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The Official TTC Thread!

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Dreamer, LizzyAnn, and Hou - Big hugs as that made me feel a lot better, and thank you! EB looked up some info for me and it turns out that 24 is the median for 11 dpo. 28 low, my butt.

I guess I was kind of abrupt about G, huh? The doctor's been saying for at least 6 months that there's a chance he will need surgery to correct his strabismus (lazy eye), but that he wants us to keep patching for 3 hours per day first to make sure that the eyes are equally strong. I've expected him to say that G will need surgery at the last two appointments now, so it isn't a huge surprise, but it still wasn't good news to hear. He is going to have to keep patching and then follow up in another 8 weeks so that they can do the full workup again and take all of their measurements and readings, and at this point they are looking for his vision to be stabilized before surgery as well as to verify that they know the exact degree to which they are going to need to do things. So surgery itself will not be for a couple of months. It's just the one eye that's bad, but evidently each eye has 6 muscles and it is much easier to get them in alignment by operating on one muscle in each of the eyes than to operate extensively just on the bad one. It involves general anesthesia, which I am not wild about, but is an outpatient procedure that they do a lot of. When G has his patch on, we frequently have random people come up to us and ask us why we're patching and then talk about having this surgery when they were a kid, and their eyes always look completely normal to me, so that's another good sign.

NEL - that new job sounds really tempting and like it would be a great environment. It would be really hard to have to switch gears again with your TTC timeline, but I would have LOVED to work part-time for the first few months instead of going back full into the swing of things. Is there a minimum amount of time you'd have to work for them before the maternity leave kicks in? That's going to be a really tough decision; good luck!

LC - good luck this week!
 
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Sorry I've been away guys - MUCH has happened since I went on holiday for 3 weeks!

Congratulations Charbie!!

Congratulations Blenheim!!

What a wonderful holiday gift you two received this year!

I've tried to catch up on the thread as much as I can. Just wanted to tell FabCrab that it's totally normal to feel envious. One of my friends got pregnant first try with twins a couple of months ago and another told me today that she got pregnant first try on her honeymoon 3 months ago. Although it's only been 3 months for us, it's difficult not to feel mixed feelings about their news.

Just a quick update on me. It's CD 28 for me today. I have no idea when (or if) I ovulate, but we did get some sexytime in over the holiday in approximately the right time frame - but it feels like AF will be on my doorstep soon (starving, cramps, GI symptoms, sore breasts etc.). So I'm just waiting.
I have been taking Synthroid for 3 weeks now and I have follow-up bloodtests to get in 2 weeks and then an appointment with my dr. the following week. She referred me to an endo (but not an RE strangely, just a regular endo) so I have an appointment with that specialist near the end of March.
 
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Blen- FYI, my beta at 10 DPO was 13, and 12 DPO was 68 (low but doubling every 22 hours). I think the nurse is cuckoo :rolleyes:
 
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Hello ladies!!!!

This thread has been poppin' while I've been gone! I've read everyone's posts and hope everyone is doing well, had an amazing Xmas and New Year's!

Blen-Congrats congrats congrats! Glad you are fully up on the numbers - though its troubling that your midwife got you nervous. SO not cool!!! And I"m sorry to hear about G's surgery, but I think that type of procedure is routine. I know of several people who had it done and were fine.

NEL-That's a hard choice, but it totally makes sense to at least feel out your other options! I have a friend at work who just now is going back on PT (at 60% salary). She came back full time in August and just found it was too hard. I'm sure a transition period like that would have been incredibly helpful. I'll have to think about asking for something like that.

LauraLoo-Welcome to the thread & hope your stay is short!

Charbie-Congrats lady!!! Hope you're feeling well!

And a big general hello to LiangChi, DCgator, Dreamer, WOIN, Moxie, and LIzzy.

Just a little vent (similar to PumpkinPie & FabCrab's), as I mentioned before I left, whenever we visit hubby's family, we get bombarded with the "when are you havning babies" questions. This year was no different. And by the end I was a wreck. Top that off with the fact that it seems like everyone around us has been getting pregnant SO easily! One of the friends we visited had an oopsie baby 6 months ago. We got married in August 2008, and since then 3 members of our bridal party (and their spouses) have had a combined 4 babies and 2 more on the way! I'm sooo happy for all of them but three of the babies were 2nd time oopsies! We got lapped by all of them! ;( Just found out about one yesterday, which is why I'm so upset. I know it'll happen for us, but I wish it would happen faster...

