lover in athens
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Date: 4/14/2009 5:12:06 PM
Author: lover in athens
hi everyone!!
real quick drive by. things have been crazy. coby has decided that there are way too many exciting things going on during the day to nurse, and that it''s much better to do it during the middle of the night when it''s quiet and dark. so needless to say, neither of us have been getting too much sleep! (this from my son who has been sleeping 10-11 hours/night since he was 10 weeks old!). oh well... and now we''re both sick on top of it all. AND he''s teething. it''s been really crazy.
xo,LIA
BIG ditto! I also found that for some reason the football hold hurt less. And my middie gave me a tip to help, maybe it will help you: If hunter was latched in the cross-cradle hold nursing on my left breast, I sort of pinched my areola so that the left side was more indented than the right... this angled my nipple towards the left (the top of Hunter mouth) and then I stuffed as much of the right side of the areola into his mouth as I could before I allowed the nipple to enter his mouth. OK, that is hard to explainDate: 4/14/2009 3:23:29 PM
Author: neatfreak
Blen I just wanted to say that the BFing does get easier. After about 3 weeks IIRC your nips will be muuuuch less sensitive and it won''t hurt at all. Just hang in there.
ETA I do think a good latch wont hurt. It''s just that sometimes you can''t get a perfect latch! I know that my left nipple was flatter than my right, and this caused pain when Hunter nursed. No trouble at all on the right! Dr. Jack Newman (check his website) says that if someone tells you to tough it out you should look for some other advice. I don''t know if that is totally true, but it is worth looking for more help. That said, it will also clear un by week 3, so you can just tough it out too!Date: 4/14/2009 6:04:31 PM
Author: dreamer_dachsie
BIG ditto! I also found that for some reason the football hold hurt less. And my middie gave me a tip to help, maybe it will help you: If hunter was latched in the cross-cradle hold nursing on my left breast, I sort of pinched my areola so that the left side was more indented than the right... this angled my nipple towards the left (the top of Hunter mouth) and then I stuffed as much of the right side of the areola into his mouth as I could before I allowed the nipple to enter his mouth. OK, that is hard to explainDate: 4/14/2009 3:23:29 PM
Author: neatfreak
Blen I just wanted to say that the BFing does get easier. After about 3 weeks IIRC your nips will be muuuuch less sensitive and it won''t hurt at all. Just hang in there.but the point was to try and get the nipple really really pointed towards the tope of his mouth.![]()
I think that the description of that latch is basically what she''s teaching me how to do, so I can picture it. Thanks!Date: 4/14/2009 6:09:21 PM
Author: dreamer_dachsie
ETA I do think a good latch wont hurt. It''s just that sometimes you can''t get a perfect latch! I know that my left nipple was flatter than my right, and this caused pain when Hunter nursed. No trouble at all on the right! Dr. Jack Newman (check his website) says that if someone tells you to tough it out you should look for some other advice. I don''t know if that is totally true, but it is worth looking for more help. That said, it will also clear un by week 3, so you can just tough it out too!Date: 4/14/2009 6:04:31 PM
Author: dreamer_dachsie
BIG ditto! I also found that for some reason the football hold hurt less. And my middie gave me a tip to help, maybe it will help you: If hunter was latched in the cross-cradle hold nursing on my left breast, I sort of pinched my areola so that the left side was more indented than the right... this angled my nipple towards the left (the top of Hunter mouth) and then I stuffed as much of the right side of the areola into his mouth as I could before I allowed the nipple to enter his mouth. OK, that is hard to explainDate: 4/14/2009 3:23:29 PM
Author: neatfreak
Blen I just wanted to say that the BFing does get easier. After about 3 weeks IIRC your nips will be muuuuch less sensitive and it won''t hurt at all. Just hang in there.but the point was to try and get the nipple really really pointed towards the tope of his mouth.![]()
Ok Good! I t sounds like you are getting lots of help then! But you are right, even Dr. Newman says that most/all babies figure it out by 4 weeks without any intervention. I guess the worry is that many mothers, understandably, stop nursing in the interim because of pain etc., so it is worth fixing. FWIW, my middies hates nipple shields and so does Jack Newman. I know in some cases it is use the shields or stop BFing, but if you are a more moderate case of pain issues, then apparently using them is bad because it means your nips never get used to the suck and baby never really learns a proper latch.Date: 4/14/2009 8:13:27 PM
Author: Blenheim
I think that the description of that latch is basically what she''s teaching me how to do, so I can picture it. Thanks!
