- Joined
- Apr 20, 2017
- Messages
- 3,700
Damn I feel so low budget in comparison!
My big impulses are usually something like a Diptyque candle. My latest was velvet mauve curtains ($600). Worth it, little things can change the whole mood of a room.
This thread needs pictures of the impulse buys!!!![]()
OH MY GOODNESS!! That is gorgeous!! Totally worth it!![]()
Ok those curtains sound AMAZING.
Also tell me- are those candles worth it?
So I’m a huge sucker for the Diptyque brand. I love the label, the branding, the limited edition ceramic jars. I will say, the only scents in the line I find really extraordinary and unique are Feu de Bois and 34. The others I’ve tried are cozy and long lasting but you could scratch the same fragrance itch with a less expensive candle. Still, they create a vibe in your space, and that’s why I keep coming back!
I bolded the parts of your comment that I really relate to!This is an interesting question. I have made a couple of impulse purchases in the past couple of years, and I am downright THRILLED with them.
One may not fit your category because it was a piece that was on my “one day, if the opportunity arises” wishlist. I did not expect to be offered an onyx/pave 5 motif at a VCA boutique this summer, but when I was, I pounced. I adore the bracelet and have zero regrets.
Another fairly recent impulse purchase was in the preloved forum. I love it so much it has its own thread. It’s my HPD 3 carat eternity band. It was a true impulse buy. I already had an eternity band that was bigger, I truly had no need for it, and yet. I pounced. I love CBI diamonds and HPD lux melee, and it was a chance to have a beautiful band. I wear it ALL the time and have zero regrets.
So for me, an impulse buy comes down to knowing myself and my collection, and where something fits. It only happens at all if I have the cash and if my husband is also on board. Even if they’re impulse buys I usually end up allocating them for gifts for various occasions (the onyx/pave became an anniversary present). And most of all, I know myself well enough to know I cannot pass up the opportunity because I will wear the fool out of it. That’s when an impulse buy is worth it for me.
Oh wait. I guess I just made another one. I just bought @diamondseeker2006 ’s WG hammered 5 motif bracelet (will receive this weekend). It falls along the same lines of the above reasoning for me. It was on my “one day, if the opportunity arises,” list. Cash was available, husband agreed. And it will be allocated as Christmas gift from hubby.
I actually have regret over one impulse purchase I did NOT make. A few years ago, my Rolex AD offered me a two tone white face Daytona. And I turned it down. WHY OH WHY. Well, I can tell you why. It wasn’t on my long term wishlist and I wasn’t sure how I felt about two tone and even though I could have done it I wasn’t sure…..
By the time I was sure, it was long gone and I have never seen another one. Now I am certain I will never see another one, at least not at retail. Sigh.
I impulsively buy things fairly often but usually no more than $500 to -$1,000. I have a bling budget and I try very hard to stick to it. Besides, I very often change my mind about said purchase and end up selling it down the line…which usually keeps me from being spend happy. However, all my budget rules flew right out the window when someone posted a 5ct, unheated, purple sapphire, in a gorgeous Leon Mege setting, on LT. There was no logical thought happening. I was overruled by that little demonic voice, deep in my soul, that required that this purple gumdrop of deliciousness be mine. I HAD TO HAVE IT!! So, in this one instance, I impulsively spent over $6k (the exact number eludes me). Just so you all know, I have no regrets!
![]()
So I’m a huge sucker for the Diptyque brand. I love the label, the branding, the limited edition ceramic jars. I will say, the only scents in the line I find really extraordinary and unique are Feu de Bois and 34. The others I’ve tried are cozy and long lasting but you could scratch the same fragrance itch with a less expensive candle. Still, they create a vibe in your space, and that’s why I keep coming back!
I remember this!! Such a beautiful color. Thank you for the pictures, too!![]()
I'm just over here with my $5 Target candles nbdbut I bought a $36 cloche matchholder from anthropologie to light them.
Actually, Target has some shockingly good soy and wood wick candles this year for $15! It sort of had me rethinking my snobbery a bit![]()
I impulsively buy things fairly often but usually no more than $500 to -$1,000. I have a bling budget and I try very hard to stick to it. Besides, I very often change my mind about said purchase and end up selling it down the line…which usually keeps me from being spend happy. However, all my budget rules flew right out the window when someone posted a 5ct, unheated, purple sapphire, in a gorgeous Leon Mege setting, on LT. There was no logical thought happening. I was overruled by that little demonic voice, deep in my soul, that required that this purple gumdrop of deliciousness be mine. I HAD TO HAVE IT!! So, in this one instance, I impulsively spent over $6k (the exact number eludes me). Just so you all know, I have no regrets!
![]()
Keeping in mind your finances and your wish list/goals.
What's a "wish list"?
I have wanted one of almost everything at one time or another. At this point, most things we buy are somewhere between wish list and impulse -- but not quite at either extreme. I know myself well enough by now to know that any eye-catching super-cool anything -- jewelry, car, furniture, art -- needs a cooling-off period. The jewelry purchases that we have enjoyed the most have been "opportunity-based" (ooh, would you look at that) and not the culmination of a long, methodical search. Any wish list is excessively limited by my imagination.![]()