LOVE! I had the best strand of multicolored lights with black, orange and deep purple that I wore out. I can't find them anywhere for replacement. I'll have my personal shopper (DH) look online. He is addicted to Amazon.
Wearing my honeymoon ring today to match my hot pink loungewear! hopefully this cheers you up @marcy . Little cloudy and drizzly so the color is not as bright as usual. But we still love her!
GM girls! Happy rainy stormy marvelous Monday!
@bling_dream19 ooh la la. LOVE the ring. Gorgeous.
@MamaBee I LOVE your Halloween decorations. My mom was born on Halloween and we always went all out with the scary theme. It was so much fun. Great job on your decorations.
@canuk-gal yay for cycling! It's in the 40s F here (brrrr) and pouring...with winds up to 35 mph. Should be clearing later but still windy. We might go cycling if the rain stops. We shall see. Hahaha yes we are cuckoo. Good luck with your tests this week.
@marcy keeping your family in my thoughts. Hope the flight isn't too bad for you. Sending you hugs and safe journey vibes.
@mrs-b hope you are almost all (if not all) better...please let me know how you are doing. Continued well wishes.
@Slickk hope you have a great week and everything is going smoothly. Big hugs to Bear.
@Austina I know you are feeling good and still on a high with the birth of your granddaughter. Happy occasions deserve lots of celebration. And this is the best reason to celebrate. Wishing you all so much happiness with this little one.
Hi everyone else. Hope all is going smoothly.
It's a busy few weeks coming up with appointments for me. Tomorrow I travel to see a new alpha specialist and the next day a new gynecologist and next week a repeat breast ultrasound (that appt has me nervous) to see if what they saw six months ago has grown or is more suspicious. And then an endocrinologist appt the day after. So a lot of traveling to NYC and all on different days.
Today is freezing and stormy and not sure we can go cycling but hoping somehow we can and the rain clears soon.
We had a good weekend running errands and playing cards. TG we enjoy each other's company because we are basically together 24/7. No hiking as planned with our friends yesterday as it was pouring all day so we have a raincheck for next Sunday. And that's my update.
Be well and enjoy a marvelous Monday. Sending you hugs and love.
There are 4 cats in this photo...can you find them?
@MamaBee
As some of you might know from my posts this year I have been having a sort of bad year. I finally was feeling a bit better and getting my life back again. Well we had a bike accident this morning and I broke my ankle/leg in 2 places. Tibia and Fibia. When I do something I do it all the way. I was taken to Monmouth hospital and had x-rays/Cat scans/blood work and met with the orthopedic surgeon who just happened to be visiting a patient there when I was there. He said it is a very bad break and will probably take a year for me to start feeling like myself again but that hopefully in 6 months I can get back to easy activities and such. I have to stay off it at least 3 months-no weight at all and they are not sure how long I have to wait to have the surgery (he said he estimates it will be at least a 3 hour surgery) because my swelling is so bad they have to wait to do the surgery. I am going to need pins and screws and what have you. All foreign language to me.
So I am a bit depressed because being active is the one thing I can use to work out my stress which I have had some of this year LOL. I am worried that 1. I will never get back to the same activity level I used to love and 2.I will never feel 100% again and 3. I am also concerned about the next # of months. How am I going to not go out of my mind. Doing nothing is not something I can do well. But I have no choice. There really is nothing I can do.
And lastly I am very worried about my job. I am a consultant and they have no legal obligation to wait for me. The clinic director is not a nice guy to say the least and his only concern is making money for the clinic and if I cannot see patients for 3 months he is not going to wait. I am the only one in my profession there so no one else can see my patients. I haven't called them yet because he leaves early on Fridays so he was already gone when I spoke with the orthopedic surgeon. I am so sad about this as I love my job but there is no loyalty when it comes to dollars. They will not just hire an interim doctor either. They will just say bye and that'll be that. So sad about this. I want to curl up and just cry about everything yanno?
I also have an appointment at the Hospital for Special Surgery Monday AM with an orthopedic surgeon my mom saw when she had a botched surgery that he fixed. My family is adamant that I get this second opinion and they know how good this doctor is having personal experience with him and his reputation is stellar but the thought of dragging myself to the city etc with all the pain I am currently in is terrifying. I have a high pain threshold I really do and I am crying from the horrible pain I have been in all day from this. Vicodin is not touching it at all. And of course no matter how good a doctor is things can go wrong so all around scared, in pain and depressed.
And I cannot get up the stairs here (at beach house) so I just gave up and will spend the night on the couch downstairs. My poor dh is doing all he can but he cannot help my pain. We were supposed to see my family here tomorrow for a belated father's day celebration and now they still want to come but I couldn't even get to the backyard today when we got home because there are a few steps down outside and I tried but just couldn't do it. I am happy I was able to climb the short stairs to the front door to get into the house. I had a cast up over my thigh but the surgeon cut it off and redid it to my knee thank goodness. So much pain.
I am so sorry to be here again crying on your shoulders. I am sure some (many?) are sick of my sad sack posts this year and I apologize sincerely. But I just had to cry here once again. This year sucks lemons. I know the journey ahead will be challenging and I will be doing my best to maintain a good attitude because there's no other choice. Thanks for reading all my ramblings.
I too have had health problems for past two years and lost my job in the pandemic. The stress just about ended my life! But, hang in there! Things will get better. Find something you like to do and it will take your mind off your worries. Keep in touch with friends and family, and try to stay positive. My ex (I also ended up getting divorced last year after 40 yrs. of marriage) always says don't worry about things you can't change. I know that's easier said than done, but true nonetheless. Get up every morning and get dressed. Put on some makeup and a little jewelry and you will feel better. Put yourself out there and you will see your outlook getting better. Good luck to you!
