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The Official TTC Thread!

Hi ladies,

I''m a little confused about this site (I''m not even a huge diamond lover!) but I found a link to this particular discussion, and it came at a good time. So I''m shyly introducing myself.

Lanie''s post is actually what got me to register, because I think we''re in similar situations. I have o''d only twice in the past 16 months, and one of those was via medication (ob/gyn put me on bc for 5 days to try to kickstart things). I''d been on bc for ~15 years before coming off, and unfortunately don''t remember much about my cycles prior to that. I also didn''t learn about charting until I came off bc, so I don''t have much sensible data to go by. My CNM also suggested PCOS to me, though like you I don''t fit the normal signs - I''m right in my target BMI, no cysts, normal skin, etc. However, she said that it''s often used as a catch-all - like, you''re not ovulating, we don''t know why, so we''ll call it PCOS. Which is of course completely frustrating - not sure if you have heard the same thing. Anyway, after doing lots of tests, I was told that my testosterone levels are high, which is probably why I''m not o''ing. (Which is an awesome thing to hear when you''re already self-conscious about not being able to get pregnant, right?) However, she''s still referring to it as PCOS, it sounds like for lack of a better diagnosis.

So I guess our next step is to make an appointment with a fertility specialist to see how we proceed from here. I''m unclear exactly how Clomid/Letrozole work with regard to my situation, and I''d also like to find out what the causes might be and if there are other ways of adjusting my hormone levels (I''m a little weirded out by the idea of hopping on a drug immediately).

I''ve been under a ton of stress due to outside factors ever since coming off bc, and I''ve read that stress can cause elevated testosterone. That stuff is settling down now, and I''m hopeful that my body might right itself, but I''m also a chronic worrier, so...

Anyway, I thought I''d join in and commiserate, if nothing else! As others have said, I think it can be really helpful to know people who are going through the same thing. Sorry for the book - thanks for reading!
 
Hi missmartha! So glad you registered. This site is very important to me as i've been on it since I was planning and hoping to get engaged. It's great bc you can follow it through the stages of your life. There are other sites out there strictly for baby-making, but for some reason I just get irritated with them. If nothing else, this site has other things to get your mind off of whatever is currently troubling you which you can find on the main forum page. You sound a lot like a friend of mine who has elevated testosterone. She didn't have a period for something like 6 or 7 months. They put her on provera to jumpstart and now she's on her fourth or fifth round of clomid. She definately has PCOS but like you, it's a diagnosis bc they don't know what else to call it. Anyway, not much help from my end but just wanted to say welcome! Have you been seeing an RE or just a regular OB?

Fisher - thanks for the response. I know that you have been here longer and Laila as well (and blushing and some others). It's not really fair for me to complain. It's hard to take a step back but I can tell tha it helped you out. I miht actually try to find a chiro. I had neck pains and saw one regularly for over a year and it was the best! It cleared my chronic allergies! And I looove the massages! I will check with my insurance to see what I can do!
 
Date: 1/4/2010 6:56:09 PM
Author: icekid
I will definitely keep you ladies posted on my sore (*) (*)''s... hehe love it!

Kaleigh- I will definitely let you know. We are making a new year''s resolution
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to spend more time in Philly because Baltimore is just depressing. There is a good chance that Philly will be our eventual destination when I finish residency, too!

Bella- That is wonderful that your hubby has done so much research. Anesthesia really is a good gig. The night are rough for me, though
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I still have 2.5 more years left as a resident. One of my college roomates is training at Columbia, too, but she is ENT.
Yay!!! That''s great news. Nothing like Philly...
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Well I temped this morning CD 23, after not having temped since CD13. and FF friend said that they can not accurately pinpoint my ovulation date but they think I ovulated somewhere between CD8 and CD16. So I am not sure. I felt some cramping on my left side this morning. Feels a little like ovulation pain to me but in all honesty it might all be in my head. AF is due on between 1/11 and 1/14 so we will see. I will admit that I might be just a tiny but disappointed if she shows up
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tested this am and got a big fat negative. By my estimation I''m still only at 11 dpo though, so there''s still hope I guess.
 
