Efe
Brilliant_Rock
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In my mind, this very thing is the biggest gift this forum has to offer.Date: 4/2/2009 5:57:52 PM
Author: Gypsy
Day dreamer, I don''t agree with you, but I really respect your well thought out and eloquent post and your opinion.![]()
Haven, I''ve been there too. And afterward people referred to him as a ''cancer'' and what not and I was like???? I was in an agony of indecision for YEARS over this guy WHY didn''t you say anything sooner? God knows I gave you the opportunity to every time I vented, or complained or came for advice! I felt very let down by my loved ones. And it took some pretty bad crap to get me to walk away, and I HONESTLY would have walked away before the sh*t hit the fan, if just one person had taken me aside and told me that I could, and SHOULD not put up him, and that I had a DUTY to myself to walk away. But, no one ever did, until he was gone. But it taught me something. I have to look out for me. And what I appreciate about this forum, and I''ve seen it time and time again in my own life, is that the ladies here WILL tell me things that people in my ''real'' life won''t. And while it''s hard to hear the things said sometimes, I have grown as a person thanks to the support and the criticism I''ve recieved here.