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Hi NIRDI’S!
@missy your opal is so pretty. I am glad you got it and some other stuff from your place in NY. Those seals are so cute. They look cold though. Or am I projecting?
@Austina that’s good you kept at least one down coat. I reach for mine often. Hopefully your ankle is fine, and you’re right if anything is broken it is already healing. I am glad I was able to get a new dishwasher in less than two weeks. It doens’t seem possible you’ve had your new car that long. Have a nice day out.
Hi @Daisys and Diamonds I hope you are doing well.
Not much new here. Our snow is not melting, it’s still really icy out there. I got my Snoopy village out and put up tonight. I did drop one Snoopy and broke off his feet. Marty has a glue task when he gets home tomorrow.
Take care.
Marcy
just a quick hello to all the lovely NIRDI ladies
hope everyone is good
@missy i hope the caterac op went well and Greg is good
best wishes to your mum and dad, i hope your dad is doing well at home
take care everyone
here is a happy little story to brighten everyone's day
love NickyStuff
www.stuff.co.nz
Hi NIRDI’S!
@missy your opal is so pretty. I am glad you got it and some other stuff from your place in NY. Those seals are so cute. They look cold though. Or am I projecting?
@Austina that’s good you kept at least one down coat. I reach for mine often. Hopefully your ankle is fine, and you’re right if anything is broken it is already healing. I am glad I was able to get a new dishwasher in less than two weeks. It doens’t seem possible you’ve had your new car that long. Have a nice day out.
Hi @Daisys and Diamonds I hope you are doing well.
Not much new here. Our snow is not melting, it’s still really icy out there. I got my Snoopy village out and put up tonight. I did drop one Snoopy and broke off his feet. Marty has a glue task when he gets home tomorrow.
Take care.
Marcy
Aww tysm Nikki. All is going smoothly and well. My dad fell again as did my mom. It’s challenging. TG they didn’t break anything. I so appreciate you caring and posting. You’re a true gem sweet Nikki I hope all is well with you and your loved ones. XOXO
Hi Ladies -
I've been putting off this update for a long time because there's just been so much going on.
The central point is that we decided a few months back Tim should resign, have a real rest for a few months, then return to work when we felt his health was better, preferably in a far less stressful position. Tim has always been a very relaxed, chill kind of dude - happy by nature and very easy going. But there's limits, and he's been living well beyond them for years now. The last vacation of more than a week that he had was over 14 years ago, and sarcoidosis is so strongly associated with stress, we just felt in the end that the level of stress he had in his job was impacting him in a very negative sense. So - he quit.
He's been off work for the last couple of months, pottering around the house, and will start doing some contract work again - around 30 hours per week - on Monday. This will represent around half his regular workload for the last 20 years, and it's mainly straight technical actuarial work, as opposed to strategic planning for a multi billion dollar company - so the stress should be much less. This, in my opinion, will help him transition to retirement in a few years, and makes a good step-down role, as I think going from what he's been doing for years, to retired, would have been jarring. He's also thinking about continuing to do a little work into retirement, just to keep his hand in as the years go by - working in his own business. So this seems like the way forward to me.
As for me - I'm ok. Crohn's continues to be a battle, with a big flare over the last 6 weeks or so. It's been rough, but seems to be subsiding now. I see the rheumatologist in a couple of months and am going to ask him to test me for MS, which I've suspected for some years that I might have. So the health news on my front continues to unfold....
Eleanor graduated from Berkeley in May with straight A's, and I am so proud. She's now doing a one year Graduate Diploma in Children's Illustration through UC San Diego, and will try to get a job after that. Since her current course is remote/online and can be done at the pace of her choosing, she's started looking for jobs and internships in a more casual sense, which are not easy to find and hugely sought after. Her goal is to be an art director in a children's literature publishing house, and she hopes, ultimately, to do an MBA in Project Management, part time while she works. Both she and Nathaniel (her brother, my godson) were here for Thanksgiving and we had a wonderful time. Nathaniel goes from strength to strength in his PhD, and was in Cambridge in the UK recently, delivering a presentation, then gave another presentation to faculty at MIT last week. He loves what he does- and loves his partner, Mika, who he lives with and is planning to marry. He's still out in LA, while Eleanor has moved here semi-permanently and will go back and forth between Boston and LA, with her home base mostly in Boston, until she moves into an apartment of her own, for which she's currently saving.
I've finished all my Christmas decos and gift shopping for this year, amd will head back to LA next Wednesday. Wendy, my best girlfriend, comes out on the 17th, and will be here for 5 weeks. Tim and Eleanor will be out in a little while as well, and all of us - me, Tim, Eleanor, Nathaniel, Wendy, Robert (my LA house mate / Wendy's husband / David's brother), and David (my best friend in the US and Robert's brother / Eleanor and Nathaniel's Dad) - will be having the Christmas season together. There will be much eating, drinking, watching of movies, taking of drives, flying of drones at the Rose Bowl, and dog walking going on.
I am way too far off the pace to catch up on everyone's news, and I apologise. I hope you're all well and hanging in there. @missy, thank you for still including me - your photos continue to be a genuine joy. Has anyone heard from @MamaBee?
Sending all of you hugs and well wishes for the festive season! oxoxo
Leaving you with Eleanor's latest Christmas card...I hope it makes you smile. <3
@missy I'm so sorry to hear that your parents are becoming so frail with their advancing age. Would they consider moving in with you and Greg or another family member?
Not a chance. They are so independent. I don't know what happens but I have observed as many people get older they get more stubborn. It is hard to just stand by watching this unfold. But they cannot be swayed. Thanks for your suggestion though. I appreciate it
ETA Part of this issue are their feral cats who cannot be moved. Their lives depend on my parents and my parents will not leave them. I cannot say I do not understand this because I do. These are very challenging circumstances
Hello lovelies
Happy FriYay
Glad Marty got home safely @marcy, and sweet on going out for dinner. We’re planning on keeping away from people until we go away, don’t want a repeat of last years fiasco on board! Good luck putting up your tree, I did mine a couple of weeks ago, just to finally get some use out of it
Isn’t it ridiculous that in such a big country, even things like medicines are being sourced from overseas @missy Glad you got to spend time outside, I know it feeds your soul and helps balance all the stresses in your life.
Well, despite checking and the order update saying the bedframe was being delivered tomorrow, it turned up this afternoon. The box is really battered so I hope it’s not damaged. We’re going to tackle it tomorrow, no doubt there’ll be much muttering and cursing putting it together!
Have a great weekend lovely NIRDIs