septemberbaby
Rough_Rock
- Joined
- Jun 30, 2010
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Wow! A lot of responses... (thanks for all of them)
We are not experienced buyers, but I WOULD say that I''m extremely picky about color. Something that also makes me more difficult is that while I''m particular about color, I like different colors and I do not necessarily have my heart set on something ultra-specific. So, in the B&M stores, I can very easily tell what I do not like. I have seen a couple stones that I did like, one being a Kashmir stone at Harry Winston in a $365k ring. (Throughout all of this my boyfriend has been great, trying to learn as much as possible, and relishing in the fact that we''re doing something different from the norm.)
The main reason I was scared about the stone is that we''d been working with a jewelry consultant in another state. She came highly recommended from a friend who''d had a custom e-ring built through her, as well as purchasing other pieces. While their ring did turn out great, we quickly found out the jewelry consultant''s lack of experience with colored stones was not going to work for us. We''d given descriptions of what we were looking for and she eventually found us a Stuller stone. In the picture, it looked promising, but that''s another lesson - pictures can lie. We were excited about the stone but in the end, it came, and while I could see why one might call it beautiful, I did not care for it all. We paid way too much money to ship it back and forth, and were a bit soured on the process.
Since then we''ve looked at many many (including the Kashmir) more stones, and have a better idea of what to look for, what to be wary of, etc. We are serious buyers with a fairly healthy budget, but it''s still scary, what with this being a large purchase, both monetarily and symbolically.
Seeing Richard''s 48-hr return policy makes me feel much better, though. I think I can tell nearly immediately if a stone is right for me, if it''s okay, or if it''s just absolutely wrong. Thanks again for the responses/help, and please don''t give Richard a difficult time, as he''s clarified his return policy for the sale. He''s also been great with answering questions from my boyfriend...
I''ll let you all know what we decide to do. We''re taking a quick trip to Pala tomorrow morning to make sure we see our options before making a decision.
We are not experienced buyers, but I WOULD say that I''m extremely picky about color. Something that also makes me more difficult is that while I''m particular about color, I like different colors and I do not necessarily have my heart set on something ultra-specific. So, in the B&M stores, I can very easily tell what I do not like. I have seen a couple stones that I did like, one being a Kashmir stone at Harry Winston in a $365k ring. (Throughout all of this my boyfriend has been great, trying to learn as much as possible, and relishing in the fact that we''re doing something different from the norm.)
The main reason I was scared about the stone is that we''d been working with a jewelry consultant in another state. She came highly recommended from a friend who''d had a custom e-ring built through her, as well as purchasing other pieces. While their ring did turn out great, we quickly found out the jewelry consultant''s lack of experience with colored stones was not going to work for us. We''d given descriptions of what we were looking for and she eventually found us a Stuller stone. In the picture, it looked promising, but that''s another lesson - pictures can lie. We were excited about the stone but in the end, it came, and while I could see why one might call it beautiful, I did not care for it all. We paid way too much money to ship it back and forth, and were a bit soured on the process.
Since then we''ve looked at many many (including the Kashmir) more stones, and have a better idea of what to look for, what to be wary of, etc. We are serious buyers with a fairly healthy budget, but it''s still scary, what with this being a large purchase, both monetarily and symbolically.
Seeing Richard''s 48-hr return policy makes me feel much better, though. I think I can tell nearly immediately if a stone is right for me, if it''s okay, or if it''s just absolutely wrong. Thanks again for the responses/help, and please don''t give Richard a difficult time, as he''s clarified his return policy for the sale. He''s also been great with answering questions from my boyfriend...
I''ll let you all know what we decide to do. We''re taking a quick trip to Pala tomorrow morning to make sure we see our options before making a decision.