Now I really did it :((

[MamaBee]

Hi girlfriends...It’s been so hard to get the time to come here every day because of David being home..My mom has also been a challenge...It seems I’m putting out fires every day...My cell phone is having issues with not holding a charge..so without researching like I usually do I just purchased an iPhone 11. I’ll get it tomorrow and have to figure out how to set it up..
I hope everyone is well and not going crazy being in the house...I usually love to be home but after eight weeks I admit I’m getting a little stir crazy. I can’t leave my house except for the back yard because there is a house across the street with young people that don’t wear masks and congregate. They walk down to the pier which is a dead end. There’s no way to avoid them and keep a safe distance. David doesn’t want to be outside so I mainly go into the back yard. TG my husband comes every Saturday. We got out first food pickup for Mother’s Day so I didn’t have to cook..Shatzie said it was a disaster..No one stayed in their cars...We had a pickup for 4:00 but the food wasn’t ready. He got back later than expected. That took time away from visiting. I’ll cook next time..
Time to make the donuts! My mom just asked me what we were having for dinner. That’s my hint from her to get cooking!

 

[MamaBee]

@Mamabean and all of the NIRDIs

You guys are the best... @Mamabean So what happened with Gordie? Bailey is 11 1/2 already too? Chase has skin breakdown as well. We have tried steroids, muscle relaxers and some other meds, but they were all not worth the side effects for him. Perhaps I should try plain old pain relievers.. I will text the vet that question now. Thank you.

@Slick1 I hesitate to tell you because I think it would upset you...I waited too long..I’m watching Bailey very closely. He takes Rimadyl twice a day...I also give him Cosequin for his joints..Bailey has acid reflux so he takes 2 Prilosecs in the morning along with two probiotics.He also takes Metoclopramide so it keeps his food moving...Otherwise he can’t keep his food down....I can tell he’s feeling his age...It’s so hard....Hugs to you.....

 

[junebug17]

@Slick1, I am so very sorry you're facing this decision. I know it's really hard. In fact it's traumatizing. I wish I had a clear answer for you. It's such a tough call to make. I have always tried to base my decision on the quality of life my pets were experiencing. I just didn't want them to suffer needlessly. Sending you lots of comfort, support, and love.

 

[Slickk]

@Mamabean Thank you for sharing. i can imagine what happened to your Gordie...And I am sorry you are having to watch Bailey so carefully. Hugs to you and sweet Bailey.

I have read that, once you have been through it, you are more likely to not wait as long the next time. Even though I grew up with many animals, in most of my adult life, I have not had to make this decision often or most certainly not lately. I had a cat which got very sick at 10 yo, but that was an easier decision because the symptoms were life changing, I knew immediately. This is not as cut and dried in my eyes.

Thank you @junebug17 for your kind words.They really warmed my heart. I do see the suffering but then I see the trust and love in his eyes and it feels like a betrayal even if it the humane thing to do, I really wish this decision would be taken out of my hands, but that is a rare occurrence. Thank you for sharing, June!! By the way, love your cat avatar, but I also was quite enjoying the yellow gold and moonstone. Swoon.

 

[junebug17]

@Mamabean Thank you for sharing. i can imagine what happened to your Gordie...And I am sorry you are having to watch Bailey so carefully. Hugs to you and sweet Bailey.

I have read that, once you have been through it, you are more likely to not wait as long the next time. Even though I grew up with many animals, in most of my adult life, I have not had to make this decision often or most certainly not lately. I had a cat which got very sick at 10 yo, but that was an easier decision because the symptoms were life changing, I knew immediately. This is not as cut and dried in my eyes.

Thank you @junebug17 for your kind words.They really warmed my heart. I do see the suffering but then I see the trust and love in his eyes and it feels like a betrayal even if it the humane thing to do, I really wish this decision would be taken out of my hands, but that is a rare occurrence. Thank you for sharing, June!! By the way, love your cat avatar, but I also was quite enjoying the yellow gold and moonstone. Swoon.

