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Take that picture lady, I soooo wish I had! And LOLOL at your dadDate: 4/12/2009 6:19:50 PM
Author: Blenheim
... I guess I should take a newborn Mr Bear photo myself before George gets much older.
My dad left early this morning after visiting for a couple of days, and now my in-laws are in town. We ambitiously decided to have a nice meal out yesterday (sushi!). Besides some fussing as we were trying to decide what to order (and an awkward first nursing in public experience that my MIL was great at trying to help me with, while my dad decided to start taking photos of me as if I wasn''t self conscious enough) George just slept through most of the meal and did great.
Date: 4/13/2009 11:40:23 AM
Author: snlee
mela, shirt type thing would be good. Something that''s comfy, loose, and you don''t mind getting dirty. I labored at the hospital so I just wore a hospital gown. You''re planning to go natural right? Just wondering why does your MW want you to labor at home until 8cm? At that point you''re in transition phase and in a lot of pain! I wouldn''t want to take a car ride, even if it''s short. Just getting to the bathroom was a lot of work!
Date: 4/13/2009 11:56:09 AM
Author: Jas12
ETA--i was wondering about 8 cms thing too--in theory it sounds great. but i was in so much agony at 8 cms i could barely breathe. I know everyone is different but even being as prepared as i was for a natural birth i think i would have been at the hospital way earlier, *thinking* i was further along than i really was. But I am assuming your middie will be at home with you before the transfer right? If so, that''s different b/c you''ll have the knowledge and support available...
Date: 4/13/2009 12:37:47 PM
Author: Jas12
Mela--so many possibilities--i ''ve heard of women who labored all day with barely a cramp, get to the hospital, find out they are 10 and push-or u could be like me and think real contractions have started and still be just 1 measly cm. I would not have been able to walk into the hospital during transition--however i was partially induced and had just seconds worth of break in b/w my contractions and no pain meds to help cope (apparently quite different from strictly natural contractions). Point is, there is just so much variability. I am sure your middie will just play it by ear on the big day and judge based on your tolerance/needs--i wouldn''t worry about the planning too much, just get some comfy clothing options ready for the different possibilities. My hosital''s mat ward sounds like yours-it is SO old and ghetto (new hospital being built here too) --i would have way rather been at home so your middie is probably right about increased the comfort level. I am excited for you! It''s a crazy day, but it is amazing! Good luck!