The four week freak-out!

[Tacori E-ring]

So...I know of at least 5 people whose invite got lost in the mail, I am still missing probably half of the rsvps (2 from couples getting married this summer, they should KNOW BETTER

) None of the guys (including FI) have gotten fitted for their tux, FI still hasn''t picked out gifts for the dads and the groomsmen, flower situation is not sorted out, I recently started a new business (great timing!

), arggg......I am so stressed out!

 

[KimberlyH]

Tacori,

How frustrating for you. Now take some deep breathes, do something nice for yourself and remember that whether or not the flowers are perfect, etc. in four weeks you will still be marrying the love of your life. Then kindly ask him to get going, give him a deadline and then leave it to him to complete the necessary tasks; divide the no responses up and enlist help to start making phone calls and delegate anything else that you are comfortable letting someone else handle.

It will all come together beautifully, and those things that don''t go as planned will only be known to you and the people you tell, everyone else will think the day was exactly as you wanted it to be!

Take care of yourself.

 

[Tacori E-ring]

Thank you kimberly. I know this is normal and I just had to vent. It isn''t even that I want or need everything to be perfect. Next weekend we are going back to WI and meeting with lots of venders so I KNOW I''ll feel better after that. I just felt overwhelmed.

 

[MelissaSue]

dont'' feel bad.. at 2.5 weeks out I was missing plenty of rsvps still.. All the guys had been fitted for tuxes EXCEPT my husband.. the worst part was though.. I didn''t have any idea what my ceremony would be like because our priest would NOT return our phone calls.. so I couldn''t pick my readings or music.. but somehow.. it all worked out in the end and I had a fabulous wedding!

 

[Tacori E-ring]

Thanks Melissa. I have work and life stress as well as wedding stress so I think that is what really broke me down

 

[KimberlyH]

Hey Tacori,

Just wanted to check in and see if you''re feeling any better and less freaked out. I sure hope so!