shape
carat
color
clarity

Now I really did it :((

Oh my goodness i have 3 pages to catch up on
but first happy new year everybody
its 11.57 here
ive had 2 glasses of sparkling sav blanc and half a garlic bread
Can hardly keep my eyes open

Happy new year
May 2020 be a kinder,.more gentler and prosperous year for us all
Best wishes
Nicky
 
Good morning lovely ladies and Happy New Year's Eve.

@Scandinavian hello there, how is everyone doing? How's your mom and grandmother? Thinking of you. XO.

@Jimmianne good morning early bird.

Missy, forgot the odometer readings, where is your icecream-o-medor?!
Ya know, it would be nicely scientific to graph miles vs. scoops.

Haha yes love that suggestion. I will get right on it ;-)

Nice to have company here in the wee early morning hours though last night I actually slept and only got up three times during the night which for me these days is excellent. I feel OK and rested. Amazing. Hope you are sleeping well. XO.


Which brings me to @junebug17 how is your brother sleeping? I hope he is getting some relief. Thinking about you and hoping you are enjoying a good holiday week. XO

@rainwood yes I figured but didn't want to take a chance. My brain is not functioning as well as it used to and sometimes I am like what the heck was I thinking lol. Happy NYE and yes 2020 will be a good year for all of us I hope! (((Hugs))).

@Austina glad you are home safely. And hope you got a good night's sleep.

@marcy thank you. I ordered the iPhone 11 Pro Max through the Apple store and it is arriving the 2nd. Woohoo. I think. I wish I could hold onto my 6s plus forever but it isn't acting right and at 4 and a half years old I know it is on borrowed time. What happened to things lasting? Anyway thanks for your help. I think. Haha NIRDIs are such enablers. ;-)


@missy what lovely and kind words you wrote about all the wonderful NIRDI’s. Thank you for the kind words about me - I sure have you fooled. Ha Ha. I think it’s too late to have a mild winter. Our heaviest snows are March - May. Oh Oh. Definitely stay in from those falling cats and dogs. You know that means I have to say be careful if you go out in the rain because you don’t want to step in a poodle. Nice that you got to put more miles on the tandem bike. How nice that Jimmy wanted to give you and Greg a key for self service; he knows nice people when he sees them. I love your heartfelt poem. It’s awesome. How is Greg feeling?

Haha no I don't think so. I am not so easy to fool. Someone here did fool me for a few years but finally I saw their true colors. It can be hard at times because I want to believe the best in people. That is who (and who you are too) I am. But fool me once shame on you and fool me again and again well I need to have sense knocked into my head. And luckily I have it now. LOL. You are a true blue dear friend Marcy and I appreciate you. Greg is feeling OK thank you. Thank you for enjoying my poem too. Oh and by the way thank you for your poem. I just opened the Brooklyn mail and what a lovely surprise. LOVE it. Thank you.

What are you doing tonight?

@Mamabean that is a very sweet (albeit tiny heart) ring. I actually love it. Dainty and delicate and sweet. But yes for Bailey you need a mrs substantial heart. I am waiting for you and we will hit IDJ and David at DBL and also a few others. Haha I can enable with the best of them :)
How are you doing today? How is everyone by you feeling? How is your dh? Thinking of you guys and sending lots of hugs and comforting thoughts your way.

LOL Finding the perfect diamond/heart takes much more work! I wish I had bought that Tiffany one years ago...………..

Oh I feel ya, I let a gorgeous diamond heart necklace go years back from my fave antique dealer and when I called them just a day later changing my mind and wanting to buy it it was gone. Another dealer had bought it from them. It was so unique and just lovely and I don't know why I hesitated. Oh well. Hindsight is 20/20. Here's hoping the year 2020 brings us lots of good things and happiness and good health and that we have lots of foresight and know exactly what to purchase and what to let go. Hugs to you Sharon and Happy NYE. XOXO.

