TravelingGal
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OK, still in between craziness...will type more tonight..
Just came back from docs for full pelvic exam. Now I can have sex. Boy oh boy. Not.
Re: going outside. Ironically one of the few public places I did take her was...the hospital! We didn''t know how much longer my dad would last so I made the executive decision to take her to see him. He was in ICU, which was pretty empty at the time and I was told it might be safer than say, the emergency room.
There are probably more germs in our apartment than anywhere outside.
I''m a big believer in germs and not sheltering babies from them. However as was mentioned, if the baby breaks a fever, she goes to the hospital. Our doc will admit anything under 6 weeks. I hear they have to do all sorts of things...spinal tap or something...it ain''t pretty. So my thing is, why not err on the side of caution? I did take her out when she was about 3 or 4 weeks to a restaurant, outdoor seating when it was a warm day thinking that would be OK. Well, she got fussy and before I could say "whoa" some lady came to the stroller and starting patting her and touching her. I was like, excuse me...she is OK. Please don''t touch her. After that, I just took her for walks. People just think they have a right to touch babies for some reason...I know their heart is in the right place, but don''t people know this yet? Is this a new thing that strangers shouldn''t touch newborns?
Basically my doc said don''t live in a bubble...do what you gotta do, but if you don''t HAVE to do it, don''t. I don''t *have* to hang out with my friends at restaurants...as far as I was concerned if I couldn''t manage that for 6 weeks, I had a problem. As it turns out...I had a problem...I almost went nuts!!!
Love the new baby pics! Have I said before that is the best thing about this thread?
re: this thread going too fast...there are a lot more people here than when I first started and I want to encourage all the preggos (and new moms) to just enjoy, read what you can, and post what you want! I just like reading people''s updates...I don''t need everyone to address me or respond to me by name...I just kind of use this thread as a bit of a journal. If you try and keep up and address everyone, you''ll go nuts! Everyone is busy here and totally understands and (username)-centric posts are always welcome. Please don''t not post because you feel you can''t keep up!
Jas your hubby is so sweet. Suffice it to say that our husbands are NOT twins! TGuy is sweet in his own way, but he is a blokey bloke. He was worried about Amelia too when she first got home (she was underweight), but only admitted after we got through it that he was really worried. He has been encouraging as of late, but that is only because I am starting to show cracks in my armor. He has admitted in the past he thinks I''m some sort of superwoman, and I really have to try to show him from time to time that I am HUMAN!
Janine, congrats on the girl! I love little girls.
Just came back from docs for full pelvic exam. Now I can have sex. Boy oh boy. Not.
Re: going outside. Ironically one of the few public places I did take her was...the hospital! We didn''t know how much longer my dad would last so I made the executive decision to take her to see him. He was in ICU, which was pretty empty at the time and I was told it might be safer than say, the emergency room.
There are probably more germs in our apartment than anywhere outside.
Basically my doc said don''t live in a bubble...do what you gotta do, but if you don''t HAVE to do it, don''t. I don''t *have* to hang out with my friends at restaurants...as far as I was concerned if I couldn''t manage that for 6 weeks, I had a problem. As it turns out...I had a problem...I almost went nuts!!!
Love the new baby pics! Have I said before that is the best thing about this thread?
re: this thread going too fast...there are a lot more people here than when I first started and I want to encourage all the preggos (and new moms) to just enjoy, read what you can, and post what you want! I just like reading people''s updates...I don''t need everyone to address me or respond to me by name...I just kind of use this thread as a bit of a journal. If you try and keep up and address everyone, you''ll go nuts! Everyone is busy here and totally understands and (username)-centric posts are always welcome. Please don''t not post because you feel you can''t keep up!
Jas your hubby is so sweet. Suffice it to say that our husbands are NOT twins! TGuy is sweet in his own way, but he is a blokey bloke. He was worried about Amelia too when she first got home (she was underweight), but only admitted after we got through it that he was really worried. He has been encouraging as of late, but that is only because I am starting to show cracks in my armor. He has admitted in the past he thinks I''m some sort of superwoman, and I really have to try to show him from time to time that I am HUMAN!
Janine, congrats on the girl! I love little girls.