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Calling all the Pregnant PS''ers

Awww Steph congratulations! So excited about the safe delivery of your little guy! Cannot wait for pics
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For the ladies not familiar with Rh disease: http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Rh_disease Background for the ladies who were unaware I had my daughter last April and she was stillborn due to Rh disease. I was exposed to O+ blood during a blood transfusion for a surgery I had years ago (I am O-.) My body created antibodies to this blood, and attacks the blood of any O+ children that I carry(my husband is O+... we have a 50/50 shot each time of having a O+ or O- baby... but both children have been O+!) Most women never develop antibodies thanks to the Rhogam injections (which you should never turn down if you have a negative blood type!)

For Meresal who asked for my "way ahead:"

Weekly ultrasounds to measure the velocity of the blood flow in an artery in the baby''s brain. When the velocity reaches 1.5 times the average velocity for his gestational age, I''ll undergo an intrauterine transfusion. Also I''m spending one night a week in the hospital to receive IViG therapy to hopefully slow my antibodies crossing the placenta.

The procedure takes place in a hospital operating room and I will be lightly sedated for relaxation which also is supposed to slow the baby''s movements. They use a needle to obtain a sample of the baby''s blood by placing the needle through my abdomen into the baby''s umbilical vein near where it connects to the placenta. They draw the blood, and give it to a "runner" who runs it down to the lab where the blood is tested immediately -- they determine exactly how anemic the baby is (they check the hemoglobin or hemocrit, can''t remember the lingo.) That determines how much blood they will transfuse the baby with. They''ll transfuse him with O- blood like mine so that my antibodies will not destroy the blood. Transfusions typically last 7-15 days until the baby needs another one. That will happen until 36-37 weeks hopefully (they try to get you to 36-37 weeks but the average delivery for these babies is 34 weeks.)

Anyway, today the baby was measuring at 1.3... so already showing signs of mild anemia. Blah. The nurse today told me that I will definitely need transfusions this time, it''s just a matter of when. It could be next week or it could be at 30 weeks... impossible to tell. Except for the fact that he''s already showing signs of anemia. When his level hits 1.5 we''ll transfuse.

Yes it is good we''re aware that he''s Rh+ but it doesn''t change very much. We suspected that my first child was Rh+ and I was being monitored with the ultrasounds just like I am now -- things can just go wrong, she still died from it. Her numbers always came back perfect... and then she died of severe anemia two days before my next ultrasound was supposed to happen. She hadn''t shown signs of needing a transfusion yet. Each subsequent pregnancy the anemia sets in sooner, which is why the nurse is certain (besides my already elevated reading of the baby''s MCA) we''ll have transfusions this time. Transfusions can be very hard on their little bodes... it can send them into shock, cardiac arrest, etc. Also, the transfusions are more irritating to the uterus due to the often sideways placement off the needle, and usually cause contractions. They usually give an injection to stop this. Each time I will have a transfusion, I have to be prepped for a C-section.

I sincerely appreciate all of the kind words and thoughts. We knew what we were getting into this time around, and we remain supremely hopeful. It is all worth it!
 
Steph, congrats on baby Evan!!!
 
Lindsey, I''m so sorry for your loss. My mother had the same issue with my older brother, luckily he was born healthy. Best of luck this time around!
 
Lindsey-I am mostly a lurker on this thread but I wanted to say that you are so brave and I wish you and baby Andrew all the best through this challenging journey.
 
Lindsey- We will be here for you every step of the way! Thank you for taking the time to explain the process to me.

Congratulations again Steph!! I can't wait to see pics of baby Evan!!

My ex of 4 years and his wife had their healthy baby today. He is 9lbs 12 oz!!!
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(I think I dodged a bullet in more ways than one, when that relationship ended. lol)
 
Steph CONGRATS on Evan!! I can't wait to see pictures! and 7am, WOW! Didn't they admit you at 5am? That is some speedy delivering. Did they tell you at all if you were dilated? I am always so curious.