GM girls! Happy rainy stormy marvelous Monday!
@bling_dream19 ooh la la. LOVE the ring. Gorgeous.
@MamaBee I LOVE your Halloween decorations. My mom was born on Halloween and we always went all out with the scary theme. It was so much fun. Great job on your decorations.
@canuk-gal yay for cycling! It's in the 40s F here (brrrr) and pouring...with winds up to 35 mph. Should be clearing later but still windy. We might go cycling if the rain stops. We shall see. Hahaha yes we are cuckoo. Good luck with your tests this week.
@marcy keeping your family in my thoughts. Hope the flight isn't too bad for you. Sending you hugs and safe journey vibes.
@mrs-b hope you are almost all (if not all) better...please let me know how you are doing. Continued well wishes.
@Slickk hope you have a great week and everything is going smoothly. Big hugs to Bear.
@Austina I know you are feeling good and still on a high with the birth of your granddaughter. Happy occasions deserve lots of celebration. And this is the best reason to celebrate. Wishing you all so much happiness with this little one.
Hi everyone else. Hope all is going smoothly.
It's a busy few weeks coming up with appointments for me. Tomorrow I travel to see a new alpha specialist and the next day a new gynecologist and next week a repeat breast ultrasound (that appt has me nervous) to see if what they saw six months ago has grown or is more suspicious. And then an endocrinologist appt the day after. So a lot of traveling to NYC and all on different days.
Today is freezing and stormy and not sure we can go cycling but hoping somehow we can and the rain clears soon.
We had a good weekend running errands and playing cards. TG we enjoy each other's company because we are basically together 24/7. No hiking as planned with our friends yesterday as it was pouring all day so we have a raincheck for next Sunday. And that's my update.
Be well and enjoy a marvelous Monday. Sending you hugs and love.
There are 4 cats in this photo...can you find them?
@MamaBee
Took me a moment!! LOL! i used to do TNR for a rescue group and I miss those days! They're so cute! Marriage is about compromise and my husband doesnt like cats, so my cat days are over.
I believe you and I live geographically close, and I am proud to say I rode this morning! I am actually recovering from covid (i tested positive last Monday so 1 week) but i bundled up and did it. There was one wind gust that almost knocked me over. I feel like as long as my ears and hands are covered I'm ok. The coldest i ever rode was 34 degrees that was last April. When the pandemic hit I just started riding every single day since the gyms were closed and now it's a personal challenge to make sure i ride daily!
I too have had health problems for past two years and lost my job in the pandemic. The stress just about ended my life! But, hang in there! Things will get better. Find something you like to do and it will take your mind off your worries. Keep in touch with friends and family, and try to stay positive. My ex (I also ended up getting divorced last year after 40 yrs. of marriage) always says don't worry about things you can't change. I know that's easier said than done, but true nonetheless. Get up every morning and get dressed. Put on some makeup and a little jewelry and you will feel better. Put yourself out there and you will see your outlook getting better. Good luck to you!
Hi NIRDI’s!
@missy oh no for getting five days of rain. We had a bit of rain yesterday and today but sure need more. It’s definitely feeling like fall here. That’s great Jimmy loves his new bike and you enjoyed a nice ride visiting furry friends, people friends and ice cream. Good luck with your appointment.
@MamaBee darn that that house wasn’t the one - the perfect one for you is out there. Those Halloween lights look great. I have some star lights in a jar and bowl, I am going to get out some batteries after I post. They are a nice pick-me-up. You house plans sound quite logical for the future.
@canuk-gal glad you picked up some pumpkins. Our store had some white ones in now too. Spending $200 at the grocery store isn’t much of a challenge these days. I only spent about $60 today but I only needed fruit, bread, cheese and yogurt. I hope your new meds work well for you. Lots of nice pictures of sweet kitties. Mmm ice cream. I picked up more of my new favorite today - it’s a Baskin Robbins gold medal ribbon. I enjoyed some for dessert. Nice you met such a lovely lady yesterday offering you a coin; I agree in that I think most people are good and kind.
@Austina I chuckled when you said the same thing as I said about $200 groceries. You are right teeth can cause all sorts of problems. Your granddaughter is precious, very sweet and cute. I am sure you and Colin are excited to see her in person. I wonder what Bertie will think of the new baby?
@bling_dream19 I hope you are doing well. How’s that pretty pink spinel doing?
@mrs-b glad to hear you and Tim are feeling and doing better. Sounds like you have some great plans on your home. It is fun to change things up or add new things. I have to agree with you on this record long time to get a crown put on a broken tooth. That tooth aches most of the time but it’s hard to say why since it’s been covered by a temp crown that long. It doesn’t give it a chance to heal. Brushing my teeth just flares it up again. I also get numb when I lay down on a pillow - it’s getting worse too and I still don’t know if it’s the tooth of maybe the lump in my thyroid. Last night over 3/4 of my face feeling numb.
I dropped Marty off at our local airport this morning at 5:30. He didn’t realize this but they were keeping his brother alive on an incubator and tubes until he and his parents arrived. They removed everything and well you know the rest. Pretty sad even though everyone knew it was coming. Never easy, but he at least isn’t suffering now. I’m not thrilled that to fly out there by. myself, my knee isn’t ready for more planes and airports but will go when they figure out plans. That means I’ll probably have to reschedule my appointment to get results on my thyroid. Oh well.
I picked up some more clothes today that fit me. Yay. Next is getting my rings sized.
Take care.
Marcy