Thank you @Slick1! DD took that pic. I lost Zoe last year, so I can really empathize with what you're going through. And I agree with you...somehow the call is a little easier to make when it's a terminal illness and the signs are more obvious. IMO much harder to call when it's a slow decline from aging. I feel for you so much. And I'm hoping that maybe a pain reliever will make Chase more comfortable.

 

[Daisys and Diamonds]

@Mamabean and all of the NIRDIs

You guys are the best... @Mamabean So what happened with Gordie? Bailey is 11 1/2 already too? Chase has skin breakdown as well. We have tried steroids, muscle relaxers and some other meds, but they were all not worth the side effects for him. Perhaps I should try plain old pain relievers.. I will text the vet that question now. Thank you.

hugs to you and dear Chase
just enjoy each other's company and let him have his favourite food

 

[Sunstorm]

@Slick1 it is really hard for me to read about this because it has not been two months yet that I lost my cats and one was totally unexpected with a 9 month old kitten and the whole thing having been like a punishment from if there is a God.

But I can say one thing. You WILL know. Stop thinking and beating yourself please. Every time there comes the time when I feel it and hug my baby and quietly wisper “all I can promise you is that I will not let you suffer.” And the time when this happens is individual and you should be kind to yourself.

It has happened that I went way too long doing everything far and beyond to no avail. Thinking back what was I thinking? But I have forgiven myself because it was out of love. I know I gave it my all under the circumstances.

Your baby is precious. He looks so sweet. Enjoy your time together on this Earth. Give all your love. That’s all we can do.

 

[MarionC]

Slick1, I’ve had to make this decision many times and always I wait too long. Always. Seems there is no way around it. The only thing I could say would be, if there’s a bad day, don’t wait for the next bad day. Don’t know if I could even follow that advice myself.
I am just so sorry.

 

[Slickk]

Wise words @Sunstorm thank you for sharing your experience and guidance. I am so sorry you have had such heartache. These fur babies do pull at our heartstrings. Thank you for confirming that I will know ‘the time.’ I hope it comes upon me with such clarity there I’ll have no doubts. Thank you.

@Jimmianne I am sorry for your pain and that you have had indecision on these heartbreaking matters. I sort of think I am at the point where I may have waited too long. But of course when I reach that conclusion indeed he perks up and has a good day. Of course his good day isn’t very qualitative.

((Hugs)) to you both for sharing. I am forever thankful for your insight and compassion.

@Daisys and Diamonds thank for your kind words. I am giving him his favorite foods

 

[missy]

GM lovely ladies! It's another beautiful day at the Jersey shore and I hope it is beautiful where you are too.

Hi girlfriends...It’s been so hard to get the time to come here every day because of David being home..My mom has also been a challenge...It seems I’m putting out fires every day...My cell phone is having issues with not holding a charge..so without researching like I usually do I just purchased an iPhone 11. I’ll get it tomorrow and have to figure out how to set it up..
I hope everyone is well and not going crazy being in the house...I usually love to be home but after eight weeks I admit I’m getting a little stir crazy. I can’t leave my house except for the back yard because there is a house across the street with young people that don’t wear masks and congregate. They walk down to the pier which is a dead end. There’s no way to avoid them and keep a safe distance. David doesn’t want to be outside so I mainly go into the back yard. TG my husband comes every Saturday. We got out first food pickup for Mother’s Day so I didn’t have to cook..Shatzie said it was a disaster..No one stayed in their cars...We had a pickup for 4:00 but the food wasn’t ready. He got back later than expected. That took time away from visiting. I’ll cook next time..
Time to make the donuts! My mom just asked me what we were having for dinner. That’s my hint from her to get cooking!
❤

Dear Joanne, you have your hands filled indeed. I am sorry you have so much on your plate. The iPhone 11 is amazing. I have the iPhone 11 Pro Max (I think-it was the biggest one) and I LOVE it. I take photos with it all the time and I even post on PS from it much of the time despite posting being easier from my laptop I have my phone on me more than I am near my laptop. Yay for your DH coming every Saturday. Sorry about take out being a disaster. I don't know what I would do if Greg didn't cook. He is fattening me up lol. And time to make the donuts haha I use that term all the time. Shows our age. Oops. Hugs.