@luv2sparkle thank you for asking about Greg. He is doing knock wood OK. No pain meds taken yet and we are still waiting to hear from the surgeon about Friday's lithotripsy. If it wasn't for Greg's scheduled TKR Jan 17th it wouldn't be as stressful because we aren't sure what the right thing to do is. Wait and hope the 12 mm stone doesn't come down til way after the knee surgery? Or do the lithotripsy and hope it doesn't interfere with the knee surgery? There is no crystal ball to consult unfortunately. Hope you and your dh are well and have a good NYE.

Thank you! ❤
It's 1.76 ct, H color vs2.
With tapered baguettes in a platinum setting.

It's just stunning and juicy and heartlicious. And looks amazing on you too. Happy NYE @Polabowla


@AV_ yummmm to ice cream and yes haha diamonds, ice cream and a few other things make this definitely NIRDI.

@Daisys and Diamonds good evening by you and happy NYE. Oh it must be the New Year by you now! Happy 2020 dear Daisy. Missed you girl and hope all is well. Hugs to you and all your furry and human crew.

@bling_dream19 happy NYE dear girl and hope you and your dh are well. Have a wonderful celebration as your first New Year's Eve as a married couple and may the new year bring you much joy and bling and good health and all those good things. XOXO.

So it rained all day yesterday and we didn't go cycling. Instead, we ran a number of errands in the very rainy weather and as I wrote above to Marcy I ordered a new iPhone from the Apple store. At first the salesman at Costco convinced me to get the regular iphone 11 saying it was just as good and half the price as the pro max which was attractive to me. But then when I went back home I spoke to Marcy who told me nope the camera is much better (telephoto function) on the Pro and Pro Max. And well I canceled the Costco order and ordered from the Apple store online. Because costco wouldn't do an online order for the phone. And we weren't going back there. So I spent way more than I wanted to (thanks Marcy) and with tax it was over $1300. For a phone! :doh: It's almost as if money is meaningless with the way things are so expensive but as a very wise young lady told me (@marcy haha) you can't take it with you. True dat.

Today we are hoping to cycle. Jimmy's place is closed (darn should have taken that key haha) but I will text him as we are cycling to see if he is around. Which he probably won't be as it is NYE and he has a very complicated family situation. I guess most of us do but his is challenging indeed. He is a good dad though -I can tell. And a great grandad to his 3 yo granddaughter. But I digress.

I would love to hear what everyone is doing today and wishing all of you a very happy and healthy New Year. (((Hugs))).

Leaving you with a few chuckles and also my 2019 montage. Cats, bling, cycling and more cats. And let's not forget NIRDIs. PS is in the iPad photo where Francesca is laying her head. Yup it's a good 2019 photo summary indeed.

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and finally lolol

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Happy NYE girls!
 
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Great advice you’ve got there, Missy. Or whoever posted it. I’ve forgotten already.

I just got the iphone 11 pro thanks to Marcy (see, Marcy, your influence goes way beyond hearts!) and I like it. I didn’t see a whole lot of difference from my 6, but the battery lasts for DAYS. A huge plus. And Marcy nailed it...the camera is GOOD.

And YOU nailed it too...over 1k for a phone and it almost seems
normal. But hopefully we remember that it is a tiny computer for watching Netflix and shopping, AND talking to each other so ... not too bad!
What color did you get ? I got the dark green and it looks black to me, so, meh.

I « broke down » lol ... had a breakdown??? and bought a couple of gold bands yesterday.
To distract me from going through all my parents’ boxes of love letters. So poignant to read now that they are gone. I’ll save a few for DD and ship the rest to my sister. I am on the freedom trail to downsizing, with only about 2 tons to go.

Is it just me or do other people do this weird frantic end of year cleaning???
 
Great advice you’ve got there, Missy. Or whoever posted it. I’ve forgotten already.