I''m all about team Hudson Hawk this month, so keeping my fingers crossed!
 
LOL thanks Noel! It''s really hard to keep a level head with this. You almost don''t realize how badly you really want to be PG until you realize you''re not. I''m trying not to psych myself up too much to avoid a major let down, but all that''s doing is making DH think I don''t want a baby. He made me go to Babies R Us last weekend for "fun" to look at stuff and I saw some baby socks and started crying...then we window shopped and when he mentally added up the prices for stuff we wanted, he started crying too!
 
I am crossing my fingers for you Hudson! Will you be testing again tomorrow? When is AF due to show her ugly head?
 
Hudson, we are cycle twins! I am 11 DPO as well and preparing myself for AF while praying for a BFP. FF says I should test on Thursday, which makes sense since my longest luteal phase in quite some time was 12 days. Since the m/c they have only been 10 or 11 days. I am obsessively checking for AF, no sign of her yet. My temps are up, although I have not been sleeping well so I don''t know how reliable they are. Today I spiked to 98.11 but am still down from earlier highs right after O. I have had light cramping and somewhat tender boobs, plus occaisonal stabbing boob pain (can anyone relate?). I am just not sure what to make of it--it could be nothing. Anyhow, I think 11 DPO is too soon to test, but I understand why you did it, sometimes you just have to test. I am crossing our fingers for both of us!

Lanie, I just wanted to say, I am really sorry about what you are going through and I can only imagine how stressful and frustrating it must be. It makes perfect sense that you would feel discouraged and your vents are welcome here. I think you did the right thing by setting up some RE appointments. You are being proactive and taking charge, and that is all you can do. I know it''s easy for me to say don''t worry, it''s all going to work out, because you are going through something very hard right now and it must often seem hopeless. But try to focus on the fact that for the vast majority of women, having their own children is likely. It may involve a combination of meds, tests, procedures, appointments, and even cash, but it is highly probable that you will become a mother. It''s more a matter of when, not if. I hope this helps. Hugs!!
 
Thanks ladies! AF is due early next week.
 
Date: 1/5/2010 9:23:21 AM
Author: Kit
Hudson, we are cycle twins! I am 11 DPO as well and preparing myself for AF while praying for a BFP. FF says I should test on Thursday, which makes sense since my longest luteal phase in quite some time was 12 days. Since the m/c they have only been 10 or 11 days. I am obsessively checking for AF, no sign of her yet. My temps are up, although I have not been sleeping well so I don''t know how reliable they are. Today I spiked to 98.11 but am still down from earlier highs right after O. I have had light cramping and somewhat tender boobs, plus occaisonal stabbing boob pain (can anyone relate?). I am just not sure what to make of it--it could be nothing. Anyhow, I think 11 DPO is too soon to test, but I understand why you did it, sometimes you just have to test. I am crossing our fingers for both of us!

Lanie, I just wanted to say, I am really sorry about what you are going through and I can only imagine how stressful and frustrating it must be. It makes perfect sense that you would feel discouraged and your vents are welcome here. I think you did the right thing by setting up some RE appointments. You are being proactive and taking charge, and that is all you can do. I know it''s easy for me to say don''t worry, it''s all going to work out, because you are going through something very hard right now and it must often seem hopeless. But try to focus on the fact that for the vast majority of women, having their own children is likely. It may involve a combination of meds, tests, procedures, appointments, and even cash, but it is highly probable that you will become a mother. It''s more a matter of when, not if. I hope this helps. Hugs!!

Kit - Sounds promising!! Fingers crossed for you!!!
 