@Slick1 I am so sorry you and Chase are going through this and you know I feel your pain. Literally because my heart hurts thinking of your beloved Chase and you dealing with this. I stand by what I have told you about knowing when it is time. I know some believe better a day too early than a minute too late but I don't feel that way. As soon as you know it is time you will do the right thing and whenever it is right for you and Chase you will know. There is no wrong answer and no one can tell you but you. I am so so sorry you are going through this and I keep Chase in my prayers every day. (((HUGS))).

@Sunstorm dear friend I know it feels like we have known each other forever. So funny and true. And while I have been so fortunate to have met many of the NIRDIs in real life you and I have yet to meet. The distance isn't too far as much as how crazy life has been even before the pandemic but especially now. We get each other with our love of furry babies and bling and even our backgrounds. Sending you lots of love and one day we will hug in person. XOXO.

@Tekate great Kate the wise and wonderful. Any updates with the house? I am so excited for you and your dream home to come to fruition and I am even rooting for the pool to happen and a drastic decrease in the cost of said pool. Auti is precious and your entire family is wonderful. Especially your DH. Love you girlie. Lots. XOXO.

@Austina how is the week going? I have been enjoying Bubbalah and it reminds me why I love OECs. So I am wearing her every day again. Has Bella been out to play at all? Yes take her out if you are in the mood. That bracelet sounds delicious. I cannot wait to hear more of your thoughts about it. Hope you get to enjoy a lovely walk and hope the blood test goes easily. Sending you hugs and lots of good wishes. Hope you and Colin get to enjoy a nice drive. Hugs.

@junebug17 sounds like the perfect beach vacation and that is how I am looking at it. As an extended (albeit working) vacation for our guys. We are fortunate and I am very sad about all the people who are living paycheck to paycheck. We donated to the local food bank as well as other organizations but it never feels like enough and even though Greg's work future is uncertain right now we are OK and I know we will be OK. But so many people aren't. Yeah sometimes this Dystopian society we are living in gives me waking nightmares. Sorry to go off on a tangent. Just want to say I am glad all is going well and may it continue to go well. Keeping good thoughts for all the NIRDIs. XOXO.

@sarahb speaking of NIRDIs how are you? Hope all is well. Thinking of you and sending hugs and love.


@Keeliamira continued good thoughts being sent your way. Hugs.

@Niffler75 ooh cannot wait for you to receive your Yag color change stone! And yes to enjoying the seaside. I am with you on the salt air and the sea and even the fish and chips. YUmmmmm. Wish you could visit us here. One day maybe. It is very peaceful here. For now. Hope that continues. Hugs.

@Jimmianne yay I am excited for your newest band to arrive. And your garden is heaven. Sending you hugs across the miles and lots of love.

@missy Hi beach girl! Yay I'm so happy you are back at the beach my friend. The beach looks glorious and so nice to be so empty. We have lots of family events coming up....my dad's birthday, my niece's birthday and father's day and of coarse missed mother's day. My mom really wants us to come to the beach. Feeling stressed about what to do but I'm sure we will figure it out.

You will figure it out of that I am sure. Please don't be stressed. Conserve that adrenaline and cortisol for other things and better yet we should both keep those to a minimum. Lots of happy events coming up and if you cannot celebrate in person you can see them on video chat. I know it's not the same thing though. Maybe by the time the dates arrive it will be clearer to know the best course of action. I too am grappling with Father's Day. We missed Mother's Day and my dad's 86th birthday and I would love to be able to host Father's Day but it isn't looking good. We shall see. One day at a time. (((HUGS))).

@Scandinavian good morning sweet girl. How is the week going? How are the kids doing? Hugs to all of you and especially furbaby 1 and 2. XOXO.

We hiked lots of miles yesterday and it was another gorgeous day. On the way out we passed our roofer guy (on someone else's roof) and Greg asked him about an issue we were having and when we got back lo and behold he had fixed said issue! OMG. Greg texted him asking what do we owe and he has not yet answered. How nice are the people here? I mean he just fixed it without even calling us or making us wait etc. Same day service. Wow.