Lindsey, thanks for the background, I was aware of your history, but I didn't know the entire story since I was away from PS at the time, so I just knew it had to do with antibodies somehow. It's sad that in today's day and age women still lose babies with all the technology and advances we have, you are incredibly brave.

This may be a silly Q, but would they ever admit you to the hospital ahead of time or put you on bed rest at home permanently hooked up to a doppler or something like that to monitor the baby if they got worried? I am fervently wishing the best for you guys and the nugget.

re: finding out the sex, someone was saying yesterday in a store to me that it's so funny how people find the sex out nowadays. i am like OMG i'd be a basket case if i didn't know! i am such a crazy planner. hehee.

ginger...those sound like BH's. i had them for weeks in the evenings..and still get them. they were not painful for me at all, just uncomfortable since belly is so hard. i think that the baby goes still because he is being squeezed, i assume they can't really move when there is a 'contraction' going on. oh and btw on the giant head, you know that scan is just an estimate right?? when our Dr scanned us, the head filled the SCREEN and i was like OMG the head looks huge..but it's all relative. don't get too freaked out hehe.

meresal, lol re: dodging the bullet. that is a crazy huge babe!

I just went to lunch with some coworkers and then got a pedi and went to the mall to walk around. Of course I HAD to stop at Gymboree and BabyGap, I swear their stuff is so cute and they are having huge clearances now. I got some great deals on some 12-24 months stuff. Also for any new Moms who don't know (I sure didn't!)...Gymboree has a cool rewards program where you spend $50 and get $25 in 'gym bucks'..you have to spend them during a certain time but they will call to remind you to spend them and also they always have crazy %% deals if you are a member. So I spent $60 on about 7 clearance items and got $25 in gym bucks for April usage AND a 30% coupon that I can use starting next week on their spring stuff. And they have some SUPER cute spring stuff. Anyway, just a PSA for the new Moms entering the world of 'baby clothes are expensive and how to save $$'.

While at the mall I felt like crazy uncomfortable and like I was getting contractions. I came home and I am finally having thicker mucus discharge. Is it wrong to be this excited?
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Date: 1/27/2010 7:01:00 PM
Author: Mara

While at the mall I felt like crazy uncomfortable and like I was getting contractions. I came home and I am finally having thicker mucus discharge. Is it wrong to be this excited?
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Not at all!! I have been so excited about the pregnancy this week, and I think it has alot to do with so many of you being so close!!

Re: the bullet dodging... I just got off the phone with one of my friends, her reply was, "You didn''t dodge a bullet, you dodged a Boulder!"
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Congrats Steph and welcome Evan. I can''t wait to see pics of your little man!

Lindsey-sending prayers your way. thank for taking the time to educate us about what''s going on.

mara-you are getting so close!! I know you are just soooo ready. I keep checking in to see if any of you that are on the cusp have any news! It''s so exciting!
 
Steph-

Congrats on baby Evan. His big brother must be so very excited.

Lindsey-

Thank you for the education on RH+. I will pray for the health of baby Andrew.
 
Lindsey, I''m so sorry about the results of the Rh factor test and all that comes along with it. My best to you and your husband as you navigate the coming months.

Stephanie, congratulations!

Finding Out the Gender: I still wish I didn''t know. I''m not disappointed but if I had a choice I would want it to be a suprise, as it was intended to be.

Charger, I''m going to be in LA this weekend, but it''s for my baby shower. Next time I head your way I''ll be sure to let you know so we can arrange a get together.

As I said, I''m headed to LA for my family shower this weekend. A girlfriend is flying down from N.CA, I can''t wait to see her. J is staying home, this will probably be the last time for a very long time that I go to my parents'' house by myself. A strange thought. I hope when I come back there are some new babies!
 
