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Calling all the Pregnant PS''ers

Sweetpea, you''re right - come December/January, we should be like a neat round of dominos. CelloSweet is due right around then, too.
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ChinaCat, what you''re saying is really reassuring - I spent all day today feeling nauseated unless I was full, so I spent all day grazing and feeling ... well, not guilty about it, per se, ''cause I''d rather be fat and sassy than horky and light-headed any day of the week, but almost defensive. Sort of like, "Suck it, Baby Book! You are unrealistic and counterproductive!" Probably not helpful if it means I eat *too* much, but it''s staved off any desire to have a late dinner, and thus the "morning" sickness I''ve been having in the evenings all week, so ... yeah. Like you said, I''m just going to try to trust my body and give it what it wants. One thing I''m wondering, though ... you mention working out keeps the pains from getting too bad. I don''t know which stage you''re at in your pregnancy, so I don''t know if you mean regular aches and pains that are a''comin'', or ...? Generally, I walk a lot in lieu of working out, but now I''m wondering if I should step it up ....

PhoenixGirl, you totally just made me feel better: I''ve been freaking out that steady weight gain at the beginning of the pregnancy guarantees equally steady weight gain all throughout. The baby books I''ve been reading really do make it sound like this regimented, monolithic process that is identical for every woman, and they make me feel like I''m somehow doing it *wrong,* which, ugh. I''m with you on starving myself being out of the question - I get light-headed and shocky from low blood sugar at the best of times, so factoring that in to the exhaustion of the first trimester sounds like kind of a sucky idea.

You guys are awesome!
 
mandarine CONGRATS on boys!! i love my little guy to death...there''s just something about having a little mama''s boy, in your case 2 mama''s boys!!
 
A question: can you guys recommend any good pregnancy blogs, websites, or forums? Googling won me A Little Bit Pregnant, which was great, but now that I''m done with the archives, I''m jonesin'' for a fix! More Googling is just proving to me that PS''rs are really lucky in the quality of our posters: the first three sites I''ve found are full of misspellings, people who are allergic to the shift key, and general Circe-oriented irritations. Help?
 
Circe
Welcome and hope you have a healthy and uneventful 9 months.
One of the useful website that most preggos like is babycenter.com

Mandarine
Congrats on team blue!!
That was what I was going to vote
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And I think Peony will be team pink.

Mela and Pandora
Any days now for you two ladies.
I''m checking everyday to see when either one of you don''t check in
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Lots of labor and delivery dust to you both.
 
CDT- I didnt read back into the thread so much, but you are suffering with back pain/sciatica? Have you tried acupuncture? I myself have had good success with it, and have several friends/family members that have as well (that had various problems when preggo). Look into good acupuncturists in your area and give it a try. I really think it helps.
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Good luck, Im so sorry you're dealing with this. Chronic pain is just the worst thing EVER.
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Mandarine- Congratulations!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

I have two little boys close in age (21 months apart) and they are definitely each other''s best friend (and on some days, each other''s worst enemy! lol). Boys are so much fun! Congratulations again!
 
I just have time to do a quick check in on Mela and Pandora. Hope you are both hanging in there! Can''t wait to hear your birth stories and see pictures! I''m doing well and getting into the swing of things. Still BFing, but there are times I want to quit! We have her doc appointment this morning, so I''m looking forward to seeing how much weight she has gained.
 
Hey ladies, someone posted this site on the bump for bravado nursing tanks (I''ve heard rave reviews of these tanks) and I wanted to share. http://breakoutbras.stores.yahoo.net/bresnubrata.html. It''s free shipping and if you use coupon code BB39702 you get 15% off. I just ordered one and the total was $34.42! The same one is $50 at Target!
 
Hi All,

Still here... and slightly better mooded - although the 2-3 hours sleep a night are irritating, especially as I''d like to stock up on sleep now since there won''t be a lot once Daisy''s here.

My parents just came up for the day and it was lovely to see them - my mother brought me some gorgeous baby cardigans. I didn''t have any so that was doubly sweet of her. I also got the seal of approval on all the baby stuff - especially the stroller and of all things the changing mat that even my father was really intrigued by...
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We went for an amble along the river to a nice pub for lunch - and the rain managed to merely threaten, sad as we have had 3 weeks of glorious sunshine.