Nothing really new here. Still waiting to O this month, and the AF. Then if it doesn't happen this month, we start Clomid.
 
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DCGator - Thank you! I really hope to join you ladies soon.

Just got the second beta drawn. The first one came back as 28. The midwife who drawed today's was kind of negative about it and thought that it was more consistent with lingering hcg than a new pregnancy, but I'm not convinced she was reading the chart right. It said that at the range for hcg at 3 weeks pregnant was 7-71, and so she wanted today's (possible 3w6d) to come back at minimum 71. Doubling would be "just" 56. I thought the range was just a range, and didn't mean it would be 7 at 3w0d and 71 at 3w6d? Like, during the 3rd week all of those hcgs could be normal, depending on when the fertilized egg implanted and how the woman's body was responding? Not to mention that I thought that the "test 5 days before your missed period" tests detected levels of 25 or higher and were meant for 10dpo or later. So a level of 28 on 11 dpo wouldn't be unexpected, I wouldn't think. She also said that she didn't work much and almost never dealt with betas this early and was filling in for someone...

Super emotional today, but George's ophthamologist also said at his appointment this morning that he needs surgery on both eyes, so it could be that, plus the waiting.

Blen - Excuse my judgement, but that midwife doesn't sound like the sharpest tool in the shed :rolleyes: DD was right, my HCG on 11DPO was 17.7. The were a little bit cautious of that number, but just two days later, my HCG went up to 77. So, please don't let that nurse make you feel nervous. I think that 28 is a great HCG for 11DPO. Just hang in there till Friday and I'm sure your HCG will be even higher :bigsmile:

As for little cutie pie George, I'm sorry to hear about the surgery, but it sounds like you might have a couple months to get used to the idea. Big hug dear!
 
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Hi ladies!

Hope everyone is doing well and starting the new year off with a bang!!!

Scarlet, i am sorry to hear you are upset due to all of the babies arriving around you. What I always tried to remind myself was that I am not sad that they are pregnant, I am sad that I am not. I know it is hard to see the light...but your time will come. And it will be so worth it! That little munchkin will be so special and you will take nothing for granted due to your wait for that little one! Good Luck this month!

Pumpkin pie, I am crossing my fingers that maybe you'll get a surprise and find out some good news! Good luck with the new doctor!

Blen, please keep us informed tomorrow. I am thinking only the best thoughts for you!

NEL, what did you decide on the new job prospect? Family friendly work environment is only going to make it easier for you when you do have that little one.

LC, is there any chance that AF may not come this month? That would be some fun news! Personally, i really like the OPK's. They worked really well for me when I had my son. They narrowed down my most fertile time and took the guess work out of it! Good luck!

Fabcrab, how are you doing? :wavey:

Here is my update...Today is my second day after the end of AF. I have started using the ovulation predictor sticks and based on my calculations, I should be ovulating next week! I can't wait to see the LH surge show up on my opk's! I already told DH to be ready and able! :naughty: This will be my first month trying and i am so excited!
 
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Pumpkin, Have you found any changes with taking Synthroid? Energy levels, etc? Hopefully you'll be able to get some answers from the endocrinologist. Hugs, about the mixed feelings of other pregnant friends. It's hard to be patient and positive, but it'll happen for you. Are you going to test this week or just going to wait to see if you are late? fingers crossed.

Blen, Aw, poor G, but sounds like the surgery sees totally successful. Still scary. I hope the patching will help with the surgery prep. Yes I hope everything goes smoothly. How are you feeling?

Scarlet, Hugs for the mini vent. Totally human so don't feel bad. You have a good attitude. I cannot stand the whole "When are you having babies" question. it seriously ticks me off. I was talking to my sis, and a more acceptable question to me is "are you planning on having kids." For some reason it seems less prying. Does that make any sense?

Lizzy, dunno about missing AF because I might be preggers. I guess there is a possibilty, but not sure how much stock I'll put in it. I think my cycle is just unpredictable as I re-regulate after HBC. I've been on HBC so long I can't even remember what day AF arrived on before HBC.. But I have a bunch of Wondfos so I could give it a shot every few days until AF.. I really haven't had any fertility signs (no CF, no O pain, etc) so I'm pretty sure I didn't O this month.