Steph, CONGRATS!! You sound very chipper, so I''m going to assume that everything went well! I can''t wait to see pics, either -- and I don''t think Evan is THAT small.
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Lindsey, thank you for your explanation of what''s going on with the Rh compatability issue. I''m so sorry for your loss -- I do remember when you posted about your daughter. I really admire your strength with everything you have to go through and so many risks. I''m sure that we will all be keeping our fingers and all other appendages crossed for you and your little one and can''t wait for the day when you are posting baby pictures.

That''s messed up, though, that you were exposed to the O+ blood during what I would expect would be a pretty normal situation.



Random whining from me that you can feel free to ignore:

I am apparently now in high PO mode. My oldest son, who''s 20 (21 in April), is what most people would refer to as a slacker. He did great in school up until his senior year when he completely turned into a bum. He barely graduated. Then he had 3 choices: go to college, go in the service or get a job (and pay rent if you want to live at home). He decided that he would move out because he didn''t like those choices, and he worked at one dead-end job after another -- but at none of them long enough to actually DO anything. He prefers to crash on friends'' couches and sponge off people. I refuse to enable the behavior.

This past summer, he decided to move to Texas, where his dad lives, and he was talking about going in the Marine Corps. He got a job at Walmart and then decided not to go into the Marines right now. He pulled the same stuff as he did up here -- refusing to be responsible, etc. I had to find out from his dad''s wife that he got FIRED from Walmart for being late or not showing up. Argh -- very frustrating!

Tonight, he sent me a text that now he wants to come back to VA. I''m in such a tizzy about this because when he and I interact too much, it totally stresses me out and this is not the time for it. I get really angry and frustrated with him because I have always tried to set a good example for him and I also had high expectations...but he apparently doesn''t have any for himself. It hurts me badly that he is so lost and can''t seem to get it together, but I know that if I "rescue" him, it won''t change anything. He has to be the one to decide to grow up and be responsible. I just really hope he does it before too long because it seems like he''s wasting his life. Ugh.

And SO doesn''t feel well tonight, so he''s been laying around, doing nothing, while I went to the store, picked up the kids, made dinner...and now I''m just plain worn out. I know I shouldn''t be ticked at him, but I''m feeling irrational.

I wish everyone would just SETTLE DOWN and give me some peace so that I can have this baby.

The good news is that I got my hair cut today and had my mini massage. The woman that does the massage is so wonderful to me -- I had 15 minutes scheduled and I think she worked on my back for 30 minutes. I love the salon I go to because the women there really take good care of me. I came home feeling nice and relaxed.

Too bad it didn''t last!
 
Date: 1/27/2010 6:13:12 PM
Author: *Lindsey*
Awww Steph congratulations! So excited about the safe delivery of your little guy! Cannot wait for pics
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For the ladies not familiar with Rh disease: http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Rh_disease Background for the ladies who were unaware I had my daughter last April and she was stillborn due to Rh disease. I was exposed to O+ blood during a blood transfusion for a surgery I had years ago (I am O-.) My body created antibodies to this blood, and attacks the blood of any O+ children that I carry(my husband is O+... we have a 50/50 shot each time of having a O+ or O- baby... but both children have been O+!) Most women never develop antibodies thanks to the Rhogam injections (which you should never turn down if you have a negative blood type!)


For Meresal who asked for my ''way ahead:''


Weekly ultrasounds to measure the velocity of the blood flow in an artery in the baby''s brain. When the velocity reaches 1.5 times the average velocity for his gestational age, I''ll undergo an intrauterine transfusion. Also I''m spending one night a week in the hospital to receive IViG therapy to hopefully slow my antibodies crossing the placenta.