Leaving you with some photos from our hike yesterday. I wish I could take all of you with us to enjoy the surroundings here though I know you are all in lovely places with loved ones. I just get excited to share the beauty that is all around here. Sending you lovely ladies hugs and love and positive energy. XOXO.


@bling_dream19 I think you will enjoy these pants I am wearing...my marine life shark pattern pants. LOL.
Oh and take note of my light blue/gray Stuart Weitzman boots. I got them on super sale last autumn/fall as some of you might remember. I love them! They are super comfy for hiking though they are most certainly not hiking boots. But they double as fashion boots and hiking boots as far as I am concerned


Do you see Oliver saying hey take me with you...





It was a lovely day.

Have a wonderful Wednesday lovely ladies! XOXO.

 

[missy]

Oh wait, I forgot Bubbalah. She likes hiking.




@springerspaniel hope you are having a good week. Continued well wishes being sent your and your family's way. And (((Hugs))).

@AV_ any hikes coming up in your future? I love walking and hiking and we have been getting back to that instead of cycling for now. But I am taking Greg away from working on the bike. But he gets to work on it a bit each day so it will just take longer to get it back in cycling condition. That's OK. I am not really in a rush for now to get back to cycling as I am enjoying our walks and hikes too much.

 

[Austina]

I’ll be back later to catch up, just wanted to pop on to say to @Slick1 that we had to make the decision with our first dog, Waldo. He had the canine equivalent of Hodgkin disease.

I echo the others, I’m afraid I look back and know that we waited too long to make the decision. He was having daily checks at the vet, I took him on the Friday and the vet said it was time to make the decision, I asked if it could wait until after the weekend, and she said OK. I don’t want to go in to the details, because it’s still upsetting 34 years later, but over the weekend, it was time and I kept him alive for those few extra days because I couldn’t let go. I’m not suggesting this is what you’re doing with Chase, but I think you can tell by the look in their eyes when they’re ready to say goodbye. If you think he’s had enough, if he’s got no quality of life, if he’s not eating, then hold him tight, tell him you love him, kiss his sweet face and let him go. I’m so sorry you’re having to do this, but please take heart in knowing that your love and care has given him 17 wonderful years of life with you. Xxx

 

[springerspaniel]

@Slick1 I remember the first time I had to make that awful decision with my heart dog, Coco. I am so sorry to hear you are going through that with Chase. What a beautiful dog Chase is! I didn't believe what everyone said-that Coco would tell me when it was time, but she did. She was still walking and eating, but she had lost her "dogality" to what was likely dementia. She was up at all hours, walking in circles with me outside, endlessly. I took pictures every day, then one day looked at the pictures and realized she just wasn't with us any more. I miss her so much still. (Do I still occasionally ask myself if I said goodbye too early? Much less than I did in the beginning, and it's been over 10 years. Ack, starting to cry remembering...)

As everyone else says, love Chase every day, feed him favorite foods, take him to favorite places if you can. He is so special!

 

[bling_dream19]

Thanks for the advice @missy you are the marvelous Missy! Yes no stress. Yesterday was a pretty awful day for me for some reason but it's over and today is a new day and I'm feeling much better! Ok onward to better things....I LOVE your marine shark leggings with your blue boots! Bluelicious and Bubbalah is just gorgeous, it's really incredible how she picks up the colors. She definitely loves hiking, it brings out her pastel rainbows ! That is incredible the roofer fixed what you needed in one day at no charge. Hugs and much love to you friend.
Shout out to all sparkly nirdis and have a great day!

