5.14ct H VS1Cushion Brilliant - please give me your thoughts

[kenny]

Re: 5.14ct H VS1Cushion Brilliant - please give me your thou

I honestly think you need to do some self-reflection. I understand that diamonds bring you joy. They do the same for me. BUT, you need to be able to be truly, 100% satisfied at some point - it's not healthy to strive incessantly for something else, seemingly anything else. It feels like you've got an obsession, perhaps a true addition.

Justginger you know I love you but ...
EEK!
I don't think it's groovy to expect others to share your standards about such things.

People vary.
How Phoenix is with her jewelry is perfect for her, even if it's not for you.
Even if a person wanted a thousand upgrades that's perfectly fine if that's what a person wants to do with their time and money.
Some enjoy the journey as much as, or maybe more than, the destination.
Some love change.
Who am I to say that's doing it wrong, or that being satisfied with one thing forever is the right way, or even the preferred way, to do it?

 

[diamondseeker2006]

Re: 5.14ct H VS1Cushion Brilliant - please give me your thou

This may be a spectacular stone. If it is, I will happily vote for the trade. But if it's not, I will be honest. It does no one any good to simply have a bunch of enablers urging them on. They need true, honest opinions from those who can think of the person and their preferences. People have kindly done this for me, and I try to do it for others even if it might not be the answer they want. And I don't think for one second that Phoenix would settle for a bad stone! She waited months to find Holly and did not settle until she found an ideal cut in her color and clarity preference. She has several diamonds that are sitting there, so a trade makes great sense to me!

 

[singer]

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First off, let me just say that I do not know Phoenix' jewelry history...LOL...but I am surprised by some of the responses here. Aren't 99% (okay, that may be a slightly high estimate, but you get my point...haha) of us PS'ers "obsessed" with diamonds/jewelry and always looking for the next upgrade? Maybe not, but that's the impression I've gotten since becoming a PS'er over seven years ago. I know I am always looking for the next best thing...although I rarely have the funds to pay for it---so I don't! I know if my husband and I could comfortably pay for something that makes me so happy, he'd be happy to fork out the money. I may not get my 2.5 OEC dream rock for another 20 years, but I can dream, can't I? Now, if Phoenix is looking at a 5 carat honker, she obviously isn't in the same financial situation as my family. LOL! Lucky her! I think we need to just help her in her quest for her big cushion. Aren't we all here to help with our jewelry/diamond searches? I rarely see people judging others on this site, and that's what I love about Pricescope! I never feel like I'm being judged...even after changing my engagement ring setting three times. We all seem to be pretty much in the same boat here. Indecisive, ever-changing tastes, wanting an upgrade, etc. Let's just give Phoenix the help she's looking for . BTW Phoenix, I don't know much about cushions, but I wish you luck in your diamond search!

If you are unfamiliar with Phoenix's situation, look at her posts over the last 2 months. She is not on a quest for a big cushion, it is simply an opportunity that has presented itself, as others have before. I am normally an enabler (though not to the extent of the master, Enerchi), but you must realize that sometimes supporting someone is telling them the truth. I truly like Phoenix and don't want to see her forking over more money for a stone that won't make her happy. Again. If I were just in it for the bling photos, I would be on Team Rah Rah. But my concern is her lasting happiness.

I don't need to look at her posts. That's not the point. I just feel you've given her some much "unwanted" advice. She was not looking for advice on her life (read her initial post again). I'm pretty sure you offended her, but I could be wrong. For you to say, " I think you need to take all your diamonds off, go on a volunteer trip to Cambodia/PNG/Nepal, do a bit of spiritual work, and then see where that takes you"...wow, that's deep. Are you her psychiatrist now?

 

[04diamond<3]

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First off, let me just say that I do not know Phoenix' jewelry history...LOL...but I am surprised by some of the responses here. Aren't 99% (okay, that may be a slightly high estimate, but you get my point...haha) of us PS'ers "obsessed" with diamonds/jewelry and always looking for the next upgrade? Maybe not, but that's the impression I've gotten since becoming a PS'er over seven years ago. I know I am always looking for the next best thing...although I rarely have the funds to pay for it---so I don't! I know if my husband and I could comfortably pay for something that makes me so happy, he'd be happy to fork out the money. I may not get my 2.5 OEC dream rock for another 20 years, but I can dream, can't I? Now, if Phoenix is looking at a 5 carat honker, she obviously isn't in the same financial situation as my family. LOL! Lucky her! I think we need to just help her in her quest for her big cushion. Aren't we all here to help with our jewelry/diamond searches? I rarely see people judging others on this site, and that's what I love about Pricescope! I never feel like I'm being judged...even after changing my engagement ring setting three times. We all seem to be pretty much in the same boat here. Indecisive, ever-changing tastes, wanting an upgrade, etc. Let's just give Phoenix the help she's looking for . BTW Phoenix, I don't know much about cushions, but I wish you luck in your diamond search!