I feel way bloated but mostly because I'm doing this Cleanse program with sis so we've been consuming lots of fiber and water. Ugh! Uncomfortable...

Do you guys suggest any OPKs?

~LC
 
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Scarlet--vent away. I think many of us here can relate. I got it a bit when I was home as well and it is disheartening because I'd like to start trying, it's just that so many unexpected things popped up. Things I hadn't planned on and it hurts when people remind me that I'm not where I thought I would be. I just feel like all of this is such a personal journey that it's difficult not to have some downs, you know? And other people weighing in doesn't help.

Lizzyanne--interview isn't until Monday, but I have so much going on that I'm sort of hoping the offer doesn't come too quickly. I need some time to figure this out.

LC--you may have ovulated, but just not know it. I only had EWCM the first month off of BC, I haven't had any other signs since and the only way I know I'm Oing is from the OPK strips. I just have the cheapies from Amazon, so no suggestions from me!

AFM: The company that allows the 3-month part time post maternity leave is actually the company I'm working for now. It's one of the reasons I'd decided to stay before this other opportunity came up. However, the other opportunity could be better for me in the long run, so we'll see. My husband works for the other company, so I'm having him print out everything about maternity leave today, haha.

Also, our dog was diagnosed with something very bad today. I don't want to get all weepy about it, but I'm not sure what it means for us. I may need to take some time off to care for him, which means everything else might get put on hold (both the promotion I was hoping to get as well as any new opportunity). It also might mean that TTC gets put on hold. Things have been a roller coaster lately and I'm feeling very awful about it. I've literally been excited to TTC for years and was finally feeling like we could really start this year (this month even) and it's all up in the air now. Sometimes I feel like there's no point in me planning anything because life gets in the way!
 
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NEL, Hugs for you and Byron. ;( I know what you mean about life getting in the way. Wow, 3 months PT is a nice perk from your current company. But having DH working at the same company can be a good thing too. Lunches together and easier communication to pick up baby etc. But also have your DH check on the FMLA policy if both of you are working there. DH's company does something weird with mat leave if BOTH spouse work there. It's moot for me, so I didn't pay attention, but one of my friends she and her husband both work there and she's due in Feb.
 
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Yesterday's beta came back at 88!!!! I'm pregnant!! :D

NEL - I'm so sorry about Byron. Big hugs to you.
LC has a point that I forgot about - some companies make married coworkers split FMLA time, so that any time your husband takes off after the birth cuts into your maternity leave. It's something to ask about.

DCGator - I am really glad that she is not part of the regular rotation. I like everyone else I've seen or spoken to, fortunately.

I'll be back later, but just wanted to tell everyone the news. :D
 
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Yay, Blenheim!! I've obsessively been checking this thread today and am super excited about your good news!!!!!! A huge congratulations to you!!
 
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Blen, I knew it sister!!!!! Woo hoo!!!!! Congratulations! :appl: :appl: :appl:
 
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HOORAY!!! Go Blen! Early good news too!!! Big congrats and extra dumping of sticky dust for you!!!
 
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Pumpkin- That's awesome about the sexy time! Hey, we just need to keep our chins held high because even if we don't get the BFP this cycle at least we had a great time trying :D! Thanks for making me feel better about the whole belly bump jealousy. Now that I've had time to really digest the news, I am TRULY happy and excited for them. But it's weird because it's when I hear the updates is when I get a little uncomfortable--it's almost like I just accepted you're 12 weeks pregnant not 20 weeks but it's not like you can stay 12 weeks forever. I know, it's nuts! I really want to encourage you to see an RE...I mean if you're going to a more specialized doc, you might as well go all the way. I'm not saying a "regular" endo won't work but you may end up "wasting" more time. I didn't even need a referal to see my RE, oh and plus they have more specialized nurses that deal with fertility issues on a regular basis who you will be in contact with on the phone with questions and updates. Good luck though! If you can, try to schedule your appointment too right before or on CD 3 so you can get bloodwork done ASAP. You probably know this already, but an unmedicated cycle will be best (i.e. no clomid etc) but all my bloodwork was done while I was taking metformin though.

Scarlet- You just need to let them know "we'll have a baby when we're ready/when it happens". I swear, I think it's so unfair for relatives to pressure you into having a child. They need to realize that it's the parents' lives that will drastically change and it is not fair to the child to raise one when you are not remotely ok with the idea of starting a family. On the other hand, it can also be insensitive when the couple is trying and the constant questions only highlights the fact that it is not happening just yet. I hate the idea of being lapped too but you know it's just going to happen at our own time. I really hope clomid works out for you!!!! We just need to try our very best to relax because the spermies are repelled by stressed out eggs!!! hehe.