 

[Daisys and Diamonds]

@missy (even though physically i have never been there ) i am sure every day down the shore is wonderful !!
the pictures are so beautuful (so were the Brooklyn pictures)
when will Greg's knee be ok for a bike ride ...and when will our ice cream man be open?

tomorrow night we move back to covid level 2 so shops are going to be open (with lots of conditions), hair drssers, resturants and domestic travel will be allowed but if course still physical distancing and no bars just yet
school back on Monday

but Gary and I are not planning to be leaving the house accept for groceries and the chemist because we just do not trust most of the rest of the population to do the right thing

we will now be offically allowed to pat other people's dogs again ....so i guess that applies to cats too ?

stay safe all you lovelly NIRDI ladies
hug you cats and dogs

Nicky

 

[missy]

Thanks for the advice @missy you are the marvelous Missy! Yes no stress. Yesterday was a pretty awful day for me for some reason but it's over and today is a new day and I'm feeling much better! Ok onward to better things....I LOVE your marine shark leggings with your blue boots! Bluelicious and Bubbalah is just gorgeous, it's really incredible how she picks up the colors. She definitely loves hiking, it brings out her pastel rainbows ! That is incredible the roofer fixed what you needed in one day at no charge. Hugs and much love to you friend.
Shout out to all sparkly nirdis and have a great day!

Aww I am sorry yesterday was a challenging day for you. Sending you such BIG HUGS and lots of love and calming dust and all that good stuff. (((HUGS))) XOXOXOXO. I hope today is a good day!

 

[missy]

@missy (even though physically i have never been there ) i am sure every day down the shore is wonderful !!
the pictures are so beautuful (so were the Brooklyn pictures)
when will Greg's knee be ok for a bike ride ...and when will our ice cream man be open?

tomorrow night we move back to covid level 2 so shops are going to be open (with lots of conditions), hair drssers, resturants and domestic travel will be allowed but if course still physical distancing and no bars just yet
school back on Monday

but Gary and I are not planning to be leaving the house accept for groceries and the chemist because we just do not trust most of the rest of the population to do the right thing

we will now be offically allowed to pat other people's dogs again ....so i guess that applies to cats too ?

stay safe all you lovelly NIRDI ladies
hug you cats and dogs

Nicky

He is good to go now for a bike ride. He has been working out on his bike in the house. But our tandem needs work so it will be a while til he finishes making it as good (and safe) as new. Ice cream has been opened at Jimmy's place (not at Dave's place and I have a feeling Dave is going to close for good now because he was talking about doing it soon anyway ....I am sad about that. I LOVED his ice cream best). Anyway Jimmy reopened a long time ago but I don't feel it is safe to go there yet. It's a small tight space and well it's not worth the risk IMO.

Good luck with the reopening. Praying everyone takes it slowly and that it goes well for all. And yes I miss hugging other people's dogs! (((Hugs))) to you Nicky!

 

[missy]

@Slick1 I remember the first time I had to make that awful decision with my heart dog, Coco. I am so sorry to hear you are going through that with Chase. What a beautiful dog Chase is! I didn't believe what everyone said-that Coco would tell me when it was time, but she did. She was still walking and eating, but she had lost her "dogality" to what was likely dementia. She was up at all hours, walking in circles with me outside, endlessly. I took pictures every day, then one day looked at the pictures and realized she just wasn't with us any more. I miss her so much still. (Do I still occasionally ask myself if I said goodbye too early? Much less than I did in the beginning, and it's been over 10 years. Ack, starting to cry remembering...)

As everyone else says, love Chase every day, feed him favorite foods, take him to favorite places if you can. He is so special!

It's always so hard
The best gift we can give them is peace when it is time.
I still cry every day over Francesca and Fred. I feel pathetic at times crying still when it has almost been a year since Francesca died. But the pain feels as raw as it did that first day almost. Still.


Sending all of you who have lost furry babies much love and healing wishes. There are truly no words to ease one's pain but at least take some comfort knowing you gave your all to your furry best friend and did the best you could for them. They knew unconditional love while they shared this earth with us and that is something. Grief is the price we pay for love.

((((HUGS)))).

 

[Slickk]

but I think you can tell by the look in their eyes when they’re ready to say goodbye. If you think he’s had enough, if he’s got no quality of life, if he’s not eating, then hold him tight, tell him you love him, kiss his sweet face and let him go.

@Slick1
She was still walking and eating, but she had lost her "dogality" to what was likely dementia. She was up at all hours, walking in circles with me outside, endlessly. I took pictures every day, then one day looked at the pictures and realized she just wasn't with us any more.