I just got the iphone 11 pro thanks to Marcy (see, Marcy, your influence goes way beyond hearts!) and I like it. I didn’t see a whole lot of difference from my 6, but the battery lasts for DAYS. A huge plus. And Marcy nailed it...the camera is GOOD.

And YOU nailed it too...over 1k for a phone and it almost seems
normal. But hopefully we remember that it is a tiny computer for watching Netflix and shopping, AND talking to each other so ... not too bad!
What color did you get ? I got the dark green and it looks black to me, so, meh.

I « broke down » lol ... had a breakdown??? and bought a couple of gold bands yesterday.
To distract me from going through all my parents’ boxes of love letters. So poignant to read now that they are gone. I’ll save a few for DD and ship the rest to my sister. I am on the freedom trail to downsizing, with only about 2 tons to go.

Is it just me or do other people do this weird frantic end of year cleaning???

I got the silver color. I am soooo boring what can I say lol. My nieces got the regular iPhone 11 in lavender and mint green (I don't think that was the name of the color but it was the green blue phone) but the Pro Max (like the Pro) only came in regular colors I think and I love silver/white gold/platinum haha so that's what I went with just like my current iphone. Yes they are mini computers and for my big hands and tired weak eyes the larger the better haha.

Aww about going through your parents love letters. How poignant and I imagine bittersweet because you are missing them. I know it's not the same thing but I think of Francesca all through the day and night when I wake and I miss her so much. Of course with human loved ones it is that much harder. I know this even being the crazy animal person I am I know how much harder it is losing a beloved human family member. Sending you lots of love and comforting hugs. You are in my heart dear Jimmianne. Today and always.

Oh and about end of the year frantic cleaning I have had enough cleaning to last me several decades if not my entire life so yeah no cleaning for me lol. RW cleaned the heck out of any desire to clean. :/
 
Happy healthy blingy new years to all !
Missy the view out your window of the water is incredible! For years I've longed to live near the ocean, but it's not doable rn.
 
Missy, Pets and humans...They are in our hearts and brains and every death is a death to a part of us.
 
Missy, Pets and humans...They are in our hearts and brains and every death is a death to a part of us.

So true @Jimmianne. Forever in our hearts and minds. And when they die a piece of our hearts break. :(
Speaking of "pets" OMG Oliver is incorrigible but oh so cute

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He is trying to get me off Pricescope. Just cut his nails and he is a wild beast. :errrr: But phew, we survived.:cheeky:

Happy healthy blingy new years to all !
Missy the view out your window of the water is incredible! For years I've longed to live near the ocean, but it's not doable rn.

Thank you @Polabowla. It was a dream for us to be able to purchase this house. I love living by the sea. Maybe one day it will be a dream come true for you as well...if it isn't doable where you live now maybe one day you can live somewhere it is a possibility. One thing I have learned as I get older (and a bit wiser) is that nothing is impossible and one day at a time.

Here's one of my favorite photos (last year) of Francesca at the beach house. Tommy is in this photo too.

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Happy Meow Year to all!
 
@missy happy new year to you friend! You've definitely made my 2019 much happier! It's been soo much fun to post and have fun about jewels but most importantly about life and what we are all going through. You've said this has been your most challenging year. You've sailed through it with grace and perseverance and compassion for others. You are wise with your words and deeds and you're a lot of fun! You helped me make decisions over some gorgeous vintage pieces that I absolutely treasure. And you've given me wise words and excitement for my wedding and marriage. May 2020 be your most fantastic year ever filled with love, health, happiness and wealth. Hugs to you! Hope to see you in 2020!
@Mamabean my heart has been breaking for you. Anxiety is just awful. I'm so sorry your husband is dealing with this. Chamomile tea may help too. It's so debilitating. Prayers to him that his anxiety is relieved. prayers to you for a beautiful 2020 and have fun with your mad money. Hugs to you!
On my phone. Will write more later. Love and hugs to all nirdi!
 
