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[Smurfysmiles]

so told me he didnt love me anymore last night
what an ass

 

[dragonfly411]

Are you serious? Like For real?! That''s TERRIBLE!!!

HUGS

 

[KCCutie]

What!?! That''s just crazy!

 

[mimzy]

what?!?! smurfy, you've got to be kidding

*major hugs*

 

[zilaras]

That is a rather assish thing. I am so sorry.

. You are deserving of love - unconditional and unfailing. BIG HUG

My best friend''s boyfriend of 2 1/2 years said the exact thing to her about a month ago...is there something in the air?

 

[Smurfysmiles]

im not kidding
im currently looking for an apt for myself
see if i ever move in with a guy again
what a mess

 

[Patiently_Waiting]

Aw smurfy, I was really hoping you were kidding. I''m so sorry

The other ladies are right though - you deserve nothing short of the best. Sending lots of hugs your way and please do stick around and let us know how you''re doing

 

[dragonfly411]

I''m so sorry to hear that smurfy! Guys can suck sometimes. Good luck apt. hunting. hugs!

 

[Lexie]

Guys can be such jerks!

As everyone else has mentioned, you deserve nothing but the best and someone who can love you unconditionally.

Surely you'll find someone who is more worthy of your time and affection..

 

[sklingem]

Hey, sorry to hear about it. It always hurts. You will find the person that is right for you and unfortunately this was not the one. As others have said, you deserve someone who loves you unconditionally! Don''t settle for less.

 

[Dreamgirl]

I am so sorry to hear that bad news.

If he wants to be a jerk like that, then you do deserve better...

 

[Rhea]

Did he just out and say it or was it more of a conversation, where is this going thing?

I''m sorry that he hurt you. It''s a million times better to know now rather than hanging on for longer though. How are you doing?

 

[redfaerythinker]

OMG I am so sorry. This happened to a friend of mine and all I can say is, at least you didn''t marry him. I know it''s hard to see but it''s best that it happened now. I''m so sorry and i''m sending lots of HUGS and prayers your way. Good luck on the apartment hunt.

 

[Delster]

Smurfy I''m so sorry. Take care of yourself

 

[lliang_chi]

Smurfy,

BIG HUGS! I''m sorry to he hurt you like that. What a total d!ck. I hope you surround yourself with your friends and family who all love you more than you know.

 

[gwendolyn]

That royally sucks. If you want to vent, you know we''re here for you.

 

[Aloros]

Agreed. What an ASS!

*hugs* You take care of yourself, Smurfy.

 

[jitterymo]

There are no words to describe how much I ache for you. I''m so sorry for the cruel way you have been treated! Hold your head high and remember to smile even when it is tough. The sky will open up again, and the promise of new light will help you though this time of sorrow.

And remember that there are people here who are willing to chat and be your friend!

and if all else fails, eat a bunch of chocolate ice cream!!!

 

[musey]

Oh, my goodness.

Without knowing your situation I suppose I can't say much, but I'm terribly sorry. What a difficult thing. I hope you'll be able to find an apartment quickly.

 

[poshpepper]

I am so sorry!!!!

I cannot believe the nasty thoughtless things that men do to women

I am sorry you are going through this, please come vent here if you need to, good luck with your apt search.

 

[stryeyes102]

Im so sorry he did that to you. big hugs your direction.

I seconds patiently''s comment: Please do stick around, Were all here for you!



Oh my, he is no man, he is a boy and a wimp! Makes me wanna go beat him up!

 

[Just_Me]

I am so, so sorry.

 

[Keepingthefaith21]

I’m sorry that this happened.

You don’t have to go into too many details if you aren’t comfortable sharing but are you sure that this wasn’t just something he blurted out in the heat of the moment (especially if alcohol was involved)? I realize that even if it was something he just blurted out, it is a statement that should not simply be overlooked and pushed aside; but as Sandia_Rose’s situation showed us all: sometimes men speak before thinking.

 

[Blair138]

I''m really sorry to hear that-I hope that he didn''t just blurt it out-that is a nasty nasty thing to do. From your previous posts it sounds like it came out of nowhere-as one of the other posters said, at least you didn''t marry him. Good luck with the apartment search and try your best to remember "what doesn''t kill you makes you stronger", this is just another bump in the road.

 

[NewEnglandLady]

I just wanted to tell you that I''m really sorry--I can''t believe this! It really sounds like it came out of nowhere!!

As much as it sucks, I''m glad he didn''t keep it to himself. Ugh, I really feel for you because I remember how much it hurts--and I''m sure you already know that it''s better to be single and happy than in a relationship wih a man who doesn''t love you, but it doesn''t make the situation any less hurtful. Please understand that this has nothing to do with you and know that we are all here to support you.

 

[sunnyd]

Oh no! Sorry smurfy...

 

[Smurfysmiles]

unfortunately it did come out of nowhere, he just blurted it out when i was trying to be affectionate
he had one drink after work and unfortunately i had more than that so i took it worse than i had to...i also had tequila after it happened thanks to my best friend whom let me spend the night on her couch...it also made apt hunting terrible today but i did find an apt
my parents gave me money and co signed so that was good.
unfortunately to ex SO, all the furniture is mine so he willl be living in a box hah
i also threw my promise ring in the garbage...wish i would have sold it

 

[Rhea]

Now that''s just horrible! It''s better to be told than not told, but talk about awkward moment and horrible timing! How horrible.

I''m glad that you have friends around to help you through this. Have you had to deal with him at all in picking up your stuff or otherwise?

 

[ktdid]

Holy cow! I''m so sorry Smurfy! I totally thought you were kidding or that this was an old April fools post. I just feel so hurt for you. There are lots of things I want to say but don''t want to downplay your feelings at this point. Hang in there girl ***hugs***

 

[INdmbLove]

So sorry to hear this- on the bright side I am glad you were able to work out the details of the new apartment- Good luck, lots of hugs and good luck going your way!