The procedure takes place in a hospital operating room and I will be lightly sedated for relaxation which also is supposed to slow the baby''s movements. They use a needle to obtain a sample of the baby''s blood by placing the needle through my abdomen into the baby''s umbilical vein near where it connects to the placenta. They draw the blood, and give it to a ''runner'' who runs it down to the lab where the blood is tested immediately -- they determine exactly how anemic the baby is (they check the hemoglobin or hemocrit, can''t remember the lingo.) That determines how much blood they will transfuse the baby with. They''ll transfuse him with O- blood like mine so that my antibodies will not destroy the blood. Transfusions typically last 7-15 days until the baby needs another one. That will happen until 36-37 weeks hopefully (they try to get you to 36-37 weeks but the average delivery for these babies is 34 weeks.)


Anyway, today the baby was measuring at 1.3... so already showing signs of mild anemia. Blah. The nurse today told me that I will definitely need transfusions this time, it''s just a matter of when. It could be next week or it could be at 30 weeks... impossible to tell. Except for the fact that he''s already showing signs of anemia. When his level hits 1.5 we''ll transfuse.


Yes it is good we''re aware that he''s Rh+ but it doesn''t change very much. We suspected that my first child was Rh+ and I was being monitored with the ultrasounds just like I am now -- things can just go wrong, she still died from it. Her numbers always came back perfect... and then she died of severe anemia two days before my next ultrasound was supposed to happen. She hadn''t shown signs of needing a transfusion yet. Each subsequent pregnancy the anemia sets in sooner, which is why the nurse is certain (besides my already elevated reading of the baby''s MCA) we''ll have transfusions this time. Transfusions can be very hard on their little bodes... it can send them into shock, cardiac arrest, etc. Also, the transfusions are more irritating to the uterus due to the often sideways placement off the needle, and usually cause contractions. They usually give an injection to stop this. Each time I will have a transfusion, I have to be prepped for a C-section.


I sincerely appreciate all of the kind words and thoughts. We knew what we were getting into this time around, and we remain supremely hopeful. It is all worth it!

Lindsey...I am so sorry that you have to go through this again. But I have a question for you. I am AB- and my husband is A+, I was wondering if you knew that you were expressed to + blood prior to getting pregnant. Would a doctor be able to do a test for this to see if you have the antibodies. I fear that I might have been exposed as a small child (while I lived in Russia) but we have no records of it. I stayed in the hospital when I was really small, like 3-4. My parents were not allowed to come. This is just something that really concerns me so I would like to be proactive in my knowledge especially since we are trying for a baby soon.
 
Date: 1/27/2010 8:43:36 PM
Author: AllieLuv83
Date: 1/27/2010 6:13:12 PM


Lindsey...I am so sorry that you have to go through this again. But I have a question for you. I am AB- and my husband is A+, I was wondering if you knew that you were expressed to + blood prior to getting pregnant. Would a doctor be able to do a test for this to see if you have the antibodies. I fear that I might have been exposed as a small child (while I lived in Russia) but we have no records of it. I stayed in the hospital when I was really small, like 3-4. My parents were not allowed to come. This is just something that really concerns me so I would like to be proactive in my knowledge especially since we are trying for a baby soon.

I''m not Lindsey, of course, but thought I would jump in. Allie, it would be very easy to see if you have any antibodies. You physician can order a type & screen (aka blood type and the screen part means screening for antibodies.) Lindsey was exposed (unfortunately!) if I recall correctly through a mistake while getting a blood transfusion. Not being familiar with Russian medicine practices 20 years ago, who knows what happened? But it seems unlikely.


Congrats Steph on the arrival of precious Evan!!
 
Thank you IceKid...I will call my doctor tomorrow to see if he can send me out for the blood test. :)
 
My doctor test everyone for it I think....I was during my first blood workup.
 
Congratulations Steph, can''t wait to see pics of baby Evan! Wish you a fast and healthy recovery!
 
Date: 1/27/2010 9:59:32 PM
Author: taovandel
My doctor test everyone for it I think....I was during my first blood workup.

I think my doctor did, too. I think it might actually be more common with people with an O blood type? Or maybe I just hear about it more because hispanics tend to be O''s, and where I live it is predominately hispanic.