Blen- WOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO! Congrats again! Sorry about the scare.

lizzy- YAY for first month trying. I hope you become one of the pregnant people we "envy" this month hehe especially since you can tell everyone it happened the first try.

LC- my RE suggested the clear blue digital OPKs and to test at 11 am from CD10 till 20 or until +. I like it because i don't have to over analyze if the line is darker than the control and it gives you a smiley (although I've never seen it yet due to not testing at 11 am :angryfire:). I got mine from amazon.

NEL- I am soooo sooo sorry to hear the terrible news about the dog child! HUGS!!!!

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As for me I took the test and it was BFN (boo!). I knew it though but there was still a piece of me hoping for a BFP. It's ok, I talked to my nurse briefly and I am planning for the next Femara cycle! She said that I can take the pills on CD5 instead of CD3 but AF hasn't shown yet and if she shows tomorrow, DH will be back on CD14...I am hoping she doesn't show up until at least sunday or or 9 months later :rodent: haha!
 
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Blen- Congrats!!!!!!!!!!
 
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Happy Friday TTCers!

Blen – congrats again on rising numbers!

NEL – So sorry about Byron, I can’t imagine how scary that must be. You certainly seem to have a lot going on right now. I hope everything works out for the best.

PumpkinPie – Hope AF stays away!

Scarlet – I can totally relate to prying family members. I’ve actually been asked in the past if we were trying! Seriously!? I’m very careful to NOT giving anyone the idea that I’m even thinking about babies! I do not appreciate people prying into that part of my life. If I wanted to share, I’d bring it up myself! Also about getting lapped, I know how you feel. MH and I dated for over 5 years before getting engaged – next Nov. will mark 10 years together and we’ve only been married for 2 and a half. I’ve come to terms with the fact that doing things at our own pace has worked out quite well for us, even if we are “behind” everyone else who started dating after us…

Lizzyann – good luck and have fun with the OPKs! I am embarrassed to admit how many sticks I’ve peed on in the last 5 days :oops: . I actually shelled out for the digitals, blew through 20 of them and had to grab some more. I really wanted to see the fade in and out. Next month I might try and find some cheapies now that I am used to reading them.

LC – I’ve been using the CBE digitals. Expensive, but easy and fun. A box of 20 is $40 at Target and around $50 in the drug stores. I haven't checked amazon, I should do that!

Fabcrab – Sorry about the BFN. Sorry if this has been asked, but what exactly is Femara for?


As for me - First 2WW ever. I’m just trying to stay relaxed about the whole thing. I am a little nervous that we didn’t give it our all. I got positive OPKs on CD 16 & 17, and BDd on CD 11,12,13,16&17. I am pretty bummed that we missed CD 14&15. My OPK was positive starting at noon on CD16 and negative by 9pm on CD 17. We’ll see what happens.

Hope everyone has a great weekend!
 
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Congrats Blen!! those betas look great!!
 
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Congratulations Blen!!! That is such exciting news!!!
 
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Laura- DH and I bd'ed on CD14, 15 and 17 the cycle I got my BFP, so there is MUCH hope!!!! FX for you!!!!
 
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Oh my goodness I have missed a lot! Congratulations, Blen and Charbie!!!!!!! :appl: :appl: :appl: :appl: :appl: :appl:
 
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Thanks again to everyone!

Fab - It's good to hear that you have a plan for next cycle. Good luck!

Laura - Don't get too discouraged. Hitting CD14 and 15 wouldn't have given hardly any extra advantage if you O'd on CD16 or 17 and already hit both of those days. You did a pretty decent job of covering your bases there, and I'll keep my fingers crossed that it works out!
 
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I've been spotting for the past few days and my breasts are incredibly sore.. pretty sure AF is just around the corner. I guess I'm out this round.
 
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Congrats Blen, sending you heaps of sticky bean dust and to a healthy and happy 9 months.

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Much congrats to Blen & Charbie!!! Wishing you both a happy & healthy 9 months!!! :appl:
 
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Morning ladies-

THANKS for letting me vent! We'll just keep plugging away and let everyone think we're not ready yet.

