waitin is makin me crazy

[jones_poet]

Hi ladies!!!!
im new to this. I am in such a panic. My bf is my best friend of 3 yrs. We have been really dating for 7 mos. We have been talking about marriage and even started looking at rings. I was akay until his mother told me about 2 mos ago that the ring i fell in love with he was going to get me. She also told me that he has been talking to her about marrriage and stuff. She is a wedding planner and filling my head with engagement and weddings and children and everything. Now im crazy, i constantly cry and expect that every occassion he will propose. just recently i found out that there was a good chance he was but now he not b/c he says he feel that i expect it so much that it will be impossible to surprise me. he says he just want to give me the ring and not do anything special b/c im impatient. I don''t know what to do, i have been dropping hint, and this is driving him crazy..... i want to stop but don''t know how to wait and what ot do with this time while i wait.... he says if i just back off he will go for it, but somebody please tell me how to WAIT!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

 

[sk8rjen]

Well, welcome!! We feel your pain, we really do! There''s no trick -- but many of us feel that getting it "out" here (and venting and being anxious and excited here) instead of to *him* helps. So, take a deep breath and chill out -- you at least know he''s WANTING to prpose, and by the sounds of it, soon. Enjoy the anticipation! Hopefully, your stay as a "LIW" will be a short one

jen

 

[jones_poet]

thanks for the kind words!!!