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If any of you have loose prongs on your gems, please please please, have them checked out by a jeweler. I went to the grocery store to pick up just a few items after work, and I was wearing my 6.16 carat Lolliondo spessartite trillion from Gene. It was shaking a little in the setting, but I thought it was secure enough. Well, on the drive from my way home from the store, I went to look down at my setting and the stone was gone. I was devastated the past couple of days. I thought it was lost forever and down the trash, and no one would ever find it. My best hope was that someone would find it intact and use it in a piece of jewelry since it's a stone that should be loved and adored.

I noticed my 2.8 carat Tanzanian violet blue spinel was shaking in the setting, so I took it to my jeweler the next day because I didn't want to lose another gem. That stone is one of my very favorite gems.

Fortunately, I found my Loliondo (happy ending). I bought cookies from the store and they were in a paper bag. I ate a cookie on the way home from the store in the car. Once home, I emptied the paper bag into a ziplock bag. I just dumped the whole bag of cookies in the ziplock, and didn't realize the stone had fallen in there when I was emptying it. Had I emptied the paper bag of cookies one by one, it would have been lost forever in the trash. That would have been horrific, and that stone cannot be easily replaced for it's size, color and quality. I thought I had looked everywhere for that gem, my purse, the car, the grocery bag, pockets and I didn't think to check the cookie bag. Although it's a large gem, 6 carats, these rocks are SMALL. They can get lost so easily. That ziplock bag had the gem in there for two days before I found it.

When I saw it in the ziplock this morning, it looked like a piece of orange candy. It was the best piece of candy I had ever seen. I jumped for joy. I'm so happy and relieved to have my spessartite back, but it taught me a lesson. If any of your gems are shaking around in a setting, please have them checked out by a jeweler, and please make sure the prongs are secure. I know too many people that have lost diamonds that way, and I don't want this to happen to any one of my PS colored stoner friends.

My loliondo has rounded edges, and the prongs were more sharp, so it did get a bit loose. It was not the jeweler's fault, but I do need to rethink how I'm going to set it now since it is such a fancy shape.
 
How scary!!! I''m going to go check all of my rings right now. I know I would be devastated were one of the stones to fall out. Insurance can replace $$, but the amount of consideration, concentration, collaboration that go into these pieces is irreplacable.
 
Date: 5/14/2010 12:08:20 PM
Author: Uppy
How scary!!! I''m going to go check all of my rings right now. I know I would be devastated were one of the stones to fall out. Insurance can replace $$, but the amount of consideration, concentration, collaboration that go into these pieces is irreplacable.
Yes, and where am I going to find another 6 carat Loliondo that color? They''re not even mining them anymore in that color!! Gene bought the rough as old stock while he was in Africa. I''m so grateful to have found it! I was so upset, I was afraid an old photo would come up on my computer or on PS with it, and I would cry my eyes out!
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A horror story. Im glad it had a happy ending. I lost a moonstone once. I found it in the vacuum cleaner bag(!) when I was frantically looking for an unrelated lost ring. The ring is still at large.
 
What a sickening feeling to look down and see that your stone was gone! I am so happy that you were able to find it especially since it could have been anywhere!!!
 
Thanks Vapid, Cindy. Wow Vapid, I can''t believe you found your moonstone in a vacuum bag. A lucky find.

Here''s a shot of the stone in the setting for reference. The tips of the stone are rounded, and the prongs are more chevron shaped, so I really have to rethink how I''m going to set this gem. It''s more beautiful IRL, and the inclusions sparkle like glitter. Really a one of kind gem, and I was so devastated those two days. My husband could tell I was in a happier mood since I found it.

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Thats so freaky! I''m very glad to hear you found it.

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Reading that caused my stomach to cramp... I can soooo understand how you must have felt before you found it. Thanks for reminding all of us to keep our rings checked out and YAY for finding the stone. I have mine checked periodically, but probably not often enough.
 
SO glad you found it TL! I lost a medium fabulous sapphire that I happend to love more than any other in my car
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It fell under the carpet, and I actually found it after months of searching... There is nothing like that feeling when you look down and see it missing... Like a kick in the stomach.
 
OMG I was about to start bawling my eyes out with you!
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I''m so glad you found it!!
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That would have been a real life nightmare!
 
I am so glad you found it in the end! It must have been like finding a lost love..?
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i am so glad you were incredibly lucky!
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Phew what a relief! Soooooo pleased you found it.

How about double prongs on each corner for security?
 
freaky..that was a close one..wish i found a nice spess in my cookies..glad you got it back
 
Date: 5/14/2010 1:08:10 PM
Author: virgoruby
I am so glad you found it in the end! It must have been like finding a lost love..?
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With the exception of my husband, I rather have lost my old boyfriends. LOL! Needless to say, they were not gems!!