If you are unfamiliar with Phoenix's situation, look at her posts over the last 2 months. She is not on a quest for a big cushion, it is simply an opportunity that has presented itself, as others have before. I am normally an enabler (though not to the extent of the master, Enerchi), but you must realize that sometimes supporting someone is telling them the truth. I truly like Phoenix and don't want to see her forking over more money for a stone that won't make her happy. Again. If I were just in it for the bling photos, I would be on Team Rah Rah. But my concern is her lasting happiness.

I don't need to look at her posts. That's not the point. I just feel you've given her some much "unwanted" advice. She was not looking for advice on her life (read her initial post again). I'm pretty sure you offended her, but I could be wrong. For you to say, " I think you need to take all your diamonds off, go on a volunteer trip to Cambodia/PNG/Nepal, do a bit of spiritual work, and then see where that takes you"...wow, that's deep. Are you her psychiatrist now?

I have to agree with Singer and Kenny. Maybe it's from personal experience, but really, what she does with her money is none of your business. She has repeatedly said in previous threads that she does things that others are telling her to do with her money, but that's NONE OF OUR BUSINESS!!!! My goodness. Even in this thread she has made comments letting us know that she's not going to look at these negative unwanted posts, and that's what all your posts have been JG, eve after she's had to defend yourself. Who are you to judge her and tell her to take a spiritual trip? No body comments on how you run your life and I can't help but feel that maybe you're just jealous. This isn't the Hangout section. She wants to buy a stone and that's what this thread is here for. We're here to be supportive and that's what she's looking for. This is a DIAMOND forum. I really can't imagine how hurt she must be feeling to come here looking for advice and getting unwanted, negative and just plain rude comments. What's funny is you say that your "concern is her lasting happiness", when you're not ensuring that at all and are doing the exact opposite. This (diamond shopping) is what makes her happy. There are other things too, but this is why she's her on a DIAMOND FORUM. I made the mistake of saying something about the way she spends her money, but as she and DS pointed out, it's NONE of my business. And I agree!!!

Phoenix, I will agree with DS on something. I hope this is a well cut stone and if it's not, then I would get something else. Although, what most people think are garbage, I tend to love and what I'm not a fan of (chunky), others love. Do we get to see pictures soon?

 

[justginger]

Re: 5.14ct H VS1Cushion Brilliant - please give me your thou

I apologize if my comments have upset anyone, most of all Phoenix. Nothing was said from a place of jealousy, I love sharing in the excitement and happiness that others receive from their bling. I truly get the feeling that Phoenix is not happy with the bling path she has taken thus far, and was trying to voice concern that this purchase may continue along that same line.

The bottom line is yes, none of this is my business. I was speaking from a place of concern. I see now that they are concerns that I should not have. I am sorry.

 

[SB621]

Re: 5.14ct H VS1Cushion Brilliant - please give me your thou

Phoenix,

Is this from Perry at LM? If so I believe I "saw" this diamond. I didn't see pictures just general description and the report. Honestly I might have it confused as I look at tons of diamonds in a short period. But Perry only offered me 2 and I think this was one of them. I didn't go for it as it lacked the general pillow-y shape that I was going for. It was more rectangular in shape which didn't strike me. I think with antique cushions it is harder to tell what is a good/ well performing diamond from reports. It just has to be something you look at it and see if you love the shape and facet pattern. If you don't, then antiques...meaning true antiques and not recuts, aren't for you.

Goodluck with whatever you decide. I think if you don't wear your current collection get rid of it as long as you can live with your actions- and buy what you really want.