Lindsey, I am so sorry you are going through this again. I wasn''t around for you last time, but I will be thinking about you hard during your pregnancy, and I really hope all goes well.
 
So, it's 5:45 am and I am awake and bored! I want this kid to come out already!! haha. I am tired of people asking me if I'm in labor yet AND telling me to be patient at the same time. I've done everything I *need* to do before he comes, so come out already kid...I'm getting tired of sleeping and baby shopping (which is like an OCD thing at this point).

On the plus side, I think I finally lost the rest of my mucus plug, YAY! I have never been so happy to see something other than 'clear'...TMI I know. I know it can be like a week or more after losing the plug but hopefully it's more like A DAY esp given the other stuff.

Towards the end do anyone else's hips really hurt from just flipping from side to side at night? In the morning my hip flexor muscles hurt SO badly. I think it's the extra 30 lbs on one area of my body and the fact that I can't disperse the weight by laying on my back or front anymore, but wow. I stretch them and it just makes them feel worse almost. Bah.

RPS... sorry that you are so busy these last few days but it's probably good to keep your mind off waiting! I wish I had more to do actually. I am like 'what can I re-organize' in the house. hehe.

I might have to start baking soon!
 
Awwwwwww - hang in there, Mara. You''re just one batch of cupcakes away now!

Sending you BIG labor vibes, gal!

Congrats to Steph, too! Can''t wait to see pictures of your new little man!
 
mara- i has so much hip/ back pain when I was preggo with Jake. when I would get out of bed in the night to go to the bathroom I was like an old man, hunched over and walking so incredibly slow. whats amazing is how all of the aches and pains seem to disappear as soon as that baby is out, the heartburn magically goes away too. I always thinks it''s funny that early in a pregnancy many gals are nervous or even scared of labor and by the time you are 37+ weeks you just can''t wait to get that baby out. I really hope today is the day for you!!
 
Date: 1/28/2010 8:45:14 AM
Author: Mara
Towards the end do anyone else''s hips really hurt from just flipping from side to side at night? In the morning my hip flexor muscles hurt SO badly. I think it''s the extra 30 lbs on one area of my body and the fact that I can''t disperse the weight by laying on my back or front anymore, but wow. I stretch them and it just makes them feel worse almost. Bah.

Mine have been for weeks already lol. I think you''re SO close!
 
ooh MP I feel for you as it really is NOT pleasant at all. in fact, it''s a lot worse than the huge hard belly i am carting around. i am going to have to start putting the heating pad on my hips in the evenings or something.

mrs salvo...totally. now i am like LABOR? bring it on!
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i can''t wait for the heartburn to subside, the acid reflux. the hip and leg pain. ugh! i feel like an old lady. i def can see how this is harder the older you are too because i am not a spring chicken by any means, when i get out of bed in the morning it''s like POPCORN of all my joints. crazy.

everyone tells me, you know the belly doesn''t go away entirely when you birth. when you leave the hospital you''ll be like ~5mo preggo belly. at first i was horrified and now i am like 5 months is FINE, i was TINY then and no hip pain. funny how perspective changes.
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i told Greg i would spend today doing crazy labor exercises i find online. he told me not to hurt myself.
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I''ve been checking in every day to see what''s going on with you gals that are due so soon!

Mara, it sounds like you''re getting close. My SIL had a lot of similar issues during the tail end of her pregnancy. Just when she thought the kiddo was never going to come, she went into labor. She had actually gone to the doctors a few days before and had made no progress. I think it''s hard to mentally deal with the last few weeks because you know you can really go any time.

Lindsey, I''m sorry to hear your peanut is RH+. I know the rest of this pregnancy will be stressful but I just know there will be lots of JOY to be had in the end! I really appreciate you giving such detail about your circumstances. It really was enlightening. I''m RH- and have to do the Rhogam and honestly didn''t understand why some women have issues and some don''t. I had no idea that prior exposure to +type blood was the culprit.