I decided to make the most of my last few days of being baby-free and went to poker last night. I hadn''t been in about 7-8 weeks, and they were all horrified how much bigger the bump was! I think I had them all terrified last night - it''s about 20 guys and me and one other girl who play regularly (I''ve been playing for about 5 years now), and they were all scared that I might go into labour then and there! Anyway, I came third in the main tournament - final three places all decided on one hand, which I was pretty happy with especially as I went into the final table with less than the big blind as my stack. Anyway, it was financially profitable as well as cheering me up a lot (taking DH out early on was satisfying as well
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Apparently Daisy is welcome to come along in future and can start playing when she''s old enough to count her own chips
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... DH intends to teach her to play pretty early on. Mind you, I never did understand probability until I started gambling - amazing how easy maths suddenly is when you can win $$$!
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My parents pretend to be most disapproving of our gambling, but since the gee gees paid most of my college fees they''re not exactly worried!
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I got a wonderful email from my friend whose wedding it was last week - a copy of the scan photo from Sunday. All perfect and she''s due on the 13th December. I am beyond relieved and happy for them.

Spoke to my OB friend this morning who''s checking in on me every couple of days now. She was suggesting I ask for a sweep tomorrow - she does them at 39.5 weeks for her patients - but I don''t want to risk going into labour over the weekend if I can help it (less anaesthetists on duty!
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). I''m kind of hoping for Monday 18th. Although physically I am SO ready to get this pregnancy over, I think I have so much other stuff going on with all the court papers etc that I''m not just sitting here waiting.

Talking of the court stuff, I finally got a letter from my employer about the maternity benefits that they had got wrong. It was quite funny - they wrote back quoting everything I had said to them, as if it was me that had got it wrong and they were educating me on the law...
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, and then they wished me luck for the arrival of my first ''children'' and hoped the ''births'' went well!
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I wrote back to my lawyer saying I was intrigued to learn I was now having twins - and he sent them a seriously sarcastic email about it, I love my lawyer!

I don''t know if you guys hear much about UK news, but there is loads of scandal going on at the moment over politicians claiming expenses that they shouldn''t. One of the papers has uncovered that the guy who is 100% responsible for my situation is guilty of this to the tune of around $100k. Finding that out made my day - now I just wait to see what happens - I''ve separately sued him as well as my company, so I think he''s having a bad week
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Sorry, have just written an essay here... will let you all know when things happen. I can''t go to hospital until ctx are 3 in 10 minutes, so I''m sure you''ll all have to put up with the early stages with me!

Mela - are you still with us? I am so sure that you will be first! HAPPY BIRTHDAY for today - hoping it''s in all senses!

Pandora
39 weeks 2 days...
 
Forgot to add, HAPPY BIRTHDAY MELA!!!
 
Mornin''!

Mandarine - Love Lucas and Mateo too...
what about these: Luca, Christian, Stefan, Andre / Andres, Valentino, Orlando, Felix, Oscar, Xavier, Rio

If I could, I''d SO name my son Rio. I love it. DH...not so much. He''s pretty stuck on Romeo.
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LittleL - I like Caden, but it''s one of those names that may sound weird on another mother tongue. We have the same "issue" where we want our families to be able to say the name nicely. That''s why we limited our First names to Latin based...and middle names to "anything goes". What about Caden as a middle name? I also don''t *think* that Caden will be the next Madison, but you never know. I just watched "the baby story" and saw a little baby girl born named "Luna" and I almost died. I really really don''t want Luna to be the next Madison.
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Happy Birthday to me! It''s also my best girl friend''s birthday. Our 19th year together
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I asked Middie yesterday what the odds of having the baby today were (babies are born a week early all the time, right?)...so she did an internal.

Zero dialation
Zero effacement
FIrm cervix

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She said at that rate I can plan on a June baby!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
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Naturally I''m disappointed. With all the cramps and deep pressure pains I''ve been having, I thought *maybe* it would be sooner than later. But nope. She said only a miracle would bring this baby out soon.

So, I''m going to go for lunch with my BFF and try to "forget" about the fact that I''m one day away from 39 weeks, and just enjoy my day.
Sorry for the "touch of Debbie Downer". I am just SO ready to meet my baby.
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Have a great day girls!
Mela
39 weeks tomorrow.
 
Congrats Mandarine! I was dead wrong on that one. How exciting that you get to know already. We won''t find out until the first week in July and I am already dying to know.

Lysser - My BFF just named her little boy born in March Caden. I had never heard of the name before she used it, but apparently I am the only one. I have heard since then that apparently all the names ending in "-aden", such as Caden, Aidan and Hayden are super popular right now. That said, I do really like the name and he''s the most precious little boy ever.