And she didn''t exactly just tell me to tough it out. She offered to refer me to a lactation consultant if I want, and also asked me to talk to the ped when we see him tomorow about if Jack Newman cream would help provide some relief while my nipples heal and get used to BFing. But I''m just getting the impression from talking with her, her apprentice, and hearing the stories on here that I may just need to deal with the initial pain of latching him on, for the time being, and allow myself some time to get used to BFing.
My friends'' LO was like that too, and eventually she just went about her business with his crying! She felt bad for him, but there was nothing she could do. One day, she was in the grocery store and someone was oogling and boogling about her baby, and said, "Oh is he a good baby?" and my friend replied, "Um, not really." LOL! He is a really sweet kid and so cute... such an imp now that he is walking... but not an easy baby. We think he just needed to start being able to move and walk around, he used to get so upset when he was little and immobile and he is much happier now that he crawls and can get around on his own. Anyways, glad things are looking good for you guys! Hang in there!Date: 4/15/2009 11:17:23 AM
Author: pavelover
Hi Everyone! Good to see you. I have been trying to keep up reading but may have missed some things. Status quo for me which is a blessing. Reflux seems under control *holds breath* and the sleeping is ok but not great. The baby is definitely getting more interactive and fun but he still screams in the car seat and stroller. Not sure why. I hope it''s a short phase.
Date: 4/15/2009 11:22:45 AM
Author: dreamer_dachsie
And I am curious, were his legs really stiff pointing at his noggin for a while? Our friend's baby was frank breech too and his legs took like a week to unfold from their pike position!
Date: 4/15/2009 11:22:45 AM
Author: dreamer_dachsie
Ok Good! I t sounds like you are getting lots of help then! But you are right, even Dr. Newman says that most/all babies figure it out by 4 weeks without any intervention. I guess the worry is that many mothers, understandably, stop nursing in the interim because of pain etc., so it is worth fixing. FWIW, my middies hates nipple shields and so does Jack Newman. I know in some cases it is use the shields or stop BFing, but if you are a more moderate case of pain issues, then apparently using them is bad because it means your nips never get used to the suck and baby never really learns a proper latch.Date: 4/14/2009 8:13:27 PM
Author: Blenheim
I think that the description of that latch is basically what she''s teaching me how to do, so I can picture it. Thanks!
And she didn''t exactly just tell me to tough it out. She offered to refer me to a lactation consultant if I want, and also asked me to talk to the ped when we see him tomorow about if Jack Newman cream would help provide some relief while my nipples heal and get used to BFing. But I''m just getting the impression from talking with her, her apprentice, and hearing the stories on here that I may just need to deal with the initial pain of latching him on, for the time being, and allow myself some time to get used to BFing.
Hey, we need some new pics of George too! And I am curious, were his legs really stiff pointing at his noggin for a while? Our friend''s baby was frank breech too and his legs took like a week to unfold from their pike position!
thanks!
What a cutie! And Blen, he looks like a ninja in that pose too! See how he is all sideways with one arm posed to CHOP!! hee hee... I sense a new avatar! I can''t wait for him to start smiling for you and reacting to you, it is too fun. In the beginning I called Hunter our little houseplantDate: 4/15/2009 12:53:48 PM
Author: Blenheim
and g yesterday