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WishfulThinking

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I know I don''t post often, but today was one of the best days ever, and I wanted to share it with all of you! I am not sure whether people in here actually care about it or not, but for me and my girlfriend [future fiancee!], today marked one of the hugest things that stand between us and getting engaged.

CALIFORNIA LEGALIZED SAME SEX MARRIAGE!
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http://www.cnn.com/2008/US/05/15/same.sex.marriage/index.html

I know it will be a difficult road ahead in terms of the proposed anti-gay ballot initiative to amend the CA constitution to ban same sex marriage in Nov., but I am starting to have some hope, against all odds. After all, if Arizona can defeat an anti-marriage amendment, there''s some inkling of hope for CA, right?
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I am a MA resident, and in my state we already have same sex marriage. However, my girlfriend is a CA resident, and we do not intend on residing in MA permanently, so we were ineligible for a marriage license due to the MA law prohibiting out of state couples whose home state does not recognize the marriage to be married here. However, now that CA has made it legal [minus the 30 day waiting period, of course, and pending any possible holds on the decision that may come from the opposition
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] we would be eligible for licenses both places, and we are planning on residing in CA permanently!

Anyways, this is just my opportunity to share with all of you the wonderful news that''s in my life currently! I think this is inching our timeframe forward slightly, so we may be engaged sooner than we''d thought. We''re planning on having a night out and proposing to one another at the same time- not exactly a bastion of surprise or anything, but it seems like a fun and romantic way to do it where we are both equally involved!
 
AWWW! THATS SOOO DAMN AWSOME! CONGRATS!
 
That is great news!! Time for the rest of the States to catch up to Canada!!!
 
I was so pleased to hear that on the radio earlier -- I''m strongly in favour of it. And how exciting for you!
 
Congratulations! How exciting!! i love the equal proposal idea... make sure you keep us updated - and we DO care!!
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Wish! I meant to send this to you earlier when I got the news, but I''m still studying like mad. Yay!!!! Equal rights for ALL!!!!!! I''m extra proud to be a Californian today.

-Cartwheel.
 
Thanks so much for all of the sweet comments!

It means a ton to us to know that people out there care and are supportive... some of the things that have been said in the wake of this decision have been downright nasty [you''d think I would be used to it by now, but I''m definitely not
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] and I keep waffling between being incredibly elated and incredibly hurt that people hate us so much.

But, regardless, time to celebrate! I''ll be updating everyone probably more often as stuff gets more and more exciting- and it will!
 
Date: 5/16/2008 12:53:23 AM
Author: WishfulThinking
some of the things that have been said in the wake of this decision have been downright nasty [you''d think I would be used to it by now, but I''m definitely not
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] and I keep waffling between being incredibly elated and incredibly hurt that people hate us so much.
don''t let brainwashed, narrow minded people spoil your excitement and happiness! They''ll catch up one day...
 
Wish, I am happy for you. It is a step in the right direction and about time!

Please know not all people are ill intended, maybe just ignorant? It is easier to take shots at something we do not fully comprehend or that is a bit scary to us (out of one''s comfort zone).

Do not let anyone rain on your parade.
 
YAY!!! Rock on!!! I think that deserves a Congrats!!!
 
LOVE the equal proposal idea...congrats to you both!!

Now if the other states would follow suit...
 
woohoo-that''s absolutely amazing news
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Thats fantastic :)
 
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That''s awesome! And about time. I think in this day and age it''s terrible what we have laws determining who we can marry! You go girl (girls!)

I always sayl people that have intolerant attitudes to same-sex relationships this: Close your eyes and think about the love you have for your wife/husband. You can''t help it right, it''s just meant to be, right. Now imagine if someone told you that this was wrong and wouldn''t let you recognise your relationship/marriage. It''s terrible! And so narrow-minded. This is such a big step in the right direction!

Anyhoo, I''ll get off my soap-box and say congratulations! Can''t wait for the engagment!!
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That''s great news! Congrats! I never saw the point in not letting same sex people get married....I''m glad more states are seeing this now too.
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I was thrilled to learn this also! So happy that CA decided to get with the program like MASS (my home-state!!!)!!! It is about time!

This is fantastic news for you! Congratulations to both of you!!!
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Very exciting! Huge congrats to you!
 
Yay!!!! I was actually thinking about you guys when I heard about that ruling--congratulations!!!
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I heard that this morning! Yayyy!!! That''s so great for you Wish!
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Yay!!! That's great! I think it's a awesome that you two are going to get married. And I sympathize with all the B.S. you have to put up with. Just keep remembering your awesome lady, and ignore everyone else who can't agree with it. :) I think love is a beautiful thing and should always be celebrated! Congrats, congrats, congrats!!!
 
Congrats to you and to everyone else affected by this ruling!
 
Yay! I''m so happy for you! I''m praying the ruling stays in tact. I just don''t get these people that are against gay marriage. GET OVER IT, IT HAS NO IMPACT ON YOUR LIFE! Ugh.
 
YAYAYAYAYAYAYAYAY!!!!!!!!!!!!!! This was always great news from the moment I heard about it, but now I feel like I REALLY have cause to be totally excited about it because it''s affecting people here in the PS community!!! Hooray!!!!!!!! WishfulThinking, I am SO excited for you and your girlfriend!!! It is TOTALLY about time!!!!
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Yipee and good for you and your GF! I think the proposing to eachother idea is so sweet, as well!

There are so many people out there who support same sex marriages.

Don''t let those BIGOTED people out there affect you. There will always be ignorant people who think its OK to spread hate and judge others becuase they have different beliefs.

I say SCR&W '' EM! Take your hate elsewhere.
 
congratulations! That is really great, I am so happy for you!
 
Cheers to you and your future fiancee!

I hope this decision stands-- and a big WOOOOOOHOOOOOOOOOO!!!! to everyone who can now legally marry. pursuit of happiness, indeed
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OOhhh, I just logged in for the first time since my last post and saw all of your lovely responses- I cannot thank you enough!

My girlfriend and I have been so busy with work that we haven''t had nearly enough time to celebrate this happy time... we should have a bit more time this weekend. :)
Howeeeever, we do have some rings in the works, and are planning on celebrating the ruling, ourselves, our love, and our relationship one night very soon and exchange rings with one another. They''re BEAUTIFUL and I can''t wait to post pictures here for everyone to see!
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AWW this post has made my day. I''m so excited for you and your fiancee-to-be!!!!!!!!!
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And I cannot wait to see ring piccies either!!!
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Congratulations!!!! Can''t wait to see the rings!!
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