Lynn B
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Allison D. said:Lynn B said:ETA: I respectfully disagree with David. So what is Member A wants to buy Member B's ring and arrangements are made via a PM? How is PS in any way "liable" for this? As Maisie said, we are all adults here.
Lynn, I see your point, but I respectfully disagree on this one for a couple of reasons.
Pricescope states that it provides a place where people can come to learn without feeling as though they're being solicited or pressured. While private transactions aren't quite the same, they are nonetheless sales transactions which strips the claim of a solicitation free environment.
What's not being considered is that PS's name and reputation is most visible at risk if a transaction goes awry. Already, a PS member has posted about a private transaction with another PSer claiming she didn't get paid, and there's all this back and forth about what each party's responsibilities ought to be. If I were a newcomer to PS and read about that, I'd likely be concerned that this may not be a safe haven.
What about the possible damage by word of mouth in other places? I can easily see someone going to other forums saying "Oh, I got ripped off by a member of PS." That strikes against PS's reputation. Beyond that, i can just about guarantee that somewhere down the line, the argument will be made that PS provided the connection and should have done more to protect its members. The courts are full of claims like this, whether it's eBay or other venues.
It's great to think we're all adults here, and yes, most of us behave like it. But it only takes a few who don't to damage the whole.
Interesting perspective, thanks for sharing.
So if that is indeed a legitimate problem, then perhaps a solution (if PMs are brought back and a possible "solution" is even being requested ) is to make that part of the PM "rules". Something like, "In line with PS's mission to maintain a solicitation-free environment, no arrangements may be made to buy or sell via PMs", period. That takes it ALL off of PS. Again, I think that's probably unnecessary, and personally part of what I think is the *problem*... too many rules! But at least there's a legitimate reason that can be drilled down and found with that one.
Now would that prevent people from taking this hypothetical transaction off of PS altogether to say, FB or to e-mail? Nope, absolutely not. Does that matter to anyone here at PS? IMHO, it certainly shouldn't! PS's "hand" can ONLY reach so far! And besides, according to TGal, at least 50 Moms could be buying and selling right now behind the scenes to their hearts content. Not to mention everyone else who has ever met at a GTG or otherwise has "contact" off of PS.