say no to a French cut Minna :evil2: but obviously that costs a fortune and we already blew the budget and beyond with the diamond!). He favors the Grace so I'm assuming it will be that. Metal will be two tone rose + platinum versus all rose versus platinum. And then things like how much pave on the band (shoulders versus 3/4 pave), the band shape below the pave (Erika Winters lets you choose square with milgrain versus knife edge versus rounded and again I don't really have a preference). So basically the whole dress is a guided surprise, which I think will be fun, especially give how long I've been playing around with the diamond.

Grace:
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Willa:
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Minna:
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I also need to decide what I'm going to get him for a wedding watch.....He'll be (jokingly) mad but I think actually appreciative of me giving him something nice. He loves watches but only buys things that are very inexpensive for himself, which makes a dream watch the right kind of gift, I think.

Oh the Minna.. love love love! Haha.. I love that your ring is still a surprise.

Hehehe what a great guy who seldom spends on himself so we get a good life lol. I feel bad that hubby wears the Garmin watch I gave him the most! Fancy watches doesn't suit his work and would only be worn on special occasions. My dad however loves bling lol. I got him a 4.2ct lab to make a men's ring hahaha.
 
Sorry to hear about your dad @newtojewels ! Keep the bling therapy coming!
 
Oh the Minna.. love love love! Haha.. I love that your ring is still a surprise.

Hehehe what a great guy who seldom spends on himself so we get a good life lol. I feel bad that hubby wears the Garmin watch I gave him the most! Fancy watches doesn't suit his work and would only be worn on special occasions. My dad however loves bling lol. I got him a 4.2ct lab to make a men's ring hahaha.

Mine wears his Garmin all of the time too and I didn't even get it for him! :lol-2:

I think it'll be something reasonably casual/low-key but special, like one of the Grand Seikos or similar. But I also think my partner would enjoy just owning something nice, the same way we can enjoy jewelry that isn't actually reasonable for daily wear.

I love that your dad has a massive diamond!

Sorry to hear about your dad @newtojewels ! Keep the bling therapy coming!

Thank you, Lulu! I hope your dad is feeling better.
 
Minna Minna Minna!!!!!!!!
 
Prayers for your dad.

Ahhh Georgiana, I’m glad she’s there to bring you some sunshine…. those pastels, those facets…. It’s probably tough to not smile when she’s around…. Puppies, babies and Georgiana.
 
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