ljmorgan
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Date: 11/4/2009 8:24:38 AM
Author: Kit
I keep having this fear that somehow now we are not going to be able to conceive. And speaking of fear, I can only imagine how anxious you must be feeling right now, I know if/when I am pg again I will be a nervous wreck! I am already planning to do some meditation or relaxation techniques to combat the anxiety so it doesn''t hurt the little bean. Good luck to you, I am pulling for you and your bean!
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Kit I think that it is very natural to fear your next pregnancy, and even have the fear that you won''t be able to conceive again. When a loss happens, it jolts you into the reality that terrible things happen -- and unfortunately encourages your mind to imagine all of the other things that can go wrong. My daughter was stillborn in April, and I was terrified/convinced that we would not be able to conceive another child, even with no reason to believe so. Then I got pregnant in late August which turned out to be a chemical pregnancy. Although I was disappointed, I can say that I wasn''t surprised because I fully expected to have a miscarriage. Then I got pregnant the next cycle as well and again was convinced that I would miscarry. I''m now almost 8 weeks pregnant and even with two ultrasounds, waiting for the other shoe to drop. I just wanted to let you know that your feelings are natural, no matter how unpleasant they may be. The relaxation/meditation techniques sound like a great idea. I''m wishing you the best!