Oh my ladies, I am crying...finally. I think I have been in denial but the above statements really resonate with me..Thank you for confirming what I do know in my mind, but what my heart is struggling with. Thank you for sharing what is one of the most painful decisions life thrusts upon us. I don't want to be selfish and keep him here for me, but when I think of that moment, that action, I just know it will break me.

Beautiful pics @missy I am happy you are wearing Bubbalah, she is, "Real and she is spectacular." Shameless Seinfeld quote.

((Hugs)) to all the NIRDIs who have shared their heartbreaking stories here. I want you to know how much you have all helped me. Reminds me of this quote that I used often when my parents passed away. Praise the bridge that carried you over...You all have been my 'bridge.' Many thanks.

 

[Niffler75]

@Slick1 Huge hugs to you! I am shedding a tear here for you too. Please take care x

 

[MamaBee]

I know all our hearts are with you @Slick1..Big hugs..

 

[Austina]

Hello lovelies

I’m sorry if my post came across as harsh or preachy @Slick1, we had no choice with our other 3 dogs, it was all at the very last moment with them, very sudden, with Waldo we had 6 weeks from diagnosis, and I swore I’d never do that again. I was told that the last sense to go is their sense of smell, so hold him tight, he’ll know you’re there and releasing him from any suffering. Be brave sweet NIRDI, you’re doing what’s best for him, it just hurts so much. I have tears streaming down my face because I know how you’re feeling, as do we all who’ve loved and lost our beloved pets.

Your scenery looks very much like our walk today @missy, we went to one of Dottie’s favourite places, she loved to hunt squirrels there, used to meet her friends Rosie the St Bernard and Ursa the Newfie, they were quiet like her, so even though they were bigger, she never felt threatened by them. It was so good to get out in the fresh air again and walk for nearly an hour. It’s a good place to go because we could walk on to another path if we saw anyone coming. There were very few people about this morning, so we timed it just right. Ollie does look like he’s saying “take me with you Mum” I didn’t get Bella out yet because we wanted to get out before it got busy. Wow that was really great service from the roofer, glad you’ve got the problem sorted. I’ve not heard back yet about the bracelet, but will keep you posted.

Sorry you were having a bad day yesterday @bling_dream19, onwards and upwards. Lots of celebrations to look forward to when we’re finally through this madness.

Adam has the IPhone 11 too @Mamabean and I know he’s very pleased with it, but then he’s young and techie, so setting these things up is a breeze for him. We always get him to sort out all our stuff for us, easier than him trying to talk us through it We always laugh and tell him we didn’t spend all that money on his education for us to have to do these things ourselves!

I hope people will be really sensible there with the relaxation of the lockdown @Daisys and Diamonds, Germany have opened things up too quickly, and their R rate has gone up again. They’re taking it quite slowly here, no shops open yet, people are being asked to go back to work if they can’t work from home, and not use public transport either unless strictly necessary. We can now drive somewhere to exercise, and you can meet 1 other person, family or friend, as long as you continue to social distance. No visiting each other’s houses, or going outside your immediate area to other parts of the country. July 4th is the earliest they’re talking about hairdressers and some shops opening. I think it’s wise to be cautious and they’ve already said if the R rate goes up, the lockdown comes back in.

Lovely but chilly here today @Niffler75, how’re you feeling?

Hi @Jimmianne, what’s this about a new ring, are you holding out on us? Come on, spill!

How’re things there @junebug17, is it getting warm yet?

Have I told you how much I love your avatar @springerspaniel, just love that gorgeous face?

I did my blood test this morning, had a shower to get nice and warm, then had to pump my hand to get the blood flowing. They send a sheathed needle thing to poke yourself with, then you have to ’milk’ your finger to get the blood out, quite a lot of blood! I had no trouble filling it, I’m a bleeder My feeling is I’ll be negative for antibodies, but we’ll see.