Ginger, yay for some days off! I can''t wait for a few vaca days. I had an impromptu half day this week because my dog got hold of a chocolate bar and I had to keep an eye on him all afternoon. He''s fine and a got a few hours off!

Kimberly, I''m with you...I would rather not know the sex of the baby but DH insists. It''s really important for him to know so I''m going to find out for him. I like surprises!

RPS, sorry your eldest is giving you trouble. Hopefully, he''ll get his act together!

As for me - I''m working on 13 weeks here and nothing really new except my belly suddenly popped out this week and I have some muscle pain in my lower abdomen especially when I make sudden moves (i.e. flying out of bed to turn off the alarm
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Date: 1/28/2010 10:11:02 AM
Author: Mara
ooh MP I feel for you as it really is NOT pleasant at all. in fact, it''s a lot worse than the huge hard belly i am carting around. i am going to have to start putting the heating pad on my hips in the evenings or something.

I just roll over a LOT at night. I wake up once an hour at least and roll over - if I don''t, it hurts so bad I want to lay on my back lol. I really miss laying on my back!

A pillow between the knees helps, too, but it has to be super fluffy.
 
Congrats on Evan, Steph! Can't wait to see pics!

Mara - I lost my plug about 6 days before I went into labor, if memory serves. FWIW, my water broke after I did a long session of stretching and stuff on the exercise ball...might want to give that one a try. It is relaxing, helps the baby get lower, and it MIGHT work!

Oh, and Mrs.S is right...it is like magic...all of the discomfort goes away IMMEDIATELY.
 
Mara
Hang in there.

Lindsey
I''ll be thinking of you and your little peanut throughout your pregnancy.

Today is my due date. Maybe I need to do some baking too.
 
CONGRATS Steph!!!
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You ladies need to get baking! I want to get us some PS babies here!!
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I have my weekly appt today. I am guessing he''ll check me and part of me wants to know if I''m making progress and part of me doesn''t want to be disappointed! Oh well. I also decided to put in for next Friday to be my last day of work. I''ll be 38.5 weeks. I''m just so tired of getting dressed to work!! I don''t want to wear dress pants any more!!!
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Mara and QT- Bake, bake, bake!!!!

Burk- I can''t believe you''re full term. I feel like you and Puffy just got preggo again. Where does the time go?!

Kim- I had something to say to you and now I can''t remember. Be back when I do.
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lol Burk, at this point i want you to come back and be like Wow I am full term and 4cm dilated! woo hoo. QT and I are obviously disappointments! hehee. oh and i hear you re: work...i am so happy daily to just shower and put on lounge clothes now.

i just took a 3hour nap and was totally comfy. i think this kid just is too happy in there. i actually notice when i am out doing things i feel really uncomfortable and that is when my body seems to do more. when i am just chillin'' out on the couch or in bed my body is too relaxed.

i heard the ball does help some women and i can see how sitting in that position would help...you are basically like pushing everything down in a squat. i think we gave ours away but my friend has one, i might have to get it today.

i''m eating leftover spicy tomato and noodle soup from lunch and will walk in a bit.
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other than that i am just bored! oh my friend who is due same date as me (i have another one besides KT) is 4cm but not in active labor. i told her she will be one of those gals who walks around for 3 days like that HAHA. but she is way ahead!

pupp... don''t worry about popping your belly a bit! i couldn''t wait to get to the point i looked preggo instead of just chub. hehe.
 
Let''s go ladies!!! I want to see new babies!!!
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FYI- Just got the call from the nurse and my results for my 1 hr Glucose test came back normal, and still no Anemia. Yay.
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Jcrow- This throat feeling at night is horrible. I made sure to finish my dinner by 7:30 and didn''t lay down for bed with DH until 11. Still had to sit up. DH has to rub my back for like 15 minutes before I can lay down, without that "feeling".
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