wedding nightmare

[Hudson_Hawk]

So last night I had my first wedding nightmare. I''m 53 days away from the big one and this is the first hint of panic or stress I''ve encountered over my [almost] two year engagement. I''m having a very small, 50 person wedding at a restaurant/art gallery in my city. The owner is somewhat senile and kooky, so we''re trying to be very careful to make sure we have everything in writing and all of the details are meshed out. My mom and I are having our final "details" meeting this coming weekend. Anyway, my dream last night went basically like this:

Mom and I walk in for our meeting and the owner says "we''re not going to be able to accommodate your event anymore"

 

[hawaiianorangetree]

Eekk!!!! but it''s just a dream... it''s your mind going wild with crazy stress/excitement about your wedding in 53 days no less!

Don''t worry.... unless you have heaps of uncanny, kooky de ja vu experiences all the time, it is not going to happen! It''s your mind playing the wot if? game.

Seriously... if this is the most stress/panic you have encountered over your whole wedding planning, you are doing soooo much better than alot of us!!

Relax and sleep well.

 

[Hudson_Hawk]

Yea, I''m not really freaking out about it, I think it''s silly. But so random...Let this be a lesson to every bride. Even the most laid-back, easy-going brides have wedding nightmares!!

 

[tlh]

Whoa! Crazy... did you watch bride wars recently or something....

 

[galvana]

I have had tons of these, actually mine are that FI left me for someone else -- Isn''t that HORRIBLE??
I dont understand why, he is wonderful, i NEVER doubt or question him, he NEVER flirts or does anything to make me feel he would leave me.

but i have had that dream a few times.

i dont like it.

 

[galvana]

but then again, i do have abandonment issues from my childhood so im sure that has something to do with it.
they only started the past 6 months. they are very unpleasant

 

[iwannaprettyone]

Wait til you have the "I''m naked walking down the eisle moment"...lol That one is a doozy.

You are SO close, hang in there and try to soak it all in.

 

[Hudson_Hawk]

Nightmare is right!!

 

[Keepingthefaith21]

Ohhh HH I have to admit, I am a little jealous you got this far into your planning without a series of nightmares!

I''ve had plenty - from FI not showing up to someone forgetting to grab my dress to running out of food...I''m only at the 6 month mark. I think I have quite a few doozies in front of me yet!

At least it is just a dream and you know everything will go off without a hitch!