I did something stupid yesterday morning, I didn‘t check what it said on the bottle, because both bottles are the same, and I ended up washing my hair with shower gel what a dope

Spoke to my friend Sue today, and we’re going to socially distance on a walk next week, it’ll be nice to see a friendly face and speak to someone else

We’ve got a big delivery coming tomorrow to fill up the freezer, then we’ll be really well stocked, got some ice cream coming too black cherry for Colin, mint choc chip for me.

Sending big hugs to all the lovely NIRDIs, thinking of you all

 

[Niffler75]

Hi everyone, checking in!
@Austina We're ok here. Glad to have some aspects of the lockdown eased here. How do you feel about how the government have been managing things? I was concerned to see the photos from London commuting this morning, the overcrowding and no face masks!
@missy Oh gosh it would be great to meet up wouldn't it! We could get other PSers together and descend on your ice cream place near the beach house. I'm glad Greg's knee is up to the cycling. Hasn't he done well. How are you generally and your fatigue levels?
@Jimmianne Oooh new ring? Excited to see pics.
@Keeliamira How are you feeling? Keen to know if you are ok.
@mrs-b Thoughts outgoing lovely lady.
@Slick1 Thinking about you.
I love these boards and how everyone rallies around to support each other!

Not that much happening here. I am getting on with the GIA coloured stones course. My colour change YAG arrived! It is absolutely beautiful!

 

[Austina]

Wow, it’s lovely @Niffler75.

Honestly, I don’t think they could’ve really done things much differently. They were being guided by the scientists who told them to try herd immunity, and when that didn‘t work, they introduced the lockdown. They can’t be responsible for people’s stupidity in not heeding advice about social distancing and wearing masks. I’m sure it was difficult to get masks originally, as they were all needed for the health workers, and rightly so, but it’s not that hard to get masks now, or simply cover your face, there’s no need for anyone to be going in to busy situations without covering up. This has been a steep learning curve for everyone, and it seems science on the virus is changing and evolving day by day. I think they’re right to be cautious about easing the restrictions, look what’s happened in Germany. In hindsight, there are always things that could’ve been done differently, but no government has had to deal with anything like this, and let’s hope they don’t have to again. I’m getting fed up with people saying but look at S Korea. The difference is, they were told to stay home and they did, they were told they had to have the track and trace app, and they did, no whining about their freedoms being taken away, or intrusion in to their privacy. People can’t have it all ways, they either comply, or accept the consequences. The sad thing is, those people are probably the ones who have been out spreading the virus without a thought for the old or vulnerable. I think care homes need to take some responsibility for the problems they have, the vast majority are privately run, charging huge sums of money, ultimately they have to accept that they should’ve made provisions to get PPE for their staff, stopped visitors as soon as the virus hit, and ensured residents were kept apart. Every clip I’ve seen of care homes, the residents are all sitting around together. The media have done nothing but try to score points, asking the same questions day in and day out, we don’t need that kind of negativity, why aren’t the reporting about the people who’ve recovered, the fact that we haven’t needed the 4000 beds at the Nightingale in London, the fact that the NHS hasn’t been overwhelmed? I think it would go a long way to give people hope that we’re going to get through this as long as we all pull together and help each other. Well you did ask

 

[canuk-gal]

HI:

Healing vibes across the miles @Slick1 and to all those who need hugs and such....

kind regards--Sharon

 

[canuk-gal]

HI:

@missy cool boots but you knew that anyway. Too funny about the roof guy: we were cycling today and I recognized our handyman....on someone else roof! We had a lovely chat, it was so nice to see him. He does gorgeous work and I need him for a few projects. The nicest man, an artist. When he was here last (painting) he was telling me about whites and I had NO idea!! White is white is white? Nope!

@junebug17 hope things are fine with you at the beach.

18K ride and a short walk on a fine day. The Rockies are still HUGE white with snow, look gorgeous. But our grass could use a few rain showers.

Shout out to all NIRDI's!! I don't mention everyone by name but I hold ALL OF YOU IN MY HEART.

cheers--Sharon

 

[marcy]

Good news - bad news. My earrings are done and ready to ship. They sent me a snapshot and I quickly noticed they are on wires instead of lever backs. They are going to fix them. Maybe I'll get them Friday or Saturday.