Mela - Happy B-day. Hoping your little one makes an appearance today.
 
Mandarine: Congrats on team blue!!! A close friend of mine has twin boys and they are beyond adorable. I am kinda jealous--2 of my little guy would be SO much work, but so sweet
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Phenoix--i had a snoogle and used it every night! It was great. I'll have to order a new one for my second pregnancy b/c there are tears in mine and it is squished beyond recovery
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I saw that TLC program "I didn't know i was pregnant" last night (i think there was a thread on that show at some point) CRaaazy. I still can't really fathom NOT knowing i was pregnant --but here were several examples of how it could happen. The craziest one was the women who delivered her first twin in a toilet bowl. TWINS!?! A TOTAL SURPRISE?!?! eeeks
 
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mela, don't be so sure. At my 39wk appointment I was told zero effacement, zero progress, "you have a long way to go." I ignored a lot of tell tale signs as a result. Well I never made it to my 40wks appointment (had her that day). So you never know--make sure you have your bag ready (unlike me)! Happy B'day!!

mandarine: I love Lucas and Mateo too. It's a nice combination. Mateo just sounds so "mandarine" to me. But then again, I thought mandarine would have 2 girls! ;). You and yoru DH have completely different tastes in names btw!! My little one's name has moved up in the Soc Sec list meanwhile..geesh, it seems unique to me, but it made a jump!!
 
Mandarine, CONGRATULATIONS!!! My guess was wrong but I think 2 boys will be a lot of fun. I have a friend with boys named Diego and Mateo so I love both of those but also love Lucas--that would have been our boy name if we had a boy. Hope you''re feeling well and congratulations again!
 
HAPPY BIRTHDAY DEAR MELA, HAPPY BIRTHDAY TO YOU!
Also, like Janine said, don''t be too down about your progress. My girlfriend went in for a check up 4wks before her due date and got the same info you did, she went into labor that night. FX for you!!!
 
Happy Birthday Mela!!
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Thanks to everyone for reassuring me about the uterine pains/stretching. Hopefully it's just that!!

Lysser: Caden is very popular (LOTS of -en names are right now), but it's no Aiden or Brayden or Jayden.
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If you like it, go for it!

Sunkist: Good to hear from you! Even though I'm only 1.5 weeks behind Mandarine I don't get ultrasounds as frequently as her so our next one might not be until the big anatomy scan at 20-22 weeks. We'll see! At first our plan was for DH to find out the sex but for him to keep it a surprise (an unusual arrangement, but I REALLY didn't want to know and he REALLY did want to know, so I think it could have worked out). Now I think we may find out because it's twins and I would like to have a little more time for planning (name picking, bargain-hunting, etc) beforehand. He is just so darn excited about finding out that it's definitely starting to influence me. We'll see! Is your first ultrasound going to be at 11-13 weeks with the NT scan? I know that you're dying to see the baby!
 
Thanks everyone!!!!!!

I''m kind of running today because I have to get ready for my trip! We''re doing a "Sisters'' Trip". Me and my older sister are heading out to Colorado to meet up with the younger one (I''m the middle!). I am so excited, they are my best friends so this is going to be a blast!! I won''t post much until I return!!!

I''m happy you guys love some of my names...if only DH agreed with me on ANY of those
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. Yesterday he said he wasn''t sure about Lucas anymore, which one of the ones we had in common!. He also said he would go with Matthew, but not Mateo....this is not going to be easy. He likes very common american names...and I need my family to be able to say the names!...ugh. I''ll have to keep working on him
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In the meantime, here is a silly picture next to the "gender board" we had up in the kitchen!!...I also have the "money shots", but not much to see...otehr than legs and well, the "goods"
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. Did I mention baby A was sucking his thumb??
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. We also got to see them in 3D! It was really cool!



Happy Birthday Mela!!!!!
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Mela - Happy Birthday!!! Another Taurus!!! Taurus unite
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Pandora - thanks on the suggest! I see my doc today, so I''ll get their opinion on the TENS machine.

Dani - Actually the sciatica is just the new ailment of this pregnancy
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I had kidney stones at week 30 and they had to put a stent in until I delivery....so that pain is HORRIBLE! And then new pain of what I think is sciatica is making me miserable....maybe I should look into accupuncture for the pain mgmt.

Lysser - I hope your friend is right! Actually my BFF had a horrible pregnancy (incompetant cervix) and had a super quick labor..so maybe your friend is on to something!! I like the name Caden, actually just this week my DH and I added Cade to our short list of names.