 

[Niel]

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I am certain jG was not coming from any place malicious, nor was she saying anything to really hurt feelings. Phoenix has made comments herself about money in other threads i think she was just trying to voice her opinion. Which is the point of a forum. And i think whe you start a thread, or any question really, with "i dont want to hear ______", its because there might just be something to it.
And to her point it does seem like you are just looking for any diamond, not really settled on one thing. With that said, i am not sure i wouldnt do the same if i was in your situation. This isnt coming from any place of jealously or malice, i just wonder if in a week youd still want it or if youd be interested in some other fantastic new find. I think maybe you enjoy the possibility of bling. The hunt.


If i am wrong than i hope this stone ia exactly what you wdre looking for

 

[Dreamer_D]

Re: 5.14ct H VS1Cushion Brilliant - please give me your thou

I would like to see a photo before I comment.

As a rule, I certainly support trading a few smaller stones for one larger stone. But I also agree with Yenny when she said that when she is not certain about something, then it is not the bling for her. I am like that too, and know that when I have been unsure about a decision, and proceeded anyways with the particular project, that I have always been unhappy with the end result. On those occassions where I have been totally sure of my path, that is when I have been most happy with the piece (this has only been once )

 

[diamondseeker2006]

Re: 5.14ct H VS1Cushion Brilliant - please give me your thou

Phoenix, my best advice to you is to ignore the posts that try to psychoanalyze your spending habits and do not comment on them. Address the posts that respond to your question.

 

[Laila619]

Re: 5.14ct H VS1Cushion Brilliant - please give me your thou

I'd love to see pictures when they become available.

Although this does seem sort of random...I don't recall you ever wanting a cushion before, Phoenix? Are you sure a cushion cut would get worn?

 

[Phoenix]

Re: 5.14ct H VS1Cushion Brilliant - please give me your thou

Phoenix, my best advice to you is to ignore the posts that try to psychoanalyze your spending habits and do not comment on them. Address the posts that respond to your question.

DS, thank you again for your very sweet post. You really ROCK!!

I certainly am going to ignore them, like I said previously. It's funny, I thought of the term "armchair psychologists" last night after I read those posts! I am pretty thick-skinned so I am not offended, nor hurt, just irritated that's all. I don't go around poking my nose in other people's biz or judging them, it's amazing how strangers who have never met me and have never had any interaction of me IRL/ outside of PS and don't know what I get up to think they can sum up my life and my mental well-being after a few threads! They obviously must have this illusion that they're well qualified to do when they're clearly not!

'nuff said!!

 

[Phoenix]

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Understandable. I just think big cushions end up looking like you are wearing a rock.

Ha ha, that is the intention!

 

[Phoenix]

Re: 5.14ct H VS1Cushion Brilliant - please give me your thou

I'm another huge admirer of your bling!! I agree with Yenny on this part though. While it may be the right time to sell the 3ctRB especially while you can make a profit, it may be worth considering putting the funds aside until the right stone comes along. What's the rush?? I would hate to see you roll it over into another ring that you just feel 'eh!' about kwim? You have stunning pieces to wear and other gorgeous projects in the works, so sitting back and waiting for the right stone will give you time to enjoy your other beauties!

You already know that we can't give you an opinion on the 5ct without more information, but I'm looking forward to seeing actual photos and ASET images.

I am not rushing, Christina. Like DS said, this opportunity has presented itself, I wasn't looking for it. Well, it might not be an opportunity after all if it doesn't look nice from the pics and ASET, nor will it be if the price-point is not agreeable.

I am taking my time evaluating it and see if it makes sense.

Thank you.

 

[Phoenix]

Re: 5.14ct H VS1Cushion Brilliant - please give me your thou

I'm incredibly flattered, since my "collection" is tiny compared to yours! For arguments sake, I would like to see a photo of the cushion you're considering. As you know, with any fancy shape, #s are only part of the equation....and (of course) what appeals to my eye may not appeal to yours, which is fine. We all look for different things....but, generally speaking, there are key elements to look for....so, I'll look forward to a few photos when you have them to post.

I have requested photos and an ASET image. So let's see...

I understand cushions vary tremendously and we all have our preference as to what we prefer. Actually, I don't know yet exactly what my preferences are as far as cushions go; all I know is that I'd like them to be antique or antique looking with very good to excellent performance, and possibly not too elongated. I am still doing my research to pinpoint the details.