Wow! It sounds like we''re all ramping up for the new year
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I think I''m just starting the 2ww (though I really didn''t see any EWCF this month, who knows what''s going on
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) Anyway, best of luck to you all! HudsonHawk, Kit, and IceKid it all sounds promising
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Welcome MissMartha, I hope that your stay here is short
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IceKid-Phillly totally beats Baltimore:-) So cool your friend is an ENT res. As a singer ENTs are my best friend when I am sick
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Oh Lanie, I hope my post didn't sound like I was saying that you shouldn't be depressed or upset over the TTC wait. All of us go through that once we wait longer than we wanted to. Please do share those feelings, because this thread was created for *all* of TTC, including the highs and lows. I hope today's a better day for you, girl.
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Hudson, Yes isn't it interesting how we realize how much we want something the longer we wait for it to come along? Thinking good thoughts for you as you wait to test! :)

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Welcome Martha! Hope you're off to the preggo thread in no time!

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As for me, I'm home today. Sick. Bah. Yesterday I noticed my throat was getting scratchy and I took an Airborne, thinking it would help. Then last night I felt really lethargic and I noticed this weird metallic taste in my mouth. Brushed my teeth and it was still there (and still is now, too). Weird. We went to sleep and I had a very unrestful sleep (which I've had for the past three nights, which I hate because the chiro had gotten it to where I was sleeping through the night and I miss that SO much!!) and I've been having the nuttiest dreams ever. So then this morning I woke up to temp and it wsa 101.45 and I freaked out, woke up Paul and told him I was over-cooking our baby. He got me some apple juice and when he brought it up to me, he said I was pale and said I shouldn't go to work today. So I called in, went back to bed and when I woke up, I re-temped and it's now down to 99.6, so I feel better that my baby's no longer over-cooking. Still weak, but eh, I'm thinking I'll survive.

I have to admit that last night when I got the metallic taste, I got excited, because I've heard it can be one of the early-early signs of pregnancy. But, I think when you couple it with high temps, throat aches and fatigue, it just means your sick. Eh, it was a fun thought none the less.
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Date: 1/5/2010 9:18:16 AM
Author: Hudson_Hawk
then we window shopped and when he mentally added up the prices for stuff we wanted, he started crying too!

that''s so funny!

fisher - hope you feel better soon!
 
Kit -- thanks so much for posting. My goodness...you have been through so much yourself...way more than me with a miscarriage. I really shouldn''t complain...but thanks for posting and your understanding.
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I hope you test positive soon!

Fisher -- you are too funny! I thought you were taking a break from reading into signs!!!
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I''m with you though! I need to stay away from the internet and stop googling. From my end it''s googling things about long cycles and anovulation. It really is a demon! Thanks for understanding my vent, and yes, today is a better day!

HH, Bella, Icekid -- good luck testing today, tomorrow, and these next 2 weeks! We''re all rooting for you!
 
Isn''t the metallic taste thing another symptom of pregnancy?
 
Good luck to all of you ladies that will be testing soon! Our official starting month is February. I was hoping to get a good grip on the tempting this month but I guess I will have to rely on other signs in order to pinpoint the time frame.

If I get preggo this month it will be a total fluke. I was supposed to O around Christmas day a little bit after. The day after Christmas I left on vacation w/o DH. We BD after I got back thinking my fertile window was long gone. But I am kinda holding onto some hope!
 
missmartha- Welcome!
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Kaleigh- You are right! Philly is really special to us; we did not realize how much so until we left
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The only problem is that malpractice insurance in PA is horrendous.

Hudson and Kit- Crossing my fingers for you two lovely ladies!

Bella- Philly truly IS much cooler than Baltimore. However, when moving here everyone was trying to convince us that B-more is JUST LIKE Philly. ummm, really? Are you two planning/hoping to stay in NYC?

Fishie- You poor thing! Hope you get better quickly! But don''t worry about over-cooking your baby. 101 is a low-grade fever
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Lanie- You are so sweet! We are all hoping that you get this ovulation situation fixed ASAP.
 