Well I just got back from a prenatal massage and my hip and back feel much better, not perfect but much less pain then before...i''m going next week as well.

35 weeks today!!! I CAN DO THIS
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Acupuncture is worth a go - I use it all the time for my back and it''s very effective on muscle spasm, which easy to get especially on bed-rest and even more so if you try to be a martyr with pain as you will set up a vicious cycle where your muscles will react in response to how you hold yourself because you are in pain. The muscles are then likely to spasm and cause more pain and round and round it goes...
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I''m someone who doesn''t enjoy the sensation of acupuncture at all - it''s not painful just odd - and so I normally use a TENS while it''s being done so that I don''t feel the ''electric'' feeling between points (or that''s how I describe it).
 
Pandora - I wonder if i can handle accupuncture, I''ve always been curious, but a friend of mine tried it and had an anxiety attack on the table and begged to take the needles out!!! Her story freaks me out...she said it didn''t hurt, but was just too odd for her and she couldn''t take it...started hyperventiliating and everything...scary!
 
cdt YES YOU CAN!

happy bday mela!

phoenix - i think you are my pg twin.. every symptom you''ve posted about i just nod in agreement over here in infrequent poster land. i couldn''t look at a vegetable for the first 12 weeks.. and that''s all that i used to eat at lunch! so weird.. but give me some carbs and cheese and i would be your best friend.

re: working out/running. i was also an avid runner. since week 8 nada, zilch, nothing. instead i walk briskly on the treadmill and work the incline. my midwife never said "don''t run" - but she did say i shouldn''t be exerting myself like i would have prior to getting KU - and if you haven''t been running a lot, it''s really not the time to start up, know what i mean? you really have to watch your heart rate.. i suggest getting a heart rate monitor. my trainer checks it religiously when we work out together and makes me sit down if it gets too high. we are still doing modified crunches (on the bosu or ball - or knee ups in the chair). all of my other upper body work is either on the incline bench or using a machine.. never laying down. when in doubt ask your dr. what they recommend for you. i hope to continue to work out with my trainer up until the end. i''m also signed up for a prenatal yoga class that starts in june and i do a prenatal pilates tape.

lysser - if you are *really* asking people to be honest.. i don''t looooooovvveeee caden, but i like more traditional names so my opinion doesn''t amount to a hill of beans :P it sounds like someone wanted use aiden, but changed it to caden. but i do like the name hayden - i''m a goof. a similar sounding name that seem slightly more traditional is caleb?
 
cdt-
you could totally do acupuncture! you just need to focus on how great you will/are feel during/after the procedure and not what is *actually* happening. it is seriously amazing!
plus, you really can''t feel the needles - i swear!- close your eyes, relax and you won''t be any wiser.
 
Happy Birthday, mela! I don't know anything about progress or how fast it can happen, but the other ladies around here seem pretty optimistic, so that's a good sign! I guess it can (and does!) happen faster than we think.

Lysser- I prefer Cade, but like Peony, I like Caden more than the most of the other names that rhyme. If you love it, you should absolutely use it!

cdt- I'm glad to hear the massage helped!

Pandora- Look at you- third in the poker tournament! Heck yeah! Poker is so much fun, isn't it? I used to play with a group of guy friends in college, and I really miss it.

32 weeks today! I was feeling a lot of pain around 4:00 a.m. this morning, so I went to sit in the bathroom to keep from waking DH. At one point, I placed my hand over the sore spot and felt a little foot shift. At first, I was like, "AH HA!" and then I couldn't get over how cute that little foot felt. I just wish he'd reposition those little feet...for a few days, at least? Please?

I really wish I had a hamburger right now. With extra pickles. A mountain of pickles. Such a cliche.
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Congrats Mandarine!! I feel your pain on trying to agree on names. Boy names were so hard for us.

littlelysser~One of our top boy names is Kade. I originally liked Kaden as well but DH vetoed it but liked Kade instead.
 
Can''t remember who asked but....I also visit another website...babyzone.com, They have due date club forums and they are lovely. It''s great to share advice and get answers to questions from people who are at the exact same moment in pregnancy.
 
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Pandora - I wonder if i can handle accupuncture, I''ve always been curious, but a friend of mine tried it and had an anxiety attack on the table and begged to take the needles out!!! Her story freaks me out...she said it didn''t hurt, but was just too odd for her and she couldn''t take it...started hyperventiliating and everything...scary!
Absolutely!