Blen: YAY! YAY! YAY! Congrats, and I hope you have a wonderfully long next 9 months. :)

Laura: Keep up the hope; I know that 2ww wait is TOTALLY brutal! And you definitely covered your bases with all that BD'ing. Don't worry about the 2 skipped days. Your and your DH timeline is EXACTLY like ours - next Sat. is our 10 year anniversary together, and we dated for 5 years, and we were married in Aug. 2008. :)

FabCrab: Fingers crossed that AF doesn't show! But I'm glad you already have a nice little plan for next cycle. I'm going to pull from your optimism!

NEL: I'm soooo sorry about the pups. I know it's easier to say that feel but things happen for a reason and when it's time, you'll know (re: TTC). This morning I told myself that if I don't get preggers this month, that just means our little bean isn't meant to be an October baby.

LC: Which cleanse are you doing? I have done quite a few but none lately since we've been trying. Also, I've been using the same OPKs that you get on Amazon and just bought the ClearBlue ones to confirm for next cycle when we're on Clomid.

Lizzy: Congrats on starting TTC! That's so exciting...and have so much fun with the BD marathon!!!

AFM, I got all excited this weekend because I had A TON of EWCM on Fri and Sat,and got cramping on Sat. on the right side. So we BD'd both days. I didn't get a positive OPK before hand though. Unfortunately, I took my temp this AM and it was still really low (97.6 and normally its mid-98s if I've ovulated). This is NOT the first time this has happened. Any thoughts on why I would have SO much EWCM and not ovulate??? SOOOO frustrating! I think, according to past months, I should actually ovulate later this week. But we have guests in town and I'm out of town starting Monday! ARGH!
 
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Pumpkin, don't count yourself out until AF comes, so stay positive. :)

Scarlet, you guys can still get some BD action in despite having OOT guests. As long as it's just the two of you in your bedroom, that's what I'm sayin'.... Besides you guys have a higher purpose. ;)) I'm doing a cleanse made by Dr. Natura. It's just tea and fiber etc. Nothing too crazy.

AFM, I'm STILL waiting for AF (CD35).
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I did test a few wondofos over the weekend and they came back negative (no surprise there). Man those things are TINY! I kinda did a reassesment this weekend since my nips felt really sensitive, but I think that had more to do with it being a$$ cold out than me actually being preggers.
 
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Hi ladies! :wavey:

I've been mia from PS for a while, busy with life I guess, but my dh and I have decided that we are go for a baby. :) After some searching I remembered this thread and thought I would check in. I am currently off to read everything I can (temp charting might be in my near future), but just wanted to say hello and congratulations and/or good luck to everyone!
 
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Dani and Po - thank you!

IrishAngel - welcome! I hope that your stay here is also short. :))

Scarlet - Hmm. Sometimes women's bodies gear up to ovulate and then decide to pull back and try again, although I think I've also heard of delayed temperature rises. I'd keep temping and see what happens. And you can still try with host guests; you just need to be a little more quiet about things.

LC - Hope that something happens for you soon!
 
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lliang_chi - thanks for the encouragement. It's CD 33 and still only spotting (red and brown) and my breasts are the sorest I can ever remember them being.. But I don't want to get my hopes up since my cycles are often so crazy. I will wait a few more days and see what happens.
 
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Scarlet--The EWCM coupled with negative OPKs and low temps is very perplexing...what was your temp this morning? I have to admit, my motto would probably be "when in doubt, BD". Quietly, if necessary :naughty: . What Blen said about your body ramping up to O, then deciding to hold off does make sense. Maybe your body senses what is to come and just wants a few more days of normalcy!

LC--AF sure is taking her time this month! I'm keeping my fingers crossed for you!

IrishAngel, welcome!! Were you previously on BC? If so, deid you just stop this month or have you been prepping for a bit?

PP, I'm keeping my fingers crossed for you, too! I understand not wanting to get your hopes up, but the slight spotting and sore bbs are a good sign, so I'll be eagerly be waiting for you to pee on some sticks!

AFM: Things are actually good here. We're keeping the dog healthy and happy for now, which is goal #1. The interview went very well yesterday and now I'm excited about this opportunity. I miss my old boss, so working for him again would be nice and he's very much a family man (3 kids), which is encouraging. Everybody commented on the great work/life balance and I would love that type of stability. If I get an offer, I'm going to have a lot of thinking to do.
 
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