I think its time to officially come out of lurkdom, although I have posted a couple times. I started my first cycle w/o BC this last week and plan to start TTC in March (like some of you others!!). I may have not come off of it long enough, but I needed to make it through the year for sure/no doubt that I would not get pregnant. Hopefully the next few months will give me a tiny idea of what my cycles will be like. 6 yrs on BC, so we''ll see if I go back to normal. Before BC I was pretty clockwork, so hopefully my body doesn''t reject me haha. I don''t plan on getting too scientific with charting or temping right away other than watching for ovulation signs like EWCM and cramping. I do remember the ovulation cramping before BC, so I *think* I will know what to look for. Just wingin it for awhile and see what happens. My family is ''super fertile'' if there any basis to that, my sister has literally picked what months she wanted her 3 kids to be born. She would definitely be considered textbook Jerkstore. :) I had endometriosis in the past, mild according to the Dr, removed the tiny spots and have had no symptoms since. That is the only thing that makes me unlike the rest of the family and a little apprehensive. No PCOS symptoms fit me as far as I know. Enough rambling, just thought I would out myself and I may pop in here and there until closer to March! Thanks for listening! You guys are great at it!
 
Thanks for the warm welcome, ladies!

Lanie - I just moved and am going through that fun find-a-new-doctor thing. So I saw an ob/gyn when we first got here, and I didn''t like her so kept looking. A couple months ago I went to a recommended CNM and we got along pretty well, so I''m thinking I''ll stay with her for now as my regular ob/gyn-type-practitioner, but we are planning to make an appointment with an RE in addition, to talk. I take it the clomid has not helped your friend? Did she get any answers as to why her hormone levels were off? Also, I agree that Google can be the enemy when it comes to this stuff. Because of all the aforementioned stress, DH and I decided to take a couple months off of officially trying - I stopped charting and researching because it was starting to make me crazy, and have just been focusing on trying to get back to a routine, destress, and redefine normal. It''s actually really been helping.

I will keep my fingers crossed for those of you who are seeing signs!

And welcome, split_shank - sounds like with any luck, you won''t be here long!
 
I predict 3 BFPs for January 2010!

Seriously, some of you ladies sound pregnant to me!

Crossing my fingers and toes for you.
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This is very exciting!
 
Welcome Split Shank!

IceKid-We love NYC, but we lived in Boston for a long time before that and loved it too, and I went to school outside Chicago and loved it there. We both grew up in the country, but I think we''re both city peopl (though DH would prefer a really "small town" feeling suburb close to a major city.

I think we''d both love Philly too
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If DH makes it through/likes the post-bac we''ll move wherever he gets into med school (Caribbean, the South, out West...) but we''re hoping for a major city in the Northeast.

For now we''ll be in NYC for at least another 3 years for sure.
 
Date: 1/5/2010 9:18:16 AM
Author: Hudson_Hawk
LOL thanks Noel! It''s really hard to keep a level head with this. You almost don''t realize how badly you really want to be PG until you realize you''re not. I''m trying not to psych myself up too much to avoid a major let down, but all that''s doing is making DH think I don''t want a baby. He made me go to Babies R Us last weekend for ''fun'' to look at stuff and I saw some baby socks and started crying...then we window shopped and when he mentally added up the prices for stuff we wanted, he started crying too!
I can''t help but ''awwww''! That''s so sweet, HH. My fingers are crossed, I''ll gladly take a heavier AF for you
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Thanks Kama, he really had no idea how much baby stuff cost until this trip. And we didn't even go into the diaper and formula section!

Last night T and I were laying in bed and I got hit with this massive wave of nausea. I know logically it's probably too early for that and I did take my PNV right before bed which I'm attributing it to, but it made me hopeful.
 
OMG you guys, BFP!!!!!
 
Date: 1/6/2010 8:37:17 AM
Author: Kit
OMG you guys, BFP!!!!!


YAY!!! Congratulations :)
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KIT!!!!!! A MILLION CONGRATS!!!!!!!!!
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I rushed to log on this morning hoping to see good news and I did! Wishing you a healthy, sticky bean! Does your DH know or do you have a plan to tell him? I love hearing how people tell their DH''s!

Hoping it''s positive for the rest of you testing this cycle!!!
 
Oh wow - so exciting!! Congratulations, Kit!
 
Congrats Kit...what an awesome way to start off hump day!
 
Date: 1/6/2010 9:06:25 AM
Author: AllieLuv83
Congrats Kit...what an awesome way to start off hump day!

hehehe you said hump.
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