Feeshalori
Rough_Rock
- Joined
- Nov 16, 2010
- Messages
- 55
I realize that many Japanese women do have the traditional makeup of submission to their culture and society; it's very evident in the IF. IDK, I had thought that because such ladies had the push and drive to go forward with their advanced studies and degrees and brought such talent and skills to their roles, they would be able to create a more modern culture in the IF. Obviously that's not the case since there's thousands of years of tradition and ceremony embedded in that environment and the IHA has an iron rule. Because Kiko demonstrates the traditional mindset of a Japanese lady, it's easy for her to survive in the culture of the IF; for Masako, less so. It's more the pity that Masako knew what she was most likely getting into, but had to capitulate to the pressure to marry the heir. She probably knew she'd be a trapped bird in a gilded cage, no doubt.
And as much as we'd all have wanted to see the survival of the Wales' marriage, for Charles and Diana to have stayed together in such a combative and tumultuous marriage would have definitely harmed the monarchy for sure. Inevitably, they had to divorce because this was no genteel relationship where the proverbial blind eye is turned and scandals swept under the rug. It was out there for the world to see, and inevitably the monarchy would have become a laughingstock. The constant negative publicity in the tabloids were already becoming a source of embarrassment to the BRF, and that was the last thing the regal and traditional Queen wanted to see in her reign. I hated to see the outcome, especially the effect on the two boys, but in the long run it was the wise thing to do. I just find it a shame that had Charles married Camilla years ago when they were younger, two marriages wouldn't have been destroyed and Diana would have most likely married someone else and perhaps be alive and happy today. Who knows.....
Patricia
And as much as we'd all have wanted to see the survival of the Wales' marriage, for Charles and Diana to have stayed together in such a combative and tumultuous marriage would have definitely harmed the monarchy for sure. Inevitably, they had to divorce because this was no genteel relationship where the proverbial blind eye is turned and scandals swept under the rug. It was out there for the world to see, and inevitably the monarchy would have become a laughingstock. The constant negative publicity in the tabloids were already becoming a source of embarrassment to the BRF, and that was the last thing the regal and traditional Queen wanted to see in her reign. I hated to see the outcome, especially the effect on the two boys, but in the long run it was the wise thing to do. I just find it a shame that had Charles married Camilla years ago when they were younger, two marriages wouldn't have been destroyed and Diana would have most likely married someone else and perhaps be alive and happy today. Who knows.....
Patricia