Thank you so much everyone. Please please check your prongs!!

You know, even though I did find it, thank goodness it didn't drop on a hard surface. No chips. Phew!!
 
Date: 5/14/2010 1:12:56 PM
Author: LovingDiamonds
Phew what a relief! Soooooo pleased you found it.

How about double prongs on each corner for security?
Good idea LD!
 
OMG!
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What a horrible scare and I’m so thankful you have a happy ending. Good size gems of good quality aren’t easy to find and I enjoy seeing pictures of your Loliondo. I like the idea of double prongs too for extra security.
 
No chips!? I guess they were oatmeal cookies then.
 
Date: 5/14/2010 1:48:21 PM
Author: VapidLapid
No chips!? I guess they were oatmeal cookies then.
Ha ha!! They were actually those sticky Greek butter/honey cookies. Yum!!
 
Delicious! And glad you didn''t mistake the stone for a bit of candied fruit. you could have broken a tooth!
 
Set your spessarites free. If they come back to you, they really love you!
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Next time though, we will get you some funky rough to try it with instead
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It is scary. First week we had my wife''s engagement ring... we were moving our stuff into the motel near JAX for her reunion. I look and see that the stone is GONE. A 1.something VS D Princess! It was a chunk of change. I started looking (AmGuy can attest to how good I am for looking for stones on the ground
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). I finally found it in the motel room near the corner of the bed on the floor. Relieved! The NEW prongs (well, they are now 9 years old) are MUCH sturdier.
 
Date: 5/14/2010 2:06:16 PM
Author: gsellis
Set your spessarites free. If they come back to you, they really love you!
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Next time though, we will get you some funky rough to try it with instead
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It is scary. First week we had my wife''s engagement ring... we were moving our stuff into the motel near JAX for her reunion. I look and see that the stone is GONE. A 1.something VS D Princess! It was a chunk of change. I started looking (AmGuy can attest to how good I am for looking for stones on the ground
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). I finally found it in the motel room near the corner of the bed on the floor. Relieved! The NEW prongs (well, they are now 9 years old) are MUCH sturdier.
OMG, how horrific to lose such an expensive diamond!! My SIL lost her diamond, but it was not the best stone and around 40 points. It was insured so she upgraded to a much nicer gem (I helped her pick it out), so in that case, she was probably happy to lose it. However, to lose any gem that you love, no matter how much it cost, can be devastating.
 
Date: 5/14/2010 2:10:30 PM
Author: tourmaline_lover
OMG, how horrific to lose such an expensive diamond!! My SIL lost her diamond, but it was not the best stone and around 40 points. It was insured so she upgraded to a much nicer gem (I helped her pick it out), so in that case, she was probably happy to lose it. However, to lose any gem that you love, no matter how much it cost, can be devastating.
I do remember reminding myself as all of us were looking that it was just a thing. It could be replaced. Painfully, but replaced. We still had the family.

Olin Banks reminded us of that at our last faceters meeting. His wife died this last year. That can't be replaced.

PS = Moral, check your prongs than check your SO and hug them [:D]
 
Oh, I''m so glad this had a happy ending
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A stone is just a thing, but they give us so much joy.
 
I''ve lost some really near and dear gems
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It still breaks my heart to think about it!

I''m so glad you found yours!
 
who knew cookies could be so dangerous! i may never eat a cookie again(ya right!)...with my rings on anyway...great to hear that the story has a happy ending!
 
Date: 5/14/2010 2:26:39 PM
Author: gsellis
Date: 5/14/2010 2:10:30 PM

Author: tourmaline_lover

OMG, how horrific to lose such an expensive diamond!! My SIL lost her diamond, but it was not the best stone and around 40 points. It was insured so she upgraded to a much nicer gem (I helped her pick it out), so in that case, she was probably happy to lose it. However, to lose any gem that you love, no matter how much it cost, can be devastating.
I do remember reminding myself as all of us were looking that it was just a thing. It could be replaced. Painfully, but replaced. We still had the family.


Olin Banks reminded us of that at our last faceters meeting. His wife died this last year. That can''t be replaced.


PS = Moral, check your prongs than check your SO and hug them [:D]

Very true, you can''t replace a loved one. In the scheme of things, a gem is very unimportant, but they do make me smile!
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Thanks again everyone. I''m thinking double prongs.
 
I''m glad you found it.
 
I`m so glad you found it again - I know that sinking feeling well! :)
 
Thanks everyone. I''ve been staring at it today with a new appreciation.
 
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