My hubby is still having a rough time with not being able to breathe which makes him panicky. He looks so pathetic.
...
The antidepressant won’t kick in for a month or so.

The challenge is that his nose isn’t blocked from stuff... [] It’s just swollen up there.

IMHO, the relevant doctor may not know that this is not just a runny nose, not about his former addiction. Will your doc resent your asking him about another patient?

If inflamation is the problem, take an OTC anti-inflamatory, perhaps a higher doze than your usual if certainly not OTT. [too obvious advice, I am guessing that you have already done this, but do not know]
 
@missy Francesca is all darkness & depth in your pictures - I am not surprised you are wearing her badge! ,(
 
Happy New Year lovely NIRDIs, I’m wishing nothing but good things, great health and no worries in 2020 to each of you.

We’re just off to bed to watch some TV, probably the Christmas episode of Call the Midwife.

I’m not feeling like celebrating, but looking forward to 2020 because it’ll bring us closer to our ultimate goal.

:wavey:
 
Happy New Year lovely NIRDIs, I’m wishing nothing but good things, great health and no worries in 2020 to each of you.

We’re just off to bed to watch some TV, probably the Christmas episode of Call the Midwife.

I’m not feeling like celebrating, but looking forward to 2020 because it’ll bring us closer to our ultimate goal.

:wavey:

Happy and healthy New Year @Austina. 2020 will be a good year I feel it. Sweet dreams.
 
Happy New Year, Austina. :appl:
 
OK following in @canuk-gal and @Jimmianne 's lead...
These aren't bad.


:love:

FABU!!!!!!!!!!!!!! They told us to come by the showroom and try them on! For us dangle earring gals!! :)
 
HI:

@Austina Happy New Year! Sleep well.

cheers--Sharon
 
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Happy New Year! [one hour to go]

¡ What a beauty, @Scandinavian !

Is it just me or do other people do this weird frantic end of year cleaning???

Of course I do. It is not a proper holiday without a good run.
 
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A new phone
Don't you find it amazing now much faster it is than your old one ?
i download a Bruce Springsteen show once a month and that'd how i judge how good a new phone is !!! How fast and easy it is
But we are Samsung galaxy people and i don't think i could learn how to use an i pbone


Didn't wake up till 9.30
the neighbours were playing loud music for a long time but luckily it was descent rock and roll and country

I thought i better make an effort for the first meal of the year so make banana pancakes and fried some ham

Tibby had breakfast and a new year day's cuddle - he seemed to have survived the excitement of the new year and the little stray kitten came out from behind the garden shed for her breakfast, i had been worried about her last night because the neighbours have their entertaining area right behind our shed and she's so timid
Borris was asleep this morning on her perch by the mircowave

Now im off to see when we will get the call the midwife Christmas special (i think its on friday ?)

@missy one day when i come to NJ i definatly have to meet your ice cream shop friend

the little grey kitten just pushes open the back door ....she must be hungry
Gary doesn't know ive been feeding her
we can't afford a 3rd cat and even if we could Gary bearly copes with 2 cats, but it's just till i can get her trust to pick her up so we can take her to the SPCA, she's very pretty, with long grey fur and a very swishy tail, but Borris isn't friendly towards other cats
 
IMHO, the relevant doctor may not know that this is not just a runny nose, not about his former addiction. Will your doc resent your asking him about another patient?

If inflamation is the problem, take an OTC anti-inflamatory, perhaps a higher doze than your usual if certainly not OTT. [too obvious advice, I am guessing that you have already done this, but do not know]

@AV_ Yes the doctor knows that he became addicted to the Afrin nasal spray..He said it was really common...What happens is you become dependent on it to breathe but you need more and more to clear your nose..He had no idea what was happening. He never wants that to happen again so I understand. Great news is he feels so much better at the moment. He’s smiling all over the place because he can finally breathe. I told him he needs to continue with the antidepressant. I feel he needs it..I’m just so happy he’s feeling better...Fingers crossed it stays that way.
 
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