 

[Dancing Fire]

Re: 5.14ct H VS1Cushion Brilliant - please give me your thou

Now, I am not looking for anyone to say "stop looking to buy more diamonds" or "your money can be better used elsewhere", however well intended these comments are. It is after all our money and our biz what we do with it. Sorry, that sounds a bit defensive and somewhat aggressive but I am really not looking for such input. FWIW and if anyone cares, after the earrings and this stone, I will not be buying any more bling (well except maybe a necklace), not even a 3-stone ring or an antique diamond honker either, nor another bracelet. AND I have been wondering what to do with the 3.02ct and my plan has been to sell it to fund the antique honker.


Thank you.

don't listen to them people,if you love the stone just "buy it" am i jealous?? of course i am ..

 

[Phoenix]

Re: 5.14ct H VS1Cushion Brilliant - please give me your thou

Hello Phoenix!!! I have been a member for a long time but rarely post. I love reading all of your posts in your quest to find exactly the right things for your collection. I am not trying to throw a wrench into things, but I had a thought while reading this thread. I know you are looking to find a larger, better colored pair of earrings than your current ones. Had you given any consideration to finding a match for your 3.02ct as your earrings? I wasn't sure if the 3.02 was in a cut grade that you love (I know this is important to you) and so it might not be the best option. But I wanted to put it out there just in case.

I think it is wonderful that your current stones will yield you either a break even benefit or a profit. Part of me would say "sell them all and put the money aside until you find what it is that you want". But I also know that the actual cash might be worth "less" in a few years if you saved it that long (unless you put it in an interest bearing account).

Aside from that, I love cushions and would love to have one personally!!!! This may not be relevant at this juncture, but I was wondering what sort of setting/plan you had thought of for this one? Not that it matters, but I am curious. I will be interested to see more about this stone you are considering and your ultimate decision.

(Incidentally, Brian is working on a reset project for me at this very moment. I will be posting about that down the line once it is all finished. All of my reading on PS finally lead to me to a decision on what to do with my setting).

Best,
Stephanie

Hi Stephanie!

Thank you for coming out of lurkdom to post and your lovely words.

I have actually considered that option, but given how expensive the 3.02ct is (and it is well cut, it's a sparkleball ), getting a match for it would yield a very expensive pair of earrings. Given earrings are more risky to wear (in terms of how they may slip out of your lobes, getting caught in yr hair etc...), I am rather reluctant to go this route. It's a good idea though.

The funds from the sale of these stones can be re-invested, no worries.

RE the setting for the cushion, I haven't actually thought that far, perhaps a halo a la HW (?) I dunno yet to be honest. Just want to see at this stage if it's worth buying.

Very excited to hear about your project with Brian. He and Lesley will look after you. Can't wait to see your thread about it.

 

[Phoenix]

Re: 5.14ct H VS1Cushion Brilliant - please give me your thou

Hi, Phoenix! Let me be the first to say, oops, second, because I think Yenny said it, too. But I understand not having things that are 100% what you want and working towards getting the collection to be what you want! I am still trying to get my e-ring settled, too!!!

I think a large cushion would be excellent!!! If this is perhaps a Perry chosen stone, I have high hopes!!! But I can't really have an opinion on a cushion without pictures. The numbers just don't tell enough. I wouldn't set it as a solitaire, though, since you have Holly as a solitaire.

I agree with selling the 3 ct rb. I can't see any reason to keep it unless you use it for the 3 stone ring, which I think would be an excellent third ring for you. But you can use the 2.6 for the three stone ring so I can see using the 3 ct F for the trade as long as your DH goes along with it. I really think the 2.2 (or was it 2.3?) is a gorgeous and huge size for studs and that is the one I'd continue to try to match for studs. mom2boys' studs are gorgeous and I just can't say that any bigger would look better than that. In fact, Donna just traded her WF studs for a smaller size because she felt they were too big.

Soooo, I will look forward to pictures!!!

I absolutely agree with you and Yenny. It'd def have to be something that I absolutely love, like I love the pieces I am currently wearing, ie. Holly, my pear etc...My core collection, once completed, will rock...if I may say it myself, lol!

It is not one chosen by Perry, sorry . Hmmm...good point re the solitaire...I will have to worry about that one and if it's purchased.