To put the needles in - which are incredibly fine - they put a plastic tube against your skin and flick them in, so it''s not like having blood drawn or someone standing over you with a load of sewing needles. 9 times out of 10 you barely feel them - once in a while you''ll get one that hits a sensitive point, and that can be sore, if so just tell the therapist and they will take it out and put another in a slightly different point.

As the muscles start to relax the therapist will sometimes need to reposition the needles as they start to fall - but you can honestly barely feel it (trust me I am a wuss and would tell you if it hurt!).

The feeling I dislike is just a strange one that not everyone seems to feel - and the TENS blocks it out for me.

Most people find it quite relaxing - I used to fall asleep quite often. I''ve never heard of anyone freaking out before!
 
So Cal- I felt kicks really late, like maybe 22 or even 24 weeks? I do have an anterior placenta, which just means my placenta is in front of my uterus rather than behind, so the kicks are muffled in the beginning. If you don''t feel them by your next appointment, ask. They can tell at your next u/s. I was worried too, but again everyone is different. Now I feel them all the time and they are so strong.

Phoenix- I still do stuff on my back. I kept reading not to after the 1st tri, then I read no it''s after the 2nd tri, and finally I asked my doctor for clarification. Basically, it just will get really uncomfortable for you when you get bigger b/c the uterus will compress a vein and it might make you short of breath or dizzy or light-headed. She said as long as it didn''t bother me, then don''t worry about it. It hasn''t bothered me yet and I still do modified pilates on my back- but I just make sure to sit up every minute or so just to be sure. I don''t do abs stuff at all though, but I do chest stuff with weights on an incline. So I think just listen to your body.

Lysser- I don''t let myself go down that anxiety road, but I can understand the temptation. Watching the news has become unbearable for me, especially anything to do with kids or animals. Momma instinct kicking in big-time. I do understand those thoughts, but I just try to remember that there is always something terrible to worry about, but there is a lot of good still in the world. And I just have to trust that my DH and I will be the best parents we can and that our kid will have a great life. It''s all we can do. Career-wise, I''m not sure. The only thing I really want to do is write full-time. I don''t really have any desire to switch a law career for some other type of office/corporate job. I like what I do and get paid well enough that unless I am going to be serious about writing, this is a good gig for me. Problem with writing is you have to actually be talented, and also there is no career path per se. So if I stay home "to write", what does that mean? I would have to actually do it and that''s a bit scary. We''ll see. DH is very supportive of that if that''s what I want to do.

Caden/Abraham: Well I don''t think Caden alone is that trendy, but I do think it falls into the "aden" trend, which is pretty trendy right now (Aden, Braden, Jaden, etc). I think it is the least trendy of that bunch, and I also
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Cade. Generally, I try to stay away from that trendy crowd, but I also feel like if you love it, then who cares. I like the name itself. I do, however, really love Brahm as a nickname for Abraham. Very cool!!!!

Mela- HAPPY BIRTHDAY GIRL!!!!!
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Circe: RE: aches/pains and working out: Well, I think it is different for everyone. For me, I have noticed that when I don''t workout (pilates or light weights) then I feel a lot slower, heavier, have less energy and have more aches in my lower back, hips and sciatic pain. When I keep up the work-outs, I feel tons better and the aches seem to be lesser and come less often. I don''t do a lot of cardio, try to walk as much as possible but that''s it. Weirdly, walking does seem to be harder and sometimes I come back achy in weird places. Oh, and I am 27 weeks if that helps.

CDT-
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for 35 weeks!!!! Yes, you CAN do this. I have done acupuncture and it was wonderful and relaxing. Can''t even feel the needles. It is a bit strange at first, but just don''t think about it.

Ebree- Pickles, hmmm? I just had some FRIED PICKLES at lunch, and nope, I don''t feel bad about it!!! Aren''t you getting a burger today, or was that yesterday?
 
Happy Birthday, Mela!

Congrats on the twin BOYS, Mandarine! How exciting!!!

Well, I went in for my second apointment today (9w6d). We were so excited to finally hear the heartbeat! The bad news is she couldn''t find it because of my tilted uterus, which I knew could prevent us from hearing it. The good news is we then got a transvaginal u/s and everything looks great!!! The HB was 162 bpm and she said the baby is measuring exactly at 10 weeks. What a huge relief!!! We even got some pictures. I am sooo glad that wait is over. I posted a few weeks ago because I was worried since I was having so few pg symptoms and feeling really good. I can''t believe there really is a baby growing in there!

We haven''t told anybody yet, as I am overly cautious. Now I feel llke we can finally spill the beans. Happy day!
 
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