Jas12
Ideal_Rock
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HH--your belly is cracking me up. Where is that kid hiding?? Come out come out wherever you are! I am expecting that one day your abs will just say "we surrender" and out you''ll pop!
Lovin--try not to stress too much about all those numbers. I hope things happen naturally for you. Labor dust your way!!
And if i can rant on this point for a min (this is a general observation, not directed at you LS).... back in the day no one knew what size their baby was estimated to be and most babes came out just fine. I think those estimates can be useful in specific cases (i.e. history of difficult birth etc.) but damaging in others. Birth has a mental component. If you go into it thinking "oh gawd, all the #''s say this baby won''t fit thru" it''s kinda hard to relax in labor and have trust in your body. And relaxation is key to dilating & pain management. So it really annoys me when Drs start to instil fear in moms before they even go into labor--esp since estimates are often way off. Ya some babies get stuck & you deal with it during the birth, but some 10 lbers are birthed in 13 mins like my friend''s little girl last month. You just never know!
Okay, i am done
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Hope everyone is feeling good. I am so happy it''s mother''s day weekend. I am not sure if DH has anything planned, but i fully intend to sleep in and let him get up with my son. I plan to eat chocolate. I plan to buy myself something nice and I plan to not feel guilty about any of it
Lovin--try not to stress too much about all those numbers. I hope things happen naturally for you. Labor dust your way!!
And if i can rant on this point for a min (this is a general observation, not directed at you LS).... back in the day no one knew what size their baby was estimated to be and most babes came out just fine. I think those estimates can be useful in specific cases (i.e. history of difficult birth etc.) but damaging in others. Birth has a mental component. If you go into it thinking "oh gawd, all the #''s say this baby won''t fit thru" it''s kinda hard to relax in labor and have trust in your body. And relaxation is key to dilating & pain management. So it really annoys me when Drs start to instil fear in moms before they even go into labor--esp since estimates are often way off. Ya some babies get stuck & you deal with it during the birth, but some 10 lbers are birthed in 13 mins like my friend''s little girl last month. You just never know!
Okay, i am done
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Hope everyone is feeling good. I am so happy it''s mother''s day weekend. I am not sure if DH has anything planned, but i fully intend to sleep in and let him get up with my son. I plan to eat chocolate. I plan to buy myself something nice and I plan to not feel guilty about any of it