The 3ct is for sure going to be sold, at some point. DH is still rather reluctant but he's slowly coming round to it, or at least I hope that he is. Don't know yet whether it'll be the 2.3 or 2.6 RE the 3-stone ring. My first priority is to get a match for earrings and the possible match which I spoke of in the other thread is of a similar size to the 2.6. At this point, I will be happy with whichever matched pair that comes along first. 3-4 months (possibly even longer) is a loooooong time to wait for earrings, YKWIM, lol! Mom2boys' studs are certainly gorgeous and yes I did see that about Donna...don't know how she managed to do it, lol.

I hope you get your ering settled soon. I keep looking out for a new thread from you. Fingers and toes continued to be crossed for you. I know it's going to be absolutely exquisite, knowing your taste!

 

[Phoenix]

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Um YES PLEASE!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! I do have one request though. After you buy it, you send it to me here in Chicago and let me "borrow" it for a year JK!!! I love love love cushions and a 5ct!!! I'd pass out. But if you want to, DO IT!!! I would hope that it'd be a "crushed ice" cushion because I'd truly pass out!!! And you'd have to post a video of that baby under spot lighting, or ALL lighting! I'm a HUGE fan of this idea. Being someone that's given you unwanted comments before, I'm sorry that you're getting them again. Knowing what I do of you, I will always look forward to you expanding your collection and drooling over them and admiring them without judgement. As someone said before, this is a BLING forum!!! So more please!!

Thank you and no worries.

If I do get it, I'd certainly consider letting you borrow it...but wait, I'd have to charge you, he he...

And yes, certainly a video and lots of pics...but I shall not count my chicken yet...

 

[Phoenix]

Re: 5.14ct H VS1Cushion Brilliant - please give me your thou

You should get a couple of picture of the cushion. Hard to say what it'll look like and if it looks like an old cut, facet pattern will affect price, whether it is a true antique or not.

Pics already requested.

Could you possibly elaborate on the bolded part? Thank you.

 

[Phoenix]

Re: 5.14ct H VS1Cushion Brilliant - please give me your thou

First off, let me just say that I do not know Phoenix' jewelry history...LOL...but I am surprised by some of the responses here. Aren't 99% (okay, that may be a slightly high estimate, but you get my point...haha) of us PS'ers "obsessed" with diamonds/jewelry and always looking for the next upgrade? Maybe not, but that's the impression I've gotten since becoming a PS'er over seven years ago. I know I am always looking for the next best thing...although I rarely have the funds to pay for it---so I don't! I know if my husband and I could comfortably pay for something that makes me so happy, he'd be happy to fork out the money. I may not get my 2.5 OEC dream rock for another 20 years, but I can dream, can't I? Now, if Phoenix is looking at a 5 carat honker, she obviously isn't in the same financial situation as my family. LOL! Lucky her! I think we need to just help her in her quest for her big cushion. Aren't we all here to help with our jewelry/diamond searches? I rarely see people judging others on this site, and that's what I love about Pricescope! I never feel like I'm being judged...even after changing my engagement ring setting three times. We all seem to be pretty much in the same boat here. Indecisive, ever-changing tastes, wanting an upgrade, etc. Let's just give Phoenix the help she's looking for . BTW Phoenix, I don't know much about cushions, but I wish you luck in your diamond search!

Thank you, Singer.

And I hope you get the OEC of your dreams.

 

[Phoenix]

Re: 5.14ct H VS1Cushion Brilliant - please give me your thou

I honestly think you need to do some self-reflection. I understand that diamonds bring you joy. They do the same for me. BUT, you need to be able to be truly, 100% satisfied at some point - it's not healthy to strive incessantly for something else, seemingly anything else. It feels like you've got an obsession, perhaps a true addition.

Justginger you know I love you but ...
EEK!
I don't think it's groovy to expect others to share your standards about such things.

People vary.
How Phoenix is with her jewelry is perfect for her, even if it's not for you.
Even if a person wanted a thousand upgrades that's perfectly fine if that's what a person wants to do with their time and money.
Some enjoy the journey as much as, or maybe more than, the destination.
Some love change.
Who am I to say that's doing it wrong, or that being satisfied with one thing forever is the right way, or even the preferred way, to do it?

Thank you, Kenny. You're a sweetie.

People certainly do vary.