 

[missy]

Good news - bad news. My earrings are done and ready to ship. They sent me a snapshot and I quickly noticed they are on wires instead of lever backs. They are going to fix them. Maybe I'll get them Friday or Saturday.

Love them @marcy. I’m sorry they got the ear wire /leverback wrong but once they fix them it will be perfect.

 

[marcy]

Hi NIRDI’s!

@springerspaniel I hope you are doing well.

@missy love the kitties socially distancing on the bed. Sweet it’s not crowded there for walks. Loving all of your gorgeous pictures especially the sunrise and also the very nice tribute to 9/11. Ooh Bubbalah. Darn for getting caught in the rain.

@Niffler75 sorry to hear your body doesn’t like summer weather. Cool looking YAG especially being a color change. I hope you are having a good day. I think the “times” have darkened everyone’s moods. I had a case of the crankies yesterday.

@Sunstorm great to see you and your gorgeous yellow diamond avatar. How fun to be doing a house remodel and your birthday ring sounds fabulous. I hope you’ll post pictures.

@Tekate from what I can tell (like I can read floor plan drawings) your house will be fabulous. Nice you got to see Mike, Cara and Auti for Mother’s Day. Their new house looks fabulous.

@Scandinavian good question how the kitty got up there - I thought that myself when I saw it. LOL to “that’s just plain mean posting a cake”. I swear I’m making cheesecake SOON. I’m with you on masks; I can’t take them. Thank goodness I live in a state with a low population.

@canuk-gal I haven’t watched To Sir With Love for years. It is a great movie. And that song is now playing in my head; it distracts me from the voices for a while. We’ve still got lots of snow in the Rockies around here too. There has been a pickup buried in snow up near where my parents had a cabin since October. They keep posting pictures no FB of the snow going down; it isn’t coming out anytime soon.

@Austina it looks like restrictions are opening up there a bit. Our restaurants can open with limited seating on Friday. Darn I forgot to have the puppy wipe down the bar he used. Marty sprays them all the time though. Sorry to hear it was hard to get enough blood for the antibody test; we have them here finally. Reading how difficult it was to get your finger bleeding I chuckled thinking heck I’d just go cut up some potatoes or something; my luck with knifes I would have plenty of that red stuff for the test. I hope things will be calmed down enough Adam can still come visit as planned. That bracelet looks very nice and hope the vide gives you a better idea.

@AV_ nice to have some rain and some delicious stew. Sounds good and relaxing.

@Slick1I am so sorry to hear about your sweet pooch; I know he has shared lots of love with you. Big hugs to you and him. Oh no for snow.

@Jimmianne how are you doing? Marty might be going to France for work. I thought of you when he mentioned it.

@bling_dream19 I am glad you had a better day. I still want cheesecake. Yours looks so good. Oooh to having an 11 stone band on the way. Sounds pretty. Speaking of cleaning once I post this all my doors are getting dusted. I saw a speck on one yesterday. The nerve!!!

@Mamabean sorry you have been putting out fires; I hope today was better for you. The iPhone 11 is a great phone. I hope you love it. That is too bad the take out wasn’t well organized; we’ve had good luck here. I am so glad Shatzie comes to visit every weekend. Take care of you.

@Daisys and Diamonds nice restrictions are lifting there. Nice you can pet dogs and cats again.

We had heavy fog yesterday and chilly weather. It’s pretty nice today but there might be rain and hail this evening.

I've been watching season 1 of Yellowstone. I am a total fan of that show. Season 3 starts next month so I hope they air Season 2 between now and then so I'll be all caught up.

Still no word on when we'll be going back to work. We had to submit a justification to replace my employee that is quitting on Friday. We had a meeting with HR today to answer questions why we need to replace her, he said we should rewrite what we submitted and he’s see then.

Take care.
Marcy

 

[marcy]

I don't want to keep you in suspense; i did dust all 23 doors upstairs here and my Swiffer tells me they needed it more than I thought. Tomorrow that walk in closet will face the wrath of my Swiffer. And I feel like sneezing.