 

[Phoenix]

Re: 5.14ct H VS1Cushion Brilliant - please give me your thou

Phoenix,

Is this from Perry at LM? If so I believe I "saw" this diamond. I didn't see pictures just general description and the report. Honestly I might have it confused as I look at tons of diamonds in a short period. But Perry only offered me 2 and I think this was one of them. I didn't go for it as it lacked the general pillow-y shape that I was going for. It was more rectangular in shape which didn't strike me. I think with antique cushions it is harder to tell what is a good/ well performing diamond from reports. It just has to be something you look at it and see if you love the shape and facet pattern. If you don't, then antiques...meaning true antiques and not recuts, aren't for you.

Goodluck with whatever you decide. I think if you don't wear your current collection get rid of it as long as you can live with your actions- and buy what you really want.

No, it's not a Perry/ LM cushion. It's on a more well-known secondhand site, that's all I shall say right now, lol!

No pics as of yet..but have put out a request.

ETA: I do wear most of my current collection and am happy that my consolidated core pieces are finally coming together. The 3ct and the 1.5cts are the pieces I am sure I'd like to sell or trade-in. The J's will have to go eventually too. But one or two of the 2ct's may stay (the 2ct's are of my desired specs, I just have plans for them that may not come to fruition due to the lack of suitable rough).

 

[Phoenix]

Re: 5.14ct H VS1Cushion Brilliant - please give me your thou

I would like to see a photo before I comment.

As a rule, I certainly support trading a few smaller stones for one larger stone. But I also agree with Yenny when she said that when she is not certain about something, then it is not the bling for her. I am like that too, and know that when I have been unsure about a decision, and proceeded anyways with the particular project, that I have always been unhappy with the end result. On those occassions where I have been totally sure of my path, that is when I have been most happy with the piece (this has only been once )

I agree with you and again with Yenny.

I promise I will not proceed with it if I am unsure about anything about the stone or the price.

Thank you, Dreamer.

 

[Phoenix]

Re: 5.14ct H VS1Cushion Brilliant - please give me your thou

Now, I am not looking for anyone to say "stop looking to buy more diamonds" or "your money can be better used elsewhere", however well intended these comments are. It is after all our money and our biz what we do with it. Sorry, that sounds a bit defensive and somewhat aggressive but I am really not looking for such input. FWIW and if anyone cares, after the earrings and this stone, I will not be buying any more bling (well except maybe a necklace), not even a 3-stone ring or an antique diamond honker either, nor another bracelet. AND I have been wondering what to do with the 3.02ct and my plan has been to sell it to fund the antique honker.


Thank you.

don't listen to them people,if you love the stone just "buy it" am i jealous?? of course i am ..

LOL!! You're so funny, DF!

 

[Phoenix]

Re: 5.14ct H VS1Cushion Brilliant - please give me your thou

I'd love to see pictures when they become available.

Although this does seem sort of random...I don't recall you ever wanting a cushion before, Phoenix? Are you sure a cushion cut would get worn?

Pics hopefully are coming in the next few days...

I do love cushions on other people and esp on PS but I rarely see them IRL where I am (except for when I saw them at jewellery shows). So, that's another unknown that would need to be sorted out. I am thinking that if the price is right and the pics and ASET look great, I may actually have to fly out and see it for myself and see how it'd look like on my own hand. I am due a holiday to the States anyway!

 

[ForteKitty]

Re: 5.14ct H VS1Cushion Brilliant - please give me your thou

You should get a couple of picture of the cushion. Hard to say what it'll look like and if it looks like an old cut, facet pattern will affect price, whether it is a true antique or not.

Pics already requested.

Could you possibly elaborate on the bolded part? Thank you.

Well, if it's ugly, nobody will want it... so they have to charge less. I'm sure you've looked at some old cushions, right? Have you seen any that just look like crap? Some cushions may have the right numbers, but they look terrible! I bet if you look at a nice old cushion and a not so nice one, the not so nice one will cost less even if specs are the same.

That's why nobody can give you a price range, because it really depends on appearance.

 

[Phoenix]

Re: 5.14ct H VS1Cushion Brilliant - please give me your thou

You should get a couple of picture of the cushion. Hard to say what it'll look like and if it looks like an old cut, facet pattern will affect price, whether it is a true antique or not.

Pics already requested.

Could you possibly elaborate on the bolded part? Thank you.

Well, if it's ugly, nobody will want it... so they have to charge less. I'm sure you've looked at some old cushions, right? Have you seen any that just look like crap? Some cushions may have the right numbers, but they look terrible! I bet if you look at a nice old cushion and a not so nice one, the not so nice one will cost less even if specs are the same.

That's why nobody can give you a price range, because it really depends on appearance.

LOL, too true too true!!

I have seen some horrible cushions and yet some magnificent ones - they do differ vastly, that's for sure.

 

[makemepretty]

Re: 5.14ct H VS1Cushion Brilliant - please give me your thou

Justginger- brilliant post, articulate and thoughtful. If I could like a post(like on Facebook) I would big puffy heart your post so hard!


I too love every Phoenix eye candy post but sometimes the content of the words makes me sad, the pictures are pretty but the words are just so sad. I still love shiny pictures though, that's why after over 20 years of marriage I still peruse wedding magazines. Part squirrel-everything shiny attracts me.

 

[distracts]

Re: 5.14ct H VS1Cushion Brilliant - please give me your thou

You commented that you may take back one of the 2 ct to make a 3 stone if you don't get this cushion. That statement makes me think that you feel "ho hum" about both the 3 stone ring idea AND the 5 ct cushion. If you could lean one way or the other, then I don't think either piece is right if you kwim? I think that you should feel strongly about a piece before you do anything and this statement makes me think that you don't (if I'm mistaken, my apologies). I just know that I find the whole process of buying bling and finding the right setting somewhat stressful, because if I don't get it right, I've thrown $$ away (which makes me physically ill)....if it doesn't bother you (the search, the decisions over settings, etc.) then it doesn't matter. I just know that for me, I couldn't do it if I wasn't 150% in love with an idea (be it 3 stone, antique honker, 5ct cushion, etc.). I know that you didn't ask for the commentary, and I'm not saying you should or you shouldn't, just that it doesn't sound like you're in love with either idea...

I'm another huge admirer of your bling!! I agree with Yenny on this part though. While it may be the right time to sell the 3ctRB especially while you can make a profit, it may be worth considering putting the funds aside until the right stone comes along. What's the rush?? I would hate to see you roll it over into another ring that you just feel 'eh!' about kwim? You have stunning pieces to wear and other gorgeous projects in the works, so sitting back and waiting for the right stone will give you time to enjoy your other beauties!

All this. I think if you even have to think about it, it's not the one. I try to only buy jewelry that really pulls at me emotionally... if I have to ponder a purchase, I always end up not loving it.

But then I don't think you've seen any actual pics yet, and if you haven't, I don't believe you COULD fall in love with this. Reports are useful but also not exactly compelling. So I'll wait for more information before giving more input. But if after seeing pics, your heart doesn't just scream "YES!" I'm going to warn you off!

 

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Re: 5.14ct H VS1Cushion Brilliant - please give me your thou

Phoenix,

Is this from Perry at LM? If so I believe I "saw" this diamond. I didn't see pictures just general description and the report. Honestly I might have it confused as I look at tons of diamonds in a short period. But Perry only offered me 2 and I think this was one of them. I didn't go for it as it lacked the general pillow-y shape that I was going for. It was more rectangular in shape which didn't strike me. I think with antique cushions it is harder to tell what is a good/ well performing diamond from reports. It just has to be something you look at it and see if you love the shape and facet pattern. If you don't, then antiques...meaning true antiques and not recuts, aren't for you.

Goodluck with whatever you decide. I think if you don't wear your current collection get rid of it as long as you can live with your actions- and buy what you really want.

No, it's not a Perry/ LM cushion. It's on a more well-known secondhand site, that's all I shall say right now, lol!

No pics as of yet..but have put out a request.

ETA: I do wear most of my current collection and am happy that my consolidated core pieces are finally coming together. The 3ct and the 1.5cts are the pieces I am sure I'd like to sell or trade-in. The J's will have to go eventually too. But one or two of the 2ct's may stay (the 2ct's are of my desired specs, I just have plans for them that may not come to fruition due to the lack of suitable rough).

Well now I'm even more intrigued! I searched around for a few months (not seriously) for my 5ct cushion but what really held be back was the desired shape I was looking for. I just couldn't find it most of the time. And when I did it sung to me. I think you remember that I sold off a good portion of my collection (small compared to yours...much much smaller) because I had my coming to moment where I realized what I liked in my jewelry. I'm very glad I did and haven't looked back since. I hope that if this cushion sings to you then you make it work. If it doesn't sing then